What are my chances with this girl from another country in an LDR and despite her family and her health issues?
Q. I am 43 and live in ,Greece I met A from another country online on Facebook in February 2012. We had common musical tastes and met in a group dedicated to such music. After a few initial messages on FaceBook, we became closer and closer. At so...
A. 16 October 2012: Thank you for answers...I have tried to edit the question so as to get more replies and stike to the root of the problem...... (read in full...)
Dating older men...
Q. I'm in a crazy relationship, he's 36 and I'm 25 we met about 5 months ago. We've been living together from day 1 so he can get on his feet. He got on his feet has 2 jobs paying the bills and taking care of me and my son. He's a good man but we ...
A. 2 February 2010: DO you really think the problem is that he is older than you? The difficulties stem from his jealous nature and that will not change, whether he is with a 25 year old woman or a 45 year old one...Your age difference is 11 years and while it is not a ... (read in full...)
He's much older than me..will this be a problem?
Q. I am carrying this kind of problem everyday. I am confused and i don't know what is best and right to do. I currently having a relationship with a guy who is older than me and separated from him wife. I am 23 years old and he is 50 years of age....
A. 2 February 2010: Look, I have dated women who were younger, but in my opinion this age difference is extreme... You are only 23 and he is 50. That is a 27 year difference! 27 is 1/3 of a person's life! He will be gone and you will be alone for many,many years! We ... (read in full...)
Her engagement is broken, how do I proceed?
Q. Hello everybody, I(39) met a lady(Denise,27) about 2 weeks ago. I hired her for for a part time position in a small business I own. During the first week, she shows great enthusiasm and seems very diligent in her work. She also seems like a ve...
A. 20 October 2009: Well, I'd like to thank all of you for the advice.
I understand that many people are against mixing business with pleasure and it is a logical course of action.
Then again, sometimes you have to take risks and follow your feelings.
I will let thi... (read in full...)
I am attracted to the friend of a lady I dated for a bit - What do I do?
Q. Last summer, I(38) went out 5-6 times with a lady, Susan(33). However, things between us didn't work out; she was "not ready for anything heavy due to a busy schedule" I kept in contact ,discreetly,but nothing came of it. Around January 10th,...
A. 2 February 2009: Yes, I understand their friendship, but NOTHING happened between me and Susan. We just dated 5-6 times. And it was Susan who didn't want to continue. Why would me dating Vivian stress their friendship?... (read in full...)
Am I better to move on and see her only as a friend or stick in there and try to work it out?
Q. Previously my girlfriend and I were living together until when out one night she grabbed a strangers crotch when I was away from the table we were sitting at. She claims there is nothing worng with what happened. Upon arriving home I told her to ...
A. 1 February 2009: No matter which way you look at it, your girlfriend grabbing a stranger's crotch is not a good thing. What reason did she give for her action? Had she seen the crotch before and wanted to feel it to make sure? Seriously, I don't see much to... (read in full...)
I don't want to get sucked back into this situation... but what do I do about this?
Q. Susan(32) is a woman that I dated for a while last summer. I tried to form a relationship with her but she was indecisive and ultimately, nothing happened (You can see my other questions for the situation). [moderator note: it would be helpful ...
A. 5 January 2009: Dear Glow,
I can't be friends with a person I have romantic feelings for.
It just doesn't work.
And the feelings are too recent to just put away or discard.
If I choose to become "friends" with Susan, I will end up wanting much more and wi... (read in full...)
How can I tastefully approach this young woman?
Q. Hello everyone! I have known a young lady, Vivian(22) in September who works in the same field as I do(we met at a trade exhibition). I recommended her to some students for lessons(she tutors privately), and we see each other on a weekly basis ...
A. 30 November 2008: Thank you for your advice. I will go ahead and ask her out to a play. It is just that I am a bit hesitant because of her age and the fact that I don't know if she has a BF. Still, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Thanks!... (read in full...)
Forming a relationship with a church-going lady?
Q. Susan(32) is a woman I met last year (September 2007) and we went out for a couple of weeks in Early to mid June. The dating started when a mutual friend suggested I ask Susan out as Susan had told her she found me attractive. We dated a coup...
A. 6 November 2008: UPDATE 3
I didn't go to Church this evening(It was at 6:30pm) due to a cold.
Susan calls me at 8:00pm(after the pastor's talk) and asks where I was. She jokes about my absence and says that maybe we could go for a drink I respond that I am do... (read in full...)
Forming a relationship with a church-going lady?
Q. Susan(32) is a woman I met last year (September 2007) and we went out for a couple of weeks in Early to mid June. The dating started when a mutual friend suggested I ask Susan out as Susan had told her she found me attractive. We dated a coup...
A. 5 November 2008: UPDATE 2
I went to Susan's church two times on a Thursday(Oct 23 and 30). I heard her pastor speak, and I found his talks interesting.
She found out about it(she didn't come herself as she is busy at work at 6:30 on Thursdays) from our common f... (read in full...)
Forming a relationship with a church-going lady?
Q. Susan(32) is a woman I met last year (September 2007) and we went out for a couple of weeks in Early to mid June. The dating started when a mutual friend suggested I ask Susan out as Susan had told her she found me attractive. We dated a coup...
A. 22 October 2008: UPDATE - I really need some advice folks!
I called Susan on Monday, but we were both busy and it seemed difficult to get in touch. I called Susan later in the evening but she didn't call back. She called on Tuesday.
I asked her out to dinner th... (read in full...)
Can a 37 year old and a 23 year old ever work?
Q. Am I too young for this man? He is 37, I am 23. Any successes or snafus to avoid? Would this deter him from making a move on me? ...
A. 27 September 2008: I am 39 and am presently dating a young lady who is 21.
I understand our age difference as does she, but we enjoy being together and have fun.
I don't if it will last, but that doesn't matter to me because I have seen friends get married under th... (read in full...)
Is this 15 year age gap a problem or not?
Q. hello right i have started seeing a man who is 15 years younger than me i am in my 40s and he is in his 20s. we work closly together and have a fantastic relationship, he is sweet and kind and gets on great with my children, he is just perfect all ...
A. 11 September 2008: I think the odds are against this relationship working on a long term basis, but.... that is not written in stone.
I think the relationship can work short term for the next 5 years or so.
After that he will have hit 30 and may start seeing things d... (read in full...)
She won't kiss me in spite of an on-again off-again romance. SHould I push the issue?
Q. I started dating a colleague of mine in late May. She is in different departments, so we don't really affect each other or see each other much. I had asked her out in October of last year, but she was in a relationship. I May 2008, I found out f...
A. 22 August 2008: Thanks for reading CuriousbyNature.
This exactly is my problem. I find it difficult to believe that a woman will take things so slowly YET be interested in a man.
To my mind, it seems as if she is still considering whether to have a relations... (read in full...)
Shes in a relationship of 7 years, but always ends up close to me at meetings, she is always chatting and flirting with me, is she actually interested in me ? (long)
Q. Flirting with a taken woman? I have been in an amateur theater group for about 2 years. Last November(2005), some new members joined our group; one was a young woman, Jessica. From the first moment we saw each other, we engaged in intense, eye con...
A. 14 June 2006: Update - I have called her ad arraged to have coffee. Over the course of some conversation, I will try to sort out the situation.... (read in full...)
I would like to sleep with my boyfriend...should I tell him I'm a virgin?
Q. This is a bit of a silly question, I'm embarrassed to ask but I really want to know. I'm a 23 yr old virgin, recently started seeing a guy I'm crazy about and ready to sleep with, and wondering how to tell him about my lack of 'bedroom experience.' ...
A. 13 June 2006: As a guy, I can tell you that it is a big turn on to know that I'm with a virgin. Your boyfriend is a lucky dude!... (read in full...)
Our sex life is a disaster zone, help
Q. ive been with my boyfriend now for 2 years and we love and trust eachother deeply. we have a great relationship in every way except sexual. we where fine at the start for a few months then it just got less and less often.neither of us has a very ...
A. 13 June 2006: The first question that springs to mind is if both of you actually have a low libido? In such cases, it is usually one of the two with a problem, and the other is perservering. For example, it seems to me as if you are complaining about the lack of ... (read in full...)
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