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My life has nearly been destroyed by my father. I need to find a way to either rectify the horror I went through as a child, or a way to let it go!
Q. The problem is my dad. I am 21 years old and my life has almost been destroyed thanks to my father. My parents married young, and from the very beginning of my short life there were problems. I was only a year and a half when he hit my hand so h...
A. 20 October 2008: Thank you so much for your kind words and support. These past few years have been very rocky for me since I have left home. I have grown, I am supporting myself, and I have a loving boyfriend. Things are better. I just feel that maybe your advice on ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is giving her number out to guys at school!
Q. Dear Cupid; I will try to keep this pretty short. Im pretty sure I am overly jealous here, but I dont quite know how to press this situation. My girlfriend and I have recently been dealing with some trust issues. Issues on her part for hiding ...
A. 25 August 2008: She is DEFINETLY acting suspicious. Although you cannot condemn someone for something they haven't done yet, I would suggest talking with her about it. You should never invade someones privacy just to calm your own issues...but keeping an eye on her ... (read in full...)
16, male, and not gifted in the hair department! Is it OK?
Q. Hi, well im 16 and a male...i need a little help, well ya see, im 16 and i have a good size and all, but not that much in the hair department...like i dont really have all that much leg,armpit, or even pubic hair for that matter. is this normal? are ...
A. 22 August 2008: I agree with the previous answer! The fact that you have less hair is a BONUS! As a sexually acive girl, I can tell you how irritating hair CAN be. Most of the time it's not a big issue...but I have had a few situations when I caught myself ... (read in full...)
I'm so scared that I have lost all my family. What can I do?
Q. well to make it short im 17 and my dad left when i was nine my mum was great through it all but after 3 months of her and my dad spliting up she got pregnant with twins well me and my dad didnt speak for 6 years and i have just become in contac...
A. 16 August 2008: You ahve most certainly been through hell haven't you dear? Okay, first of all...it's clear your mother is not interested in ahivng you around. It sounds like she has chosen her new boyfriend over you for whatever reason. If I were you, I would jsut ... (read in full...)
Do my parents have a right to dictate what are healthy/unhealthy boundaries between myself and someone I'm dating?
Q. About 10 weeks ago I met a woman through a mutual friend. We've officially been dating for about 8 weeks now. Averaging around 1.7 dates per week. We talk on the phone quite regularly. I'm 25 years old, responsible, and feel fortunate t...
A. 16 August 2008: I agree with Jen...Just because they are your parents, doesn't give them the right to run your life. Your a human being just as they are, and you have the right of life to pursue whatever makes you happy, within reason. Again, what's so important ... (read in full...)
Confused about sexual feelings for older male cousin. Help?
Q. I recently started dating my cousin [first cousin, once removed. btw], like a little over a month ago. But my problem is that even though he's not around [different state], I feel as though I wanna have sex with him. But even if he was around, w...
A. 16 August 2008: Okay first of all, and I'm sure you don't want to hear this. YOU ARE INCREDIBLY YOUNG! I thought for SURE I was in love when I was your age, and not even a few months later I found out that guy was a COMPLETE scoundrel, and NOT someone I wanted in ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to stop flirting with other men, and I sometimes question my love for him!
Q. I have been with my bofriend (i'm gay by the way) for 10 months now, and I love him to bits, but despite this, I cannot help but flirt with other men and I cant seem to stop it, i dont know what it is whether I just like the attention (I suffered ...
A. 15 August 2008: First of all you ahve to ask yourself why you feel compelled to flirt so much. If it's because you simply crave attention, then maybe your current paramour isn't satifying those needs for you. Perhaps talking with him can't give him a way to better ... (read in full...)
I found out my ex-girlfriend had a baby and I can't stop thinking about it.
Q. well me and my ex have been seperated since dec 27 2006 hum why we broke up is a mystery to me to be honest with you all. i tried everything to get her back are relationship was great just one day she said she was going back to school and we never ...
A. 23 July 2008: First of all...is this child yours? IF it is...you already know you need to talk with her. IF you don't know...find out. IF it's not...then you need to understand that it's not your responsibility. To have a child is a personal choice that SHE made, ... (read in full...)
Do you think my wife is bisexual?
Q. Hi we are couple in our mid 40 and have had our ups and downs. we are currently in a down time and things get tense. we have had a very active sex lfe and tried most things over the past 25 years. my wife has a great body and as always looked ...
A. 23 July 2008: Honestly...I don't think she is. Just because she felt more comfortable having her friend do the waxing, doesn't neccisarily mean she wants to have sex with her. I know, as a woman, that I would much rather have my best friend wax my nether-regions ... (read in full...)
Is he messing with me or just scared?
Q. been flirting with a guy at work for a few weeks and last week we went out on a date and it was really nice. we had a laugh and had enjoyed eachothers company. we kissed and hugged and we decided that we wud take things slowly and we wudnt pull ne1 ...
A. 9 June 2008: I hate to break it to you, and I may be wrong, but it seems like he saw something in you that may have freaked him out or driven him away. Try to focus on whats good between you two and maybe you can work past it. But, if you keep trying to focus on ... (read in full...)
I need tips for dealing with my partner's daughter, they've just been in contact after 3 years!
Q. Hi there, I need some tips. I have my partners daughter (20) coming over to visit for the first time. They have not spoken in three years but since her Mum got a new man she has decided her Dad may be a better option. I want to be positive but I ...
A. 9 June 2008: I agree with peterPan, but I also think that this girl would respect you a great deal if you showed her kindness because of YOU...not your partner. If you only act polite and nice when your partner is around, and never make any real attempt to reach ... (read in full...)
I'm with a new guy but just found out I'm pregnant by my ex, please help me decide what to do!
Q. I am currently seeing a wonderful man who has a son from a previous relationship. I absolutely love his son and can really see this relationship working out. The problem is I recently discovered that I am pregnant with an ex's child. Apparently he ...
A. 12 February 2008: Thanks so much everyone! I spoke with my boyfriend and he was wonderfully supportive. I did end up having an abortion, and although it made me sad, I feel it was the right decision. It turns out I was 9 weeks in, so the procedure was pretty mild. ... (read in full...)
Should I ignore his signs or try to eventually cultivate a relationship? He plays in the same band as my ex.
Q. Okay I know I may be being a tad needy..but I have yet another brief question. One of my ex's friends from my previous story is showing interest in me. My ex and I dated for only a few months, and we lived together with his band. He was the drummer, ...
A. 21 January 2008: Thank you for the advice. He actually hasn't been spending much time with his ex at all. We have been spending lots of good time together and seem to be getting along well. But he really seems terrified of the idea of committing, and though I am ... (read in full...)
How can my ex (who initiated the break up) treat me in such affectionate way, to then turn around and claim he is not attracted?
Q. I spent a good majority of this last summer dating a young man I used to go to highschool with. He was a musician, part of a band, and lived in a large house with his band-mates. After dating for maybe a week I moved in. 3 months later, he ended up ...
A. 20 December 2007: Thank you so much you guys. I figured the relationship wasn't going anywhere, it's just so frustrating to be given the run-around. Anyways I appreciate your honesty very much, and thank you again for confirming my theory. Merry Christmas!... (read in full...)
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