Her actions don't mimic her words
Q. my girlfriend has told me numerous times that she loves me. but this past saturday was our anniversary and didnt remember until i reluctantly told her 11 58pm, wondering if she would remember. Then for valentines day I took her out for dinner and ...
A. 15 February 2011: is this unusual behaviour or, is she just not the thoughfull type! some people arent. Speak to her, it is very hard to have a one way relationship where one is putting in all the effort and the other person just sits back, believe me!!
Ask y... (read in full...)
Why are there xx's in his messages to a co worker?
Q. my bloke keeps emailing and texting a woman he works with, I understand that they have to work together, but should each line end with XX? Its getting me really annoyed now, as I've asked him to stop doing it but he still carries on. If I was to te...
A. 15 February 2011: sometimes people do it to soften an email, but in this case i would be cross too.
All you can do is insist that he stops it and put it to him how would he feel if you were doing it?
Is it just one person he sends it to or everyone he work... (read in full...)
Why do people think teenage romances can never grow?
Q. I just want to understand. Why do some people think teenage relationships can never grow till the two in love are old? I know that some teenagers are just dating, going through drama, but you're doing a childish thing setting a stereo-type on a...
A. 15 February 2011: when my parents met they were 13 & 17 respectively they have never had another partner.
When i was 16 i met and fell in love with a guy and left him because i wanted to move to London. I met up with him about seven years ago and we are still in... (read in full...)
Should I just call it quits since the lack of bedroom activity is spilling over into other aspects in our relationship?
Q. About 2 years I meet an amazing woman she is both beautiful on the inside and outside. We had a great sex life, it seemed we couldnt keep our hands off each other, we where open to trying nex things, and couldnt get enough of trying to make the ...
A. 15 February 2011: Me too Im affraid, im having this prob but with my husband. He doesnt like touching me although he says he does we are now in seperate bedrooms as I felt so lonely and isolated i used to get upset sleeping next to him when he had his back to me. We ... (read in full...)
Can I get out of this cycle?
Q. Hello will someone please give me some advice. To begin with a few months ago my life was great after 4 years of being with a alcoholic man, who while being with I dropped out of high school three times, gained 45 pounds, lost many friends and ...
A. 15 February 2011: Wow, your self esteme is rock bottom you are concentrating on too many things at once you just need to focus on you at the mo. Do some nice things, go to lunch with girlfriends get your hair done, manicure, take time out to do what you like doing. ... (read in full...)
Now he only cuddles if he wants sex!
Q. Hi. I am 29 and have been married to my husband for about 1 1/2 yrs. We have 2 children. We were together for about 1yr before we got married. At first, he was very loving and affectionite. He would always kiss me and cuddle with me. In the last ...
A. 14 February 2011: Being in the same situation as you at the moment, I have done a lot of reading and have visited a counsellor. They put it down to the fact that he was drinking heavily and he has stopped, and work was very stressful for him. We did stray apart and I ... (read in full...)
How can you compare an old person dying to the death of a child???
Q. Our child died, not long time ago. The grief is unbelievable. But we are trying to deal with it. What is really a big question to me, how come the extended family doesn't seem to understand our pain. And, my really big problem is, that they com...
A. 14 February 2011: I lost my son when he was 19 months old and my own grandmare on the day of my sons funeral tried to compare it with my grandfathers funeral, fact is people do not understand because they have not had to be where we are. YOu couldnt possibly know the ... (read in full...)
I broke up with him, but I still love him. How can I forget him?
Q. I used to love this guy very much,helped him in school til he completed and started working.Somehow ,somewhere we encounterd some problems which led to our break up.He is now dating some else's and i cnt forget about him since i stil love him dearly ...
A. 14 February 2011: you need to tell him, I did the same thing at 16 years old and i am now 47 and i am still in love with my 16year old. Consequently i have been married 4 times and still cant get him out of my head. Dont do what I did do everything you can to get ... (read in full...)
I want to save my marriage. But my husband rejects me sexually. What would you suggest I do?
Q. hi ny husband is 35 and we have been together for 4 years and married for 2 and a bit, when we first got together our relation ship was great i had all the sex and cuddles kisses i could ask for, then i moved into my own home with my 3 kids and...
A. 14 February 2011: hellooooo, why are you still with this man? he doesnt deserve you he will never change, iv been there done that. YOu need to break free you are enabeling him to be like this. Imagine the affect it is having on your children. Leave if he really wants ... (read in full...)
After all the ups and downs and all that we've invested in the relationship, he wants to call it quits...
Q. Let me just start by saying this is going to be very complicated but I would really appreciate responses. I was with my boyfriend for almost 7yrs. We have a daughter n I am currently pregnant. Recently he told me he doesn't want to be with me anymo...
A. 14 February 2011: oh dear, men are less forgiving, when they cheat a lot of the time it is only for the sex. Women find it harder to seperate the sex from the feelings that we have for some one afterwards. Having found out that you were having an affair may have made ... (read in full...)
I thought he wanted to be with me. in what way did I misread the signals he gave me?
Q. i was at a party last night at a school that was a 20 dollar cab ride away from my school. this guy who asked me to dance. We danced for a while and ended up making out on the dance floor. then when the party was clearing up he asked me to go home...
A. 14 February 2011: you should never have sex on a first date and this was even before the first date. Boys will think of you as easy they need something tha is a bit challenging and any one who is worth giving your self to is worth knowing first!To have sex with some ... (read in full...)
3 guys...who do I choose?
Q. I'm having troubles with three guys. I think my friend likes me. He's been one of my closest friends for about 2 years and I always thought of him as a brother. But recently he's been texting me he loves me. I thought he was just kidding, bu...
A. 14 February 2011: guy three, hes the one you cant be with people just coz you feel sorry for them which efectivele the first two this is the case you are feeling a bit guilty as they are chasing you. But the guy thats make your tummy turn thats the one.good luck lets ... (read in full...)
My husband makes me feel lonely...
Q. I have been married for 19 months we really loved each other and although we are in our 40s we couldnt wait to get married we were together 4 years before we married. Almost immidiatel yafter he put the ring on my finger the sex stopped. We have ...
A. 13 February 2011: i am a size 12 (dress size) 4 foot 11 tall, very curvey, i am part spanish a guys and friends and my daughters tell me im very pretty, and no i havent changed at all. We did go to counseling once but he wouldnt go again. Drink has been part of ... (read in full...)
I'm stressing him out and he wants a break. I want him back!
Q. For all the virgo man on this please help! I am a Pisces women and I Love My Virgo boyfriend very much and he has told me he loved me to.I do everything he wants me to I changed almost everything for him but as soon as there is a problem I have with ...
A. 13 February 2011: you should not change you, he picked you for you and now you have changed. Let him have his space but dont be needy and beg him to come back go back to being you. Life will probably be easyier being you any way.... (read in full...)
Why does my husband not want me?
Q. My husband and I have been married for less than a year. We have sex only 2 or 3 times a month. Is this normal? I realize there is no 'normal' but come on! When we first got married I would find porn on his computer a lot. I tried to talk to ...
A. 13 February 2011: i too was married about 18 months ago and as soon as the wedding night my husband seemed to go off of sex. We have had sex 9 times in 19 months, he shows me almost no affection unless i ask for it and flirts with other women in front of me. We have ... (read in full...)
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