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My boyfriend says I have a strange discharge; do I need to see a doctor?

Q.   My boyfriend says that besides being overly wet, I sometimes have a "foamy discharge" during sex, which he has never seen before. Does this ever happen or do I need to see a doctor? Thanks....

A.   12 July 2007: i googled "foamy discharge" and got back "bacterial vaginosis" and "trichomoniasis". who knows, if you're not feeling any pain or burning it could be a mild case. don't worry-- vaginas sometimes get imbalanced and this happens. just go see a ... (read in full...)

Why did she break up with me out of the blue?

Q.   My girlfriend of 1yr 1/2 broke up with me after 1 big dance that we both had fun at not directly after but the dance was friday she broke up with me with a note that she didn't even had me herself on monday anyone got any suggestions how i could ask ...

A.   12 July 2007: so you want to know why she broke it off without any warning? she probably has about 5 to 500 reasons, and those reasons most likely have nothing to do with you as a person or boyfriend. her reasons have everything to do with whatever is going on ... (read in full...)

He says he's not 'taking any of my crap' when he's the one that's acting ridiculous

Q.   I am pretty sure that my boyfriend and I had the fight that has totally ended our relationship last night. Now I sit here wondering where I went wrong. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and have been living with him for the past year. ...

A.   12 July 2007: lol that is so funny. sounds like he is projecting. aside from the projection, he's just a young thing and needs to mature some more. has he been like this for the past 2 years? be wise and decide if he'll change or stay like this. it's up to yo... (read in full...)

I'm so insecure, how can I deal with it? I don't want to lose her

Q.   I have a slightly odd problem. I love my gf very much and i'm pretty sure that she loves me back. But i feel very insecure in our relationship and i need her to tell me that she loves me quite often. I also interpret a lot of things she does as ...

A.   12 July 2007: sweetie, distance does not mean rejection, so stop taking it that way. you're being waaay too clingy. you're definitely on the path to losing her. back off and work on your insecurities. i dated a really insecure guy and he didnt let up on me fo... (read in full...)

I expect complete commitment from him, which means no masturbating to pictures of naked women; is this expecting too much?

Q.   Right, this is probably going to sound ridiculous, but it's an issue for me regardless. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. I've just moved back home for the summer and we are now in seperate countries, as was the scenario ...

A.   12 July 2007: yes, it's expecting too much. you know, there are worse things he could be doing. asking him to stop beating off to porn is repressive and is the gateway to him doing that behind your back and could/will move on to him doing other things. ... (read in full...)

We're on a break but I think she's just keeping me handy until she finds a new guy

Q.   ok so she wants space, i wanna know what that means exactly. we've been together for a year now, recently we have had a few fights. the other week she broke it off with me and she says she wants space. i ask if its a break or a break up, she says a ...

A.   12 July 2007: i did this to my ex while we were together. it's very normal and common for a man or woman to want to date other people, and these feelings conflict with her feelings for you. it doesnt mean she doesn't love you, it means her feelings for you ... (read in full...)

Who do I feel attraction to gay guys? (when I'm female!)

Q.   As far as I am aware, I am straight. However, over the last few years, I have started to realise a pattern in the people I feel attracted to. They are, more often than not, gay. I'm entirely for gays and see nothing wrong with it, but this is ...

A.   8 July 2007: you're not ready for a relationship with straight guys. this is evidenced by you're only attracted to and giving attention to men who aren't available to you. at the base of it all you have the same issue as a woman who's only attracted to married ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend (26) has moved in... and he's so messy it's like living with a child!

Q.   Hello all! I wanted advice on what I'm hoping is a fairly common phenomena: My boyfriend of almost a year moved in with me 3 weeks ago.We have been at university together and known each other/seen/dated for 5 years off/on. I am getting in...

A.   8 July 2007: hahaha you sound just like me with my ex. the problem there was he thought he was a neat freak and clean when he wasn't! that cause even more arguments. eventually i just caved and became as messy as he was. we got separate apartments and now he's a ... (read in full...)

I have a huge crush on my spanish teacher

Q.   I have a huge crush on my spanish teacher. I'm 12 and he's in his 20s. It's been about a year since i started liking him. Everytime i see him he always says hi and asks how i am. I blush whenever he talks to me. My friends say that he's a perv but i ...

A.   8 July 2007: it's quite normal to have a crush on your teacher. keep it to yourself and for pete's sake don't act on it!!! if you like the dangerous element of dating someone older, flirt with a boy who's 14 or 15. it's all in your vivid-12-year-ol... (read in full...)

I gave up so much to be with him, and I know I haven't changed, so why does my husband regret marrying me?

Q.   I got married 10/10/2007, gave up my job and moved to be with him in another state, I moved my 2 children as well. 4 months ago we moved to Germany as he is in the Military. Things suddenly started to go down, he told me one day that he married me ...

A.   8 July 2007: rhythmandblues2 has the right idea!!! she covered EVERYTHING. follow her words exactly! I think he doesn't really regret marrying you, he just regrets disrupting your life and seeing you unhappy now. He knows he can't make you happy, you have ... (read in full...)

How do I get my boyfriend to stop spying on me?

Q.   My boyfriend of 1.5 yr won't stop spying on me. He takes my cell phone without my knowledge and reads texts, goes through my recent calls. We have an otherwise great relationship. I want him to trust me. I have done nothing to betray him, yet ...

A.   8 July 2007: i dated a dude for SEVEN years and he was doing the same to me and worse (including installing software on the computer to record keystrokes). please leave him. there's NOTHING you can do to help him get over his insecurities and suspicions. you ... (read in full...)

He really liked me and now he's so cold. What can I do?

Q.   i just dont understand any of this.7 months ago i met a man,he is 40 never been married i'm 43 been in along term relationship which ended some time ago.i wasnt interested in the beginning,but the guy kept phoning me so i gave in and we started ...

A.   8 July 2007: Isis is on the ball!!! If he's 40 and never been married, he probably believes in the myth of "The One", so he doesn't realize that the "crisis of doubt" he experiences whenever he gets deep in a relationship with a woman he cares about is a normal ... (read in full...)

My family tells me to get back together with my baby's father but I'm sleeping with someone else who's taken.

Q.   hello i need help i have a really messed up thing going on!! welll i moved to mexico 3 years ago, i am now 8 months pregnet....i was with my ex boy friend and we broke up i started dating a good friend like 2-3 weeks later im i was not sure who...

A.   8 July 2007: You've got more than just two problems, and it'll take more than a website to fix them. 1. as fate would have it, the one being the complete asshole is always the father. 2. stop sleeping with everyone while you're "prego". these guys dont ... (read in full...)

He divides the time we have between his mates and me. What does this mean?

Q.   started seeing a younger guy recently, he is 24 and I am 30 everything seem's perfect, but he still likes to spend a lot of time with his mate's, I would spend every availible minuite with him, we dont have much time because i have two children, but ...

A.   8 July 2007: he would have never spoken to you (as an older woman with kids) in the first place if he wasn't interested in you, so strike that from your thoughts. you will definitely chase him off by pressuring him to spend more time with you, however. i'm ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is taller than me and I feel very uncomfortable about it.

Q.   Hi. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months now and I love her. However, I have just noticed that she is taller than me. I'm 17 and only about 5'7"ish and I'm really insecure about my height. My girlfriend looks like she is about half an...

A.   8 July 2007: i know you're 17 and it could be difficult, but try to get over this insecurity. besides shorter men have the potentially to look really sexy and confident with tall women-- they give the aura that they tamed an Amazonian woman. yum! most women ... (read in full...)

He asked where he would cum and asked if I could lick it off.

Q.   Me and my boyfriend were discussing oral sex and then I told him I wasn't really ready for oral but I would give him a hand job, so he asked where he would cum and asked if I could lick it off. Would it taste bitter like everyone says because it's ...

A.   8 July 2007: if you're not ready for oral then don't lick anything off. if you're not ready then the cum will be worse to you than the BJ. any sperm-and-mouth activity is considered a "dirty" sex act which is lots of fun for long term partners and folks th... (read in full...)

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