I want to know whats going on inside her head
Q. well here we go again! i wrote to this column almost 1 year ago to the date. my girl and i did get back together. i received some great advice but unfortunately ive found myself back in a situation again. it may help you to search my previous ...
A. 19 March 2009: You poor thing... I confess I've been in your shoes and hers. She's currently in the stage of confusion, where you don't know what you want any more or what to say. She's still in love with you, she knows you still love her, but there's this huge ... (read in full...)
Where Did I Go Wrong With My Boyfriend In This Situation?
Q. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We’ve had our ups and downs which involved him cheating and me finding out, but we worked things out. Things have been going well until he suddenly began to distance himself from me. The communication bega...
A. 19 March 2009: Truth be told? I would have been just as annoyed. I made it clear that I regretted what had happened and didn't want to talk about it because it would hurt me and yet you still went snooping. Guys and their privacy is a very weird thing. We're ... (read in full...)
I'm scared his sister will succeed in this petty cunning attempt!
Q. Hi everyone, I've been scratching my head and pacing back and forth over this situation all day as I've never really had this problem before (and ive had a few dramas in my life). I've been with my bf for over 10 months now and we have recently...
A. 19 March 2009: Hmm... Well, this is... surprising from an 18 year old! I think you need to chat to his sister and see what's going on. It's clear that her friend wants to go out with your boyfriend and that she's doing as much as she can to help her, but if both ... (read in full...)
I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female.
Q. Ok, the short end of the story is that I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female. I didn't realise she was 14 when I met her, I honestly thought she was 18 because she could easily have passed for a university stu...
A. 19 March 2009: I'm sorry my friend, but... You've got to think about from the girl's perspective. Yes once you're older it's no problem whatsoever, as you said, the 50 year old and the 44 year old. However you're almost 1 and a half times her age, you're at very ... (read in full...)
An aspiring drama actor in an awkward scene
Q. hello aunty,I am an aspiring drama actor,recently I have done some good plays and an upcoming actor..last week I was offered a lead role in a drama,which has a romantic story..but this time I have been paired against my sister -in-law,(my 2nd ...
A. 19 March 2009: Forgive me if this sounds insensitive, but I thought the whole point of acting was to be able to ignore everything else and make the play real? It won't be that awkward, you're not the person with feelings for her and she's not the one with feelings ... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever felt that they can never get over their ex
Q. Has anyone ever felt that they can never get over their ex.My ex was the love of my life. I am in a relationship right now.I compare every guy to him. Every one else always falls short.I know I am wrong.What can I do?I know there are still feelin...
A. 19 March 2009: Heh... my ex. I don't think a day goes by I don't think of him even though we've both moved on. It's an utter pain, isn't it! It does get a lot easier, though. God, even just a month ago I was so much worse than I am now. Give it time, wounds will ... (read in full...)
Part of me says this is good for him and he needs it.
Q. My boyfriend has been under stress for quite some time from all different angles - work, sick older friend. He is a great guy but can not handle any emotional stress which causes so much DRAMA. (we've been together approx 1 year) We split up got ...
A. 19 March 2009: I'm sorry to say this, but this is what he needs. I can only speak from the point of view of the guy. He just wanted some space and when he needed it the most 2 girls started phoning him and texting him like crazy. It's no surprise that he just ... (read in full...)
Kitchen a good place for sex?
Q. Is the kitchen a good location for sex? Did you do it on the floor, counter, table, chairs, or other places? What positions did you use and enjoy? Was it a fun location for sex? I think it would be fun to make human sundaes with my boyfriend. Us...
A. 19 March 2009: :) While he was cooking, he had just put the casserole in the oven, stood up, I grabbed his shoulder, turned him around, kissed him, kisses lead to more and eventually the 71 position on one of the counters... Fun times...... (read in full...)
It still haunts me, because I am very insecure.
Q. Hey guys, Lets start my story with a brief history of my problem; My girlfriend cheated on me about two months ago, i was devestated, but she claimed it was a big mistake (she made out with somebody at a party.) Anyway she is never in touch w...
A. 19 March 2009: She said it herself, it was a huge mistake that she made (by the sounds of it while drunk) and has done everything she can to rectify. I know it's hard to take this in but you have to accept that it's not your fault, as she said, you're the most ... (read in full...)
Small red spots on penis?
Q. i have like small red spot like sores on the head of my penis. anyone have any idea what it is? i'm confuse and dont want to have to go to the doctor because i'm so embarased. thanks...
A. 19 March 2009: hmm... Only time I've had that was when I went swimming in the sea and got tiny fragments of shells caught up in that netting they put on the inside. All I can suggest is wait, if in 3 days it's not gone down go to a doctor immediately. Sexual ... (read in full...)
Should I come clean or keep it a secret?
Q. hi guys this is me and i need serious help. am tryn to date a very hot gal who is slightly younger than iam but am afraid she may freak out when she discovers my addiction to porn. Should i come clean or keep this addiction as top secret?...
A. 19 March 2009: 3rd date. The 3rd date is the one where the dangerous secrets come out and you see whether the other party can keep going with you despite that or not.
Tell her that there's something you need to say, but that you were too scared in case it drov... (read in full...)
Is it normal to masturbate while watching porn?
Q. sometimes, when i get kind of horny.. i masturbate.. and sometimes i think of sex or i watch porn while i do it, is this normal? do you people do it too? If u are, what age do you do this?...
A. 19 March 2009: Yes. Perfectly normal. I started at 12, I still do at 18. Everybody does except for people in strict relationships or people with moral opposition to the idea of porn. Ask any guy over the age of 16 and I guarantee you that 99.99% of them will hav... (read in full...)
Is it ok for boyfriend to dance with his female friends?
Q. Hi I have a quick question, What are the boundaries for when your boyfriend goes out to the bars with his friends that are mainly girls? He's in a female profession so like 90% of his friends are girls, which I can deal with. I am somewhat of a jea...
A. 19 March 2009: I'm not sure how much this helps but, being a student, I think that dancing is a thing that friends do. Dirty dancing, fair enough, but just dancing? Nothing to be worried about. It's clear that your boyfriend doesn't want to cheat on you; he turn... (read in full...)
Question protected sex with person with HIV
Q. Ok, here's the thing and it's a pretty big thing. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We dated for about four months before we got more intimate. First it was 'making out', then she would give me a 'hand job' for want of a bet...
A. 19 March 2009: OK, I don't know the answer about giving her oral sex, but HIV can only travel through bodily fluids. As long as there is no fluid exchange, there's no risk. Wear a condom, use an oral dam and you can have all the sex you like and you'll never catch ... (read in full...)
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