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writes:Hi, I'm 16 and I just want to ask if it's okay to have a crush with an 11 year old...I'm not sexually attracted to her... maybe it's something else I'm infatuated about... maybe her attitude, happy disposition or whatever... anyway if this is sexual attraction then I should've felt it with other girls of her age right? But no, I only felt attracted to her when I first saw her. I first saw her more than 4 months ago and I can't get her out of my head even if I haven't seen her for 2 months..I'm a little confused right now and I'd like to hear others' opinions. One thing I know is I'm not interested in having sex with her, who'd want to have sex with a girl with undeveloped parts anyway...If I have to wait... I'd be willing to... thanks...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2012): Hey guys! I'm the guy who posted this question!
Anyway, I just want to thank you guys. I'm 20 now and I have a 19 year old girlfriend whom I love so much! I guess that what I experienced before was just some hormonal surge or something; or maybe jolly girls are just my type.
Thanks again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): yeah, it's hard to believe right?
but i don't believe that love is all sex... well, that's what i hear... but.. come what may...
about distancing myself from her, i haven't seen her for months already but i still can't get her off my head... it's really getting confusing ya know...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): I find it hard to belive that you aren't sexually attracted to her. After all, that is the definition of a crush. She is too young. And I don't see how you'd be able to wait 5 years for her when you are young yourself & don't even know where she will be in 5 yrs. or where you'll be. Just move on, start dating a girl your age. This is nothing but trouble for both of you & if you did have sex with her, that's considered statutory rape or something more serious. Please distance yourself from seeing her & eventually you'll be able to get over her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): well i dunno if i'm confused... i think i like her... by her face and her actions, but not her body at this time... i get those feelings when i'm near her - feelings like, being shy, silent and having difficulty in moving...but yeah i'm still willing to wait, i wanna find out how this'll turn out to be... thanx for the replies...@female anonymousi'm not willing to date her coz it might look odd... that's why i'm willing to wait... it's just, that... i'm just really infatuated...
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reader, GoddamnedROCKSTAR  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Well, you say you don't feel sexual feelings for her, well, maybe it isn't a crush. Maybe you just like how she handles herself and attitude, like you mentioned in your question. I think maybe you have friendship confused with a crush.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): no. this is very very wrong, and illegal! are u sure u dont just feel friendship? if u cant stop urself, u will have to wait until u are 21 and she is 16. even then mate, u are cradle robbing. just DONT DO IT.
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