Am I being tricked by my ex?
Q. I broke up with my wife of 9yrs about 5yrs ago and met a lady on the internet. My ex wife made my life very difficult especially concerning contacts with the 3 children whose ages range from 5 to 10yrs. My girlfriend was very supportive and I do not ...
A. 19 June 2007: Don't give up your children. Hers live with her and she has the most flexibility. Of course, you know that your ex may move anytime, which would make things even worse.
Divorce is difficult with young children. I feel sorry for you, you are maki... (read in full...)
Will a cheater ever change?
Q. Hi my name is Alicia and i startin goin out with this guy (Trevin)last year in may.We went out for a while but things started to change after the third month. we went out on and off for 7 months.we had lotsof break ups but always got back ...
A. 19 June 2007: This guy is just plain bad news. He sounds like a bit of a stalker, too. Let his new girlfriend have him, please!... (read in full...)
She keeps going back to her rich ex, but I am thinking of proposing anyway.
Q. I am almost 29 and I have been in love with a woman 20 years older than me for the past 3 years. We have dated off and on since we met. She has waivered and gone back to her ex - because he can provide for her financially better than I can - a ...
A. 19 June 2007: Oh my, you do have a situation.
Your girfriend is old enough to be your mother (how does your mother feel about this, by the way?) and, she appears to be a dependent, gold-digging, lazy, cheater.
Now, I know that is harsh. But marriages ar... (read in full...)
Should I have sex even though I am only 14?
Q. me and one of my really good guy friends have been talking about having sex..because we feel there is something between us...but i am only 14..should i consider having sex w/ him?...
A. 19 June 2007: Because you feel there is something between you is not a good enough reason. And, frankly you are too young. There are a lot of better, less dangerous things that you two can do together, now aren't there? You are so vulnerable to getting your ... (read in full...)
Every guy I meet is a slimeball! Should I just lower my standards?
Q. I am on some on-line dating sites, and there is this guy who has asked me out on a date. However, he came across really slimey by mentioning my breasts rather than anything else about my profile. I sometimes wonder if I have had a complete sense ...
A. 19 June 2007: You may need to lower your standards if you absolutely must have a man. But, I doubt that is the case;)
Keep trying, I think the guy who mentioned your breasts was out of line, and by now knows it. It bothers me a little bit that you had such rea... (read in full...)
I want to find a partner who is a virgin like me! This is important to me...any advice?
Q. I am a 22 year old single, virgin guy. I have been in fairly long term relationships which have broken down largely because I have not been able to handle the fact that the girl I was with in each case was not a virgin. I am not religious, and appr...
A. 20 May 2007: You have made a pretty big problem for yourself. You want to have sex with a virgin but you don't want to have to talk about it before getting to know someone. This is going to result in quite a few disappointed relationships after the young ladies ... (read in full...)
her bf hugged me and she somehow smelt that on me.
Q. hi , I know this is stupid but my mate hugged me and she smelt her boyfriend on me because I hugged him earlier and she went off on one sayin that I got off with him and Shes making a big deal about it. Today She rang after me and slapped me and ...
A. 16 May 2007: You cannnot make her forgive you.
You did not do anything wrong.
She is not your friend.
He is not your friend.
Find new friends.
Sometimes there are simple solutions to complex problems.
DrBroz... (read in full...)
She shouted out a name when we were making love... her broth-in-law's!
Q. After an evening apart over the weekend (me out with my mates and my girlfriend out with her sister and brother-in-law) we were in bed the following morning. Both sleepy and both still a little tipsy from the night before we started playing ...
A. 16 May 2007: Yes it is possible that she has no fantasy, crush, or whatever about her brother in law. I am sure you, on the other hand, have never fantasized about anyone but her, right?
Hey, forget it. She loves you and that's what matters. I am a little conc... (read in full...)
We talk about marriage all the time but still no proposal after 7 years together!
Q. 7 years into a relationship and no proposal... I don't know what to do. up until last year I have had no real urge to get married but since hitting 34 I just feel a need to settle. My boyfriend and I get on brilliantly. We've travelled a lot ...
A. 8 May 2007: I think you need to read your question and answer it yourself. As if you were your own best friend. Maybe you should also list the reasons marriage is important to you. Is it important? Are there legal reasons, social reasons? Obviously you and your ... (read in full...)
I have been seeing this man who is 21 and i am 14 and he is doing some stuff to me that i dont understand and i dont want him to do!!!
Q. I have been seeing this man who is 21 and i am 14 and he is doing some stuff to me that i dont understand and i dont want him to do, 1st he said i like u will u meet me and because ive liked him for ages i meet him, and got in his car because i ...
A. 5 May 2007: You have done nothing wrong. I repeat you have done nothing wrong. None of this was your fault. Do not see this man again. He has hurt you. He has not only broken the law (and he knows it) he has forced you into doing what you didn't want to do. ... (read in full...)
He says: There is nothing a woman can offer me, because I have everything I need so she would have to be the "WHOLE PACKAGE"... views?
Q. I am dating a guy who said, There is nothing a woman can offer me, because I have everything I need so she would have to be the "WHOLE PACKAGE" I am not sure how to take this. Part of me thinks this is a great thing because he is confident and he ...
A. 5 May 2007: I agree entirely with Dr. Psyche and Shania if he's so happy with himself leave him with himself. Good for him. Now, go find yourself a nice man who needs you and appreciates what you have to offer, you sound like a catch.
DrBroz... (read in full...)
Could my "bits" have shrivelled through smoking weed?
Q. i have been smoking weed 4 about a year and resently i have noticed that my penis and balls get all shrivaled up could this do with smoking weed...
A. 4 May 2007: Mmmm.
Let's see,
There's no evidence that I know of that would suggest that cannabis has this effect. Are you sure you're smoking medical grade marijuana?
I thought not.
Gee, I wonder what's mixed in there. Must be good stuff.
I apologize ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?
Q. I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, ...
A. 3 May 2007: This is very tricky,
I'm afraid you are not really asking the right questions. Erectile Dysfunction is treatable medically. What is pretty much not treatable (or at least darn difficult) is some woman telling a man that "don't worry it's ok, your... (read in full...)
She says it's not over but she needs time to sort her head out. We were together 24-7. How can I win her back?
Q. I have just had the best seven months of my life with a woman. I finished with her becos her ex was constantly on the phone. The next day we got back together. Now out of the blue, she wants to slow down. I am absolutely gutted. It hurts so much. ...
A. 3 May 2007: Brokendreams,
Hey, now now, she said she wants to slow down. Just do that. Give her what she wants. Slow down. You feel gutted. Get your life back on track, take care of yourself. You know that being with somebody 24/7 isn't very healthy anyway. ... (read in full...)
All I want to know is, should I stay and wait a little longer, or should I move on?
Q. I met a fantastic woman earlier this year. The moment we met, there was instant chemistry. Things were going so well between us, but lately, I'm starting to keep my distance. This really saddens me, but I can't help it. She broke up with her boyf...
A. 3 May 2007: littlenicks,
I wouldn't give up on her or give her your all. She is obviously in a very unsettled phase of her life. She is very young and so are you. Let some experiences and life happen to both of you and try to live your life as you want to.... (read in full...)
My debts are growing, my self confidence has gone, Im failing fast, PLEASE HELP!!!!
Q. Hi: I need emotional help with this matter. I know this is not the biggest deal in the world but I need someone to talk to. I've been unemployed for 10 months now. I had to quit my last job because of: disrespectful boss, bitter/depressing ...
A. 2 May 2007: You are at a very low point in your life and you don't need me to tell you that. What I want to tell you is that this may indeed be the lowest point in your life. I hope that it is. It was a mistake to quit your former job without having another job ... (read in full...)
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