FWB sometimes he's sweet, sometimes he's not
Q. first of all I'm 16 NOT 13. Okay. So I've been friends with benifits with this guy for like 2 years..and yes I like him alot..I never told him though cuz I didn't wanna make anything weird..this guy is a major player but when he likes someone he's ...
A. 13 July 2010: Go get yours kid because he is getting his. At your age you should be having multiple partners and not tied to anyone anyway.... (read in full...)
I'm worried he'll disappear, based on my past relationships! How do I reassure myself everything's fine?
Q. I've been dating this guy for almost a month.We have a great time together but I keep worrying that he's gonna lose interest/disappear. Last guy I dated ending up disappearing once he got a car. I thought he liked me alot but apparently not. So now ...
A. 13 July 2010: Give him a reason to stay. Don't be the panicky GF who smothers a BF with questions and expects him to check in per hour. If you leave the birdcage open the bird is free to roam but eventually comes home. Dont tie him down, share his life. You never ... (read in full...)
Not head over heels anymore. Am I just comfortable?
Q. I'm 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for three years.. We have been living together for 2.. We get along great and have lots of fun together!! I don't feel head over hills for him anymore and often think about what it would be like to be ...
A. 13 July 2010: Welcome to Phase Two of any relationship.
So what if you are not making love on the kitchen floor anymore. You still have respect for him and love the man he is turning into as well as the man he wants to be. A voracious spark is not always goin... (read in full...)
Where does sexual desire come from?
Q. I am wondering about low libido! Some people say that the desire can be somewhat controlled in the brain. What do you think??? Where does that lust come from? ...
A. 13 July 2010: It comes from your biggest sexual organ.
Your brain.
If it isnt in the mood then neither will your body. Thats why different things work for different people. What turns you on so to speak.
For me its Asian women. Can't lay off them, can'... (read in full...)
Is it normal to hurt so much after this?
Q. i am 17 years old and last night my bf fingered me for the first time. Ive only ever read about what an amazing experience it is but it really hurt. I can barely even touch down there this morning because bits of it is still painful. Im guessing ...
A. 13 July 2010: Tell him to use his tongue instead. Its a lot softer and infinitely more tasteful.... (read in full...)
He only likes anal sex
Q. is it suspecious that my new boyfriend only likes anal sex? or am i trippin...
A. 13 July 2010: Thats what he likes. What do you like? Sex is a two way street and it sounds like you are getting run over in both directions.
Its time for you to speak up and get on the offense. I know I like a woman who tells me what she likes in bed. Not only... (read in full...)
We like the same guy...i said I would back down but I really like him...
Q. Ok me and my friend like the same guy and I really like him and she already snogged him ages ago. She says she fancies him so I said I,d back down and let her be. But i really really like him what should I do...
A. 13 July 2010: Are you kidding me?
All is fair in love and war and your GF is not playing by the rules. She got him once already so then being a good friend she should give you the next crack at him.
You dont get what you deserve in this world, you get what you... (read in full...)
How do I start a relationship with my cousin?
Q. I have a cute cousin, I think she's sending messages. She likes to get close to me when we watch movies, she always dancing really hot when I visit and always likes to share what she does with her boyfriends( how they kiss etc...). Think I can at ...
A. 13 July 2010: Not illegal in the Colonies to screw your cousin but illegal to marry your first cousin. Hell, we had a President who married his second cousin.... (read in full...)
I think the way I masturbate means I enjoy sex less, how can I fix this??
Q. I'm an 18 year old male in a happy and stable relationship of 7 months, with strong sexual intimacy, but I am still deeply worried about one part of me- my penis and its 'phimosis'. My penis is quite big, but it has an annoying thin strip of sk...
A. 13 July 2010: If I am picturing this correctly you are needing a rubbing stimulation when you masturbate. I admit I have never tried this but have you thought of something like a sock that would rub and you are on your back? Maybe even a chamois cloth wrapped ... (read in full...)
I don't know what went wrong!
Q. well..this particular guy was so keen on wooing me and at last i fell for him and the relationship went good for 3 years..but now he's trying to avoid me at all cost.He doesn't even care to look at me.Can somebody help me on what went wrong?...
A. 13 July 2010: You were a conquest he decided to stay with for at least a little bit. He is into the chase but not the commitment. You played hard to get until your defenses broke and it made him King of your hill. Unfortunately he didn't want a queen so he will ... (read in full...)
Married for six year, hardly any sex
Q. i been married for 6 years,since the first 6 month of our marriage my husband always rejects having sex with me,i try to put cute lungery on he say he is tired,we have sex seven to 9 times a year i am so frusteted i even start thinking he is gay,i ...
A. 13 July 2010: Get out while you can. No kids is the best thing going for you. This is not healthy but neither is your grammar. You are still young and can attract another. The sex WILL NEVER GET BETTER but a class at the local junior college can help your speech. ... (read in full...)
Never had a relationship at 19
Q. I am 19 and I have never had a relationship, boyfriend, or even been kissed. Am i the only one out there? Is there something wrong with me? Is there anything i can do to improve my pathetic social life?...
A. 13 July 2010: I married a virgin of 39 yo. She never had a BF or a real relationship. Now I am paying the price. Her social skills are atrocious and her love making leaves me wanting more.
No relationship at 19? You are still young and have a margin of error... (read in full...)
How do I let him down without hurting his feelings?
Q. I spend a lot of time giving advice on here but am yet to take some myself. I thought it was about time that i got things of my chest...any advice on this dilema would be much appreciated! About 5 or 6 months ago i stopped seeing somebody who had...
A. 13 July 2010: As a guy I want the truth. Yeah, kick me in the teeth at the start but I will get over it probably faster than you think. Just be honest and not over patronizing. Also a goodbye BJ goes a long way too.... (read in full...)
Is there a way I can find out the truth? Does he or doesn't he have a girlfriend?
Q. Is there a way I can find out the truth? There is a guy (who I worked with) I really like him and we have flirted for about a year and have always gotton along and we have loads in common, we arranged to go out once but he had to cancel last minu...
A. 13 July 2010: You are counting on too much second hand gossip and hearsay about a situation that is easily solvable.
You have two lips girl. Go ask him.
Its not hard and you get it straight from the source. Dont make it harder than it has to be. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is isn't interested! Should I meet up with a guy who is?
Q. MOD NOTE: Edited for readability. I am in a difficult situation and just would like to hear some real honest advice from other peoples perspective. I have a boyfriend and a son with him, we've been together for about 3 1/2 years now and we only hav...
A. 13 July 2010:
You got a man who is 18-21 young and already tied down to a family. He already knows his dick got him into trouble and there is little he can do about it probably because he is getting pressure from his family to "do the right thing" by you. Kudo... (read in full...)
How can I spice up my same sex love life???
Q. hey, this might sound like a stupid question but here goes anyway.. basically i'm 18, i'm a lesbian and i've been with my gf for 6/nearly 7 months now. she was a virgin when we met so obviously i didn't push her into anything sexual- scary en...
A. 13 July 2010: Ok, maybe its me but this beckons the question here. You slept together just three times in seven months and you need some spice already? Wow. 18 and bored. I think you picked the wrong partner. Cute and adorable is one thing but if you need some ... (read in full...)
Divorced nine months ago and still in pain
Q. i was married for 10 years we have been divorced for 9 mos and every time i see her it hurts i know she is seeing other guys and that is killing me so how do i move on and forget about her we have the same friends and have to see each other from ...
A. 13 July 2010: Its a tough situation here but its something only time can cure. Like a recently departed loved one the hurt can seem to be unbearable but the passage of time will cure all. So what do you do in the meantime? Man up. I know the heart is broken but ... (read in full...)
I just want to know what to think....does he care?
Q. This Question is regarding an affair i am having with a married man,no judgements please.This affair has gone on for over 10yrs,we are both in our 60's now all children are grown up and married. What i am trying to work out is does this man have any...
A. 13 July 2010: You only need to read your own question to see that he does care. If he is calling you several times a day just to tell you where he is or how his day is going thats a big leap for a man. Some nites cuddling and no sex? Calls just to chat? Honey, ... (read in full...)
Another girl's boyfriend is turning my head from my own boyfriend...
Q. Im in a relationship but cant stop thinking about someone else! Ok so Ive been in a relationship for 8 months, its quite serious, and i believed he was 'the one' although now we are over the 'honemmon period' i can see cracks. he's very negati...
A. 13 July 2010: You are still young. Why cant you date them both?... (read in full...)
How do I start a relationship with my cousin?
Q. I have a cute cousin, I think she's sending messages. She likes to get close to me when we watch movies, she always dancing really hot when I visit and always likes to share what she does with her boyfriends( how they kiss etc...). Think I can at ...
A. 13 July 2010: Dude, this one will be a tough one. You want a little piece for yourself yet if you handle this wrong you will be outted to the family by her. Sometimes women of her age like the power they have over guys. Lots of 16 yo girls do, more than they ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't tell anyone I'm his girlfriend!
Q. My Turkish Boyfriend Keeps Me A Secret - What Should I Do? We've been together for 2years now and he wont tell anybody about me. He says he had fights with his family over his ex and thats why he wont. He is 30years old. I think if he loves ...
A. 13 July 2010: Run girl, run. I had a GF who was quiet bout me and it never worked because she was not proud of me for some reason. Same with your BF. Go find a new one.... (read in full...)
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