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*reamflower
writes:Okay I know I may be being a tad needy..but I have yet another brief question. One of my ex's friends from my previous story is showing interest in me. My ex and I dated for only a few months, and we lived together with his band. He was the drummer, and now that we are not together, his guitarist has been paying ALOT of attention to me.The problem is the guitarist recently broke up with HIS girlfriend. I realize neither of us are ready to be in another relationship, since we both just came out of one. Plus he shows obvious signs that he still has a thing for his ex.But once again, same question; Why does he flirt with me so much?! He'll rub my hands, cuddle with me, tap the end of my nose, plays with my hair...and yet everytime things get too intense he leaves. Should I just ignore it all or try to eventually cultivate a relationship?
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reader, dreamflower +, writes (21 January 2008):
dreamflower is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for the advice. He actually hasn't been spending much time with his ex at all. We have been spending lots of good time together and seem to be getting along well. But he really seems terrified of the idea of committing, and though I am too, I don't want to be another 'groupie'. He treats me VERY well, and we sleep together frequently...but like I said, he's against the title. Let me know.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (20 December 2007):
 It does sound abit to complicated to me, he is winding you up with flirtatious gestures, then blows you off when it comes to the crunch. Also when he flirts with you, is his ex in close proximity?. If she is then he is trying to make her jealous. If anything was to happen now it would be a case of the rebound, sit back and ignor it all for a while and maybe see what happens in a few months time when things have petered out a bit.
All the best x
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