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I may only be 21 years old but I have been through an awful lot in them 21 years including:

Being abandoned by a parent.

Being beaten by my father.

Being beaten by my first husband at just 19.

Being cheated on twice in my longest relationships.

Having lost 2 babies.

Self harming.

I believe that I can give straight advice on anything be it relationships or work troubles.

I am always here to help, no matter what the problem.

Hope to be able to give you answer you need.

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I'm sure she has probably out on the pull as she seems to be out in clubs several nights a week like she used to be before we got together. What do I do please??

Q.   Still love my ex and she confuses me. Try to get all the details in but be brief here. Girl i worked with years ago who was also one of my friends exes and another friends sister, Started showing interest in me and i had always liked her so went out ...

A.   20 March 2008: I wouldn't say to completely brush her to one side, if you can start spending more time with her in the party scene, she obviously knows that you are making the effort and has started to return the favour by wanting to spend more time with you. But ... (read in full...)

My brother went off to uni, and now he's back and he's said that I have gotten fat...

Q.   heyx My brother went off to uni, and now he's back and he's said that I have gotten fat. When he says this to me, what comeback can I give him? I don't want him to see that it hurts my feelings, so what can I do to make this less obvious. How c...

A.   19 March 2008: Just say "whatever at least i'm not going bald" and examine his head slightly! That will make him moan and leave you alone for a while.... (read in full...)

It burns when we have sex. We don't use condoms. Could that be the problem?

Q.   when my parnter and i have sex at first its fine but after a while it starts to burn her inside and we have to stop. we dont use comdoms as she has a coile could that be the problem ...

A.   19 March 2008: I wouldn't think that would be the problem. It may basically be that your not having enough foreplay which naturally lubricates your partner. Next time you have sex try and have at least ten minutes foreplay and see if this makes any differ... (read in full...)

Do I just walk out of this relationship?

Q.   My ex dumped me 10 years ago, and shortly thereafter I started dating a co-worker. I was torn because I thought my ex would accept me no matter what and loved me. Because of him, I felt able to truly be myself for the first time in my life. After ...

A.   19 March 2008: My first question is: are you really ready to give up 8 years of marriage just because you have seen your ex a few times? Secondly: Are you unhappy in your marriage? If you can honestly answer these, then that should start to guide you in the... (read in full...)

I'm sure she has probably out on the pull as she seems to be out in clubs several nights a week like she used to be before we got together. What do I do please??

Q.   Still love my ex and she confuses me. Try to get all the details in but be brief here. Girl i worked with years ago who was also one of my friends exes and another friends sister, Started showing interest in me and i had always liked her so went out ...

A.   19 March 2008: To be completely honest with you if she is out partying all the time the fact of the matter is that she probably has been out on the pull. If you get back together there is a very good chance that she won't change. Unfortunately that could le... (read in full...)

She has lost confidence in our relationship, is numb and wants to split "for now".

Q.   My g/f of 18 months now says she has lost confidence in or relationship and says she is numb and doesn't know what she wants and feels. We have gone through a bad patch arguing. We are mid 30's I backed off a bit and didn't hassle for a mon...

A.   19 March 2008: It sounds like something has got her in a muddle. She may just want a few days to get her head together and try and understand what she wants. Don't take it personally. I'm sure if she said she will call then she will. Just back off a little ba... (read in full...)

What did she mean by what she said???

Q.   I met this woman over a month ago and we have been out twice. The past 2-3 weeks she has been busy with work to apply for a uni course so I haven't seen her (we have stayed in touch via texts, and spoke 2 times). I really like her and I'm sure she ...

A.   19 March 2008: It's possible that she may have had a difficult relationship and feels that you may be making fun of her vulnrability. She may have said that she was having a 'funny day' because she was shocked by the fact that you were being serious. You ... (read in full...)

It has been now 34 days and still no period.. I am so worried I am pregnant Help?

Q.   HELP!!!! I took the morning after pill within 72 hours, a week later I got a really really light period that lasted a day and came earlier, it has been now 34 days and still no period.. I am so worried I am pregnant Help?...

A.   19 March 2008: Obviously the first thing you need to do is take a pregnancy test, but you also have to remember that if you have been under any kind of stress recently this may have slowed your period and it may come a bit later than usual. If you are pregnant... (read in full...)

Can I forgive my boyfriend for cheating? Should I even try?

Q.   I just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me with a random woman he met at a bar. I am shocked, devastated and heart-broken. To give you a bit of background, my boyfriend is a wonderful, kind man. He has been asking me to marry hi...

A.   19 March 2008: I know exactly how you feel, my boyfriend of 2 years has done the same to me! The only difference is that my boyfriend has convinced himself that we weren't together when he did it! So as you can guess it's slightly different. If you honest... (read in full...)

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