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writes:My partner is interesting in acting classes. I'm concerned because part of these classes will have him kissing other women and acting in various passionate scenes with them. Should I be jealous?
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (17 July 2007):
 Its very normal to be jelous seeing a partner kissing others. But you have to remember hes acting anything he looks like hes feeling is acting. Just remember when hes with you hes not acting
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reader, eddie  +, writes (17 July 2007):
 It's natural to feel a little jeaous or perhaps awkward. It goes against everything we're taught to expect. It's not the same though as him going out to pick a woman up at a bar. Don't make a big deal out of it.
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (17 July 2007):
 I dont think you should be jealous, but i can see why your uncomfortable with it. I would be as well. Dont say anything and just be supportive, it depends on how much you trust your partner, if you feel you cant trust him, maybe you could talk to him? Like previous answers, this is just for coursework, not for pleasure or because he wants to do it.
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reader, down to earth +, writes (17 July 2007):
 i dont really think you should be jealous because at the end of the day it is only an acting class,so he will be expected to do things like kissing women and touching them.If you really are that uncomfortable i would advice you to talk to your partner about how your filling. try not worry as much because at the end of the day he is your boyfriend alyrt xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2007): No, you shouldn't be jealous. It would be part of the acting classes, not happening in reality. So it would be premeditative, acording to a scenario and to please the audience, with "manufactured" emotions. I remember a Spanish actress who once brought her husband at the studio to make him see one of these scenes, because she wanted to show him it's part of her work but at the end of the day she loves HIM. The actors that "notice" their film-partners do so because they are having problems AT HOME, not because they have fallen for them during a FAKE-kiss sequence. This little time can't destroy a healthy relationship, fed with trust. Thus I'd say he'll appreciate more than a display of ungrounded worries if you'd be really supportive, once that's what he chooses to do.
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reader, Midge +, writes (17 July 2007):
 No you shouldnt be jealous if your partner is performing an act which forms part of a college course or part of their work.
This unfortunately happens with a lot of actors and actresses, however if they trust their partners, there really isnt anything to be jealous about.
You may not like it, but its not for the pure pleasure that they are doing it, its for a purpose such as a college course or work.
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