He leaves, I pay, he comes back, I say "hey" she yells I am not being supportive!
Q. I babysat for a friend for 6 months because her baby's father left her. So I only charged her $70 per week so she didn't have to worry about finding a babysitter and can get financially stable. She then got back with her baby's father within 2 ...
A. 23 July 2012: Thank you all! I just re-read what I wrote and saw many misspelled words LOL But I'm glad you all understand me and I feel better that I'm not the bad person out of this. I'm sure she is having a hard time and is venting to me when it's him she ... (read in full...)
When would it be right for me to tell him I love him?
Q. I have found the one! I'm madly in love with him! I've known him since high school. We've been best friends for 6 years. Then dated for 2 and a half years. But for the past 6 months he has been stressed out. (Not by me- with work and family) ...
A. 25 June 2009: thank you guys for your opinion! i do wanna tell him... but i think i will wait because i don't want to scare him away when he is dealing with alot! i want me and him to be happy but he has to be happy with himself first. i feel so bad because he is ... (read in full...)
Problems with birth control?? Pregnancy?
Q. Good afternoon. I'm going to just get to the point of my dilemma. I've had irregular periods for as long as I can remember, I've had about 5 injections of the depo provera and everytime at my third month mark I'd have my period; been sexually active ...
A. 27 December 2008: see...when i was on depo...i bleed like crazy and gained alot of weight! and i've done the pills and hate taking it every day at the same time! i did the nueva ring and didn't mind it but not so comfortable with the thought of having a ring inside ... (read in full...)
Bi friend/having sex with her?
Q. ok i have this friend she is bi, and i think she likes me! i have caught her looking at my boobs. the thing that scares me is that she tells me her parents are going to a hotel some where and leaving her home by herself and she asks me to stay the ...
A. 27 December 2008: i'm bisexual as well and i don't hit on my friends. i do find my friends attractive and we changed in front of another and i don't look at them sexual at all! and that's why they are comfortable around me. at the same time...if you are curious, then ... (read in full...)
Talk to me about good grammar?
Q. i am trying to edit my myspace profile. i wrote down alot of information about myself but i need help putting it in good grammar. right now, it just looks like a huge paragraph! any advice?...
A. 25 December 2008: thanks!... (read in full...)
Talk to me about good grammar?
Q. i am trying to edit my myspace profile. i wrote down alot of information about myself but i need help putting it in good grammar. right now, it just looks like a huge paragraph! any advice?...
A. 24 December 2008: i meant to say how do you revise all the information into a paragraph that makes sense and flows better then just a bunch of statements jolted down. cause right now it's all a mess and looks sloppy! but what i do have written down...i want it to be ... (read in full...)
How can we fix his problem with condoms?
Q. Maybe someone can give me some good advice. I'm not on the pill and use condoms for b/c. The problem is my new bf can't seem to cum with one on. After a while I get dry and have to finish him off with my mouth. It's very frustrating for him and me. ...
A. 24 December 2008: so why don't you want to do the pill? or any different kind of birth control method? i'm on the IUD and i love it! i don't have to worry about pregnancy for up to 5 years! and i never get my period and my boyfriend isn't insecure that i'm protected. ... (read in full...)
Talk to me about good grammar?
Q. i am trying to edit my myspace profile. i wrote down alot of information about myself but i need help putting it in good grammar. right now, it just looks like a huge paragraph! any advice?...
A. 24 December 2008: actually...i meant to say...how do i revise all the stuff i wrote. i wrote alot of things that i do want to put in my profile but it's a mess. ... (read in full...)
Where do I start with finding a girlfriend?
Q. i haven't been with a women for about 5 years and want to get back in the dating scene. with my ex-girlfriends, i met them through friends. but how do i find a female these days without going to find them in nightclubs? for me, it's hard to find a ...
A. 4 December 2008: yeah...there's this club called gay 90's in downtown mlps, mn...but there is still alot of straight girls there but i guess i will just have to hope and see if the right female is attracted to me... (read in full...)
For two years our relationship has been cruising, parking, making out. I want more!
Q. so...me and my boyfriend's relationship is becoming the same routine (he picks me up, we drive around, we park and talk, make out, and that's it) which is good but i like to do more like have sex. he wants me to wait for a while til we get our own ...
A. 21 November 2008: i don't care for dates or going out. i prefer to spend quality time alone together...so i talked to him last night and told him something needs to change and he says he can't make me happy because he is an unhappy person. should i have bit my ... (read in full...)
How can I not let my emotions get the best of me?
Q. Hi!!! I've been seeing this guy for a while now and we're starting to have some communication problems 1.) B/c he's busy w/work he owns his own business plus work a unpredictable job on call! He tells me he's not seeing any1 else but @ times I ...
A. 18 November 2008: it's so funny...sounds like my boyfriend! i wonder if we are dating the same guy lol i'm kidding! but i would have taken it just like you did and thought it meant sex. (which I have wanted for so long so I would be happy if my guy said that!) but ... (read in full...)
Is being too nice... wrong?
Q. People are always telling me that I am too nice... so what's wrong with being too nice? I have a boyfriend who I thought liked me for me and likes to be with me because of my personality and looks, but I'm starting to get the feeling that he is ...
A. 15 November 2008: both of you are right! so how do i take baby steps on improving my self esteem?... (read in full...)
How can I not let my emotions get the best of me?
Q. Hi!!! I've been seeing this guy for a while now and we're starting to have some communication problems 1.) B/c he's busy w/work he owns his own business plus work a unpredictable job on call! He tells me he's not seeing any1 else but @ times I ...
A. 15 November 2008: your question: what can I do or say to him to get him to express himself to me?
my answer: i honestly have no idea! i've been with my guy for 2 years and he hasn't opened up to me or expressed anything to me. but see...one thing that i have lear... (read in full...)
How can I not let my emotions get the best of me?
Q. Hi!!! I've been seeing this guy for a while now and we're starting to have some communication problems 1.) B/c he's busy w/work he owns his own business plus work a unpredictable job on call! He tells me he's not seeing any1 else but @ times I ...
A. 14 November 2008: i went through the same thing with my boyfriend, but it in the long run...it boils down to trust! you have to trust him and believe he wouldn't lie to you and actually wants to be with you! i now can trust my boyfriend...he text me all the time ... (read in full...)
In a relationship and I am not happy...should I break it off?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and now I've become unhappy in my relationship. He's a great guy but we haven't had sex yet and yes we had the talk but he is paranoid about pregnancy. I'm on birth control but he can't help being scared. He ...
A. 1 November 2008: to "cowboy"....thank you! you're right...he has the problem and i usually make other people's problem my own...so i have to just bear with him and make him realize he has a problem and he needs to get help because i have done everything in my power ... (read in full...)
Was he spinning me a yarn saying that he loved me?
Q. I had an affair with a married man on and off for almost a year. He told me that he wasn't leaving his wife for nothing. He told me that he loved me once and never told me again. I fell in love with this man and then with no notice, he told me it ...
A. 28 October 2008: oh honey...i've been there and done that! he didn't care! sorry to say that but it's the truth! plus...why fall in love with a married man? if he'll cheat on his wife...he will cheat on you! give your love to someone who wants to be with you and ... (read in full...)
How early is too early to admit love?
Q. My boyfriend and I just started going out 3 days ago, and he's already trying to say he loves me! He's 16, I'm 15 and I don't believe that what he's feeling is love yet. I mean it's been a couple days, how is that possible? We hang out almost e...
A. 24 October 2008: if you feel that it is too early then it is! i would have with my boyfriend the first night we met (a few years ago) but he rather get to know me first and he doesn't look at me as a sex object. thank god i have a great man! but go with your gut ... (read in full...)
He adores me but why won't he have sex with me?
Q. a friend gave me good advice and made me see the truth in my relationship. how do i get enough courage to take her advice? i've been in my relationship and my boyfriend has nothing to complain about. i am extremely patient with him, i don't nag or a...
A. 24 October 2008: well...we've done some foreplay and i know he "can work it" lol but his paranoia stops him from having intercourse with me. he knows i'm fed up, but he wants me to bear with him for a while longer...but not having sex for 2 years is extremely long. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to give me oral sex but finds it hard because she was molested as a child... any advice?
Q. Hello, my girlfriend and I are in a rather unique situation. We've been doing sexual things for just over four months now. I've given her oral and fingered her, and she's touched me. We have never had sex and she has never given me oral. Here's the ...
A. 21 October 2008: i was molested and raped when i was younger too and it's extremely hard to forget that. my advice is to continue comforting her and reassure her that she doesn't have to do it. make her feel appreciated with anything that you guys have done and that ... (read in full...)
How can I be the one he opens up to so that we can really be a couple?
Q. I've been talking to this guy for over a year and a half. Before we started talking...we were friends. We're not exclusive yet and I think it's because I'm not the one he feels he can open up to. He's always been this way, even to close friends and ...
A. 30 August 2008: He says he definitely wants to be more then friends but likes us to maintain our friendship in our relationship. I just can't get this guy to talk to me or see me if he's stressed out. It's making me feel like I'm not the one he could fall in love ... (read in full...)
How do women discover how to integrate a certain way of communicating into a man's thinking and behavior? How I can open up and express how I feel AND get positive results?
Q. I've been with this guy for almost 2 years. We never had "the talk" about where we stand in our relationship. I'm confuse and slightly unhappy. So, I'm trying to open up and express how I'm feeling about our relationship. I did some reading about ...
A. 27 August 2008: I'm not the type to talk about my feelings and he wants me to open up about what I'm feeling because he can tell that I'm not happy. It's easy to make me happy but I don't stay happy long. And one thing I do want is to have sex and he wants me to be ... (read in full...)
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