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writes:Maybe someone can give me some good advice. I'm not on the pill and use condoms for b/c. The problem is my new bf can't seem to cum with one on. After a while I get dry and have to finish him off with my mouth. It's very frustrating for him and me. I know the condoms are the problem because I let him go once without it and it wasn't even 2 minutes before he had to pull out and cum.Is there a different position we could try to improve things or is there maybe a brand of condoms that will give him more sensation? I'm willing to try anything.
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reader, MrAnswerDesk +, writes (24 December 2008):
Tell your boy friend to get a lubrication of choice. Before placing the condom on, he needs to take a drop or two of the lubricant, and apply them to the interior tip of the condom resevior. This will give him the feeling of not wearing a condom because it will allow the condom to messuage his penis just as it would your interior. You might also use that same lub on the exterior of the condom to prevent pre-mature dryness. ........ Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): oh and if you dont like the idea of doggy style, then lie on you back,legs apart, him on his knees infront of you,balance you feet on either side of him, like rest them on his hips, and maybe get him to hook his arms through your legs/ hold your legs ?
http://www.goodtoknow.co.uk/relationships/271181/Kama-Sutra-positions--Widely-Opened
this link is to a sexual position website- the position i described is on here, as widely open!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): doggy style has got to be the best one for encouraging a guy to cum !
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reader, XxAnGelXxx  +, writes (24 December 2008):
 Pick up some of those textured condoms, they may well help :) x
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reader, estanie +, writes (24 December 2008):
 so why don't you want to do the pill? or any different kind of birth control method? i'm on the IUD and i love it! i don't have to worry about pregnancy for up to 5 years! and i never get my period and my boyfriend isn't insecure that i'm protected. because there is a couple strands that he feels and it's evident that i'm still on birth control.
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