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My girlfriend wants to make love but I'm not ready yet.

Q.   Im 13 and my girlfriend is 14 and she says lets make love i said i want to wait what should i do? a=Do it b=wait Please help...

A.   8 March 2009: In my opinion, let her know that your just wayyy too young. I'm 17 and i still haven't had sex yet. I'm perfectly fine. probably more decent than a lot of guys that have had it.. The longer you wait, the better you feel about yourself in the future. ... (read in full...)

I want to be the reason he stays! I just don't know how to tell him!

Q.   My heart is just breaking. I've wasted to much time not fighting for the man I love. I'm young, yes, but I know my love for him is the real thing. I found out today that his job will be transfering him if he doesn't have a reason to stay... I want ...

A.   6 January 2009: Listen, if you really love this guy, then you shouldn't have to think twice about what you have to do. Just tell him! If he doesn't fell the same way back well then at least you will know that you tried. And you can't blame yourself for that. If ... (read in full...)

Is it okay for someone else to tell your man they love him?

Q.   So ive been having problems with this girl my Boyfriend went to highschol with, shes in a relationship and lives like 200 miles away, so im not worried about him cheating on me with her, plus i look better, anyways this girl has been telling my bf ...

A.   6 January 2009: Well this seems like something that your boyfriend should take care of. He needs to stand up to her and tell her to stop. He should stop contacting her and ignore her until she stops. If it makes you uncomfortable then your boyfriend should be more ... (read in full...)

His ex is pregnant... should I move on?

Q.   What should I do? I fell for a guy who just broke up with is girlfriend. We both fell right away, it was perfect. Then he found out that his ex was pregnant (She has been pregnant for 3 months, he did cheat) with his baby. Should I forget about so...

A.   1 December 2008: Well, if he really cheated on, I'd suggest to move on for now. If you two are really destined to be together, then God will bring you two together in the near or far future. He has a lot to deal with now and it will only get worse for him from now ... (read in full...)

In love and we gave our virginity to each other. So why does her past bother me? All she did was kiss a guy!

Q.   Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 months. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginity...

A.   20 September 2008: i know excatly how you feel. ive been dating this girl for a year now and back in the past she played truth or dare and made out with a guy. what bothers me about it is that it was her first time kissing someone. i got really upset and it really ... (read in full...)

For Men: Questions about women!

Q.   This is kind of a funny question but why do men like to smell women's hair? Is a womens scent attracting to a man? I know that everybody likes someone to smell good but is this like a sign of beauty? This is just a fun question for men what is it i...

A.   4 July 2008: ok well to me.. smell is really attractive. whether its hair, perfume, whatever. idk. when i met my girlfriend, she smelled like this perfume. whenever i smell that perfume on anyone, i think of her. i really dont know why. but us guys just find a ... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: Over 600,000 visitors last month!

Q.   Just a quickie We broke the 600,000 unique users/month (i.e. people!) last month. According to google analytics we had 638,310 visitors from June 1st to June 30th. Doesn't seem that long ago we passed the half a million mark. Thanks to all t...

A.   2 July 2008: Its not surprising! This is the most amazing site i have ever been to. I spend more time on it than myspace! It has saved my butt soo many times. Im positive it has helped over 600,000 more people too!! haha. Congratulations Andrew and everyone... (read in full...)

I want to settle down and have a family, but I also want to enjoy my youth - What do I do?

Q.   I am a 21-year old female. I haven't exactly made the best choices in my life, but I am by no means a disadvantaged person. My problem is this; at such a young age, I see a lot of my friends, siblings, and cousins my age getting married and having ...

A.   2 July 2008: Ok. You need to keep in mind that once you have a baby, your youth is gone. 1 Month is not enough at all to get into something that serious. Before you have a baby, you have to take as much responsibility with what is happening around you first. ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my boyfriend's attitute towards my past?

Q.   when i was very young(a child)i was sexually molested and as a result in adulthood, i went looking for love in all the wrong places. i had sex with men even when i didn't want to, just because i wanted to be loved (not too many, below 10.) sex never ...

A.   2 July 2008: The past scares a lot of people. I know that i have been scared about somethings that happened in my girlfriends past. Although what you have been through sounds a lot worse. But you are good now. You need to explain to him that thats not you ... (read in full...)

Any advice on how to talk to a girl I like without getting so nervous?

Q.   hi. im 14 years old and i like this one girl a lot but whenever i try to talk to her i get really nervous, bt i can talk to other girls just fine. any advice? thanks in advance...

A.   1 July 2008: Don´t think so much of it. Just talk to her. Plan out a conversation before you talk to her. Know what your going to say before you say it. That way you know you wont just blank out and have nothing to say. Start with a hi, and build your way up to ... (read in full...)

How can I make this clingy guy tone it down a bit?

Q.   ive been dating this guy for a month now. and we have been friends for a long time before we have started dating. since we started, he has become very clingy and has been calling me every single day and asking me what i am doing. and tells me he ...

A.   1 July 2008: You know, theres plenty of girls who are flattered by that. Who like that in a guy. I say if you dont like him how he is, then tell him your better off as friends. Dont try to change him to best fit your personality. He seems like a nice guy. He ... (read in full...)

I never wanna fall in love again because I'll either be a WHORE or he'll be a PLAYER!

Q.   I don't know what to do with myself. I'm still deeply, madly in love with my ex. He broke up with me today, again. He always does it. I just, I guess I'm an idiot. When we first met, the chemistry was all over. When we started dating, everythi...

A.   1 July 2008: Ok. This is coming from a guy that used to be the same way. Me. Ive been dating this girl for about 8 months and hey.. a lot of the stuff he did to you. i did to my girlfriend. I am her second boyfriend. We fell in love fast. I started getting ... (read in full...)

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