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Q.   hi, I cant help but feel I Dont belong here Anymore, I try and make the most of life but my chin just hits the floor, I'm tired I'm weak I'm loosing control. I have no zest for life I'm gunna walk throught the door. If I walk then I roll if I roll t...

A.   4 February 2010: i had an argument with my g/f and realy did feel bad the day , the peom let me vent my anger and frustratution out , helped alot , thanku christina... (read in full...)

Does my husband want me to have a baby now?

Q.   We've been married for 2 years but dated for 7 before and we're both 30 (knew eachother when kids) Hes the kinda guy who loves kids. Anyway basically whenever we are making out he always like rubs and touches my stomach and just like holds onto...

A.   2 February 2010: i do this to my girl , i think it might just be his securaty , his pride that one day he knows u will extend your family , its a nice feeling and he sounds loving and kind ... (read in full...)

Do men like sexy eyes?

Q.   Do you men like sexy eyes? what so special about a woman eyes? men always look into my eyes and tell me how pretty they are but that is the regular response for a woman like me who like nice comments, I was at a resturant ordering something to eat ...

A.   10 August 2009: hi , from my point of view the eyes of a woman are very attractive no matter what colour, its a very sexy thing when u meet a girl and you just look into there eyes and i think well just wow , immiedately i have to compliment them on the wonderfull ... (read in full...)

What are the facts about pre-cum?

Q.   Hello, I've recently come off the pill and my boyfriend and I and now using the 'pull out method'. I'm a little worried because once his done his business outside me he re-enters me straight away. Could I still get pregnant? What are the f...

A.   23 November 2008: im no doctor, but i say this could get you pregnant!!! the fact that he finished then re enters you stright after, unless he totaly wipes it clean but theres still that risk of you getting pregnant, my advace is use a comdon as its safer than the ... (read in full...)

My parents hate me seeing my boyfriend because of his past.

Q.   Ive known my boyfriend for at least 5 years..we fell in love when we were 12 but i was to young so we broke it off and waited..4 years later we went back out and now im turning 18 in just four months he is turning 19 in two months. My parents found ...

A.   5 August 2008: hi, not everyone can understand how u feel about this guy, you have to be honest with your parents and let them know that he has changed and reasure them that he has.... your 19 now and that means you can make your own decisions.. i.e responsi... (read in full...)

How can I support my boyfriend during this trying time?

Q.   Hello- Was wondering if you guys could give me some insight on this situation: How to comfort a loved one during and after the death of a family member. My fiance's grandmother is very ill and has just recently stopped eating (which is usually...

A.   31 July 2008: Hi, If you check some of my posts you will see that I've been with my girlfriend over just two months. About a month into the relationship her nan died, they were close, now as i seen it, i had fallen head over heals in love with her, and i made sur... (read in full...)

How can I get rid of really bad breath?

Q.   Hi okay this is pretty embarassing, I have had really bad breath for a while maybe like a week or something... anyways I have tried so many remedies like tongue scraping, mouthwash, chewing parsley, and many others and it just isn't working!! My ...

A.   28 July 2008: how to check if your bad breath is as bad as you think it is get some salava worked up in your mouth, then lick the any part of your hand making sure u put alot of salava on there , let it dry!! and then sniff it. if it smells bad then take up the ... (read in full...)

How do I set up the right situation to get more intimate with a boy I like?

Q.   Hi, basically i like this boy. I got off with him a couple of weeks ago at a party and we've been talking loads ever since. i'm meeting up with him soon -- i really want to go further (ie fingering handjob etc) and so does he. but i don't know how...

A.   28 July 2008: i have this difficulty with me and my girlfriend, we want to be more intimate but dont really have no where to go!! so if you have places to go that are private then go there but dont do things in public as if your caught you can get into ... (read in full...)

My husband is rude and grumpy and freaks out if I talk to my family or friends. Please help!

Q.   I'm 28 years old and have been married for 6 years now. I don't know what to do, I'm depressed and need help with my marriage. My husband can be rude and grumpy a lot of time with me, he's only nice to me when he wants sex. He also doesn't ...

A.   28 July 2008: hi, your husband sounds very passesive and ignorant of your feelings, ive been in a relationship where i had no one to turn to and ignored my family and friends throught the lover i was with, u need to sit him down if you can and explain your ... (read in full...)

Guys-Would you be texting your ex if you didnt still care about them??

Q.   Please help, Im still ridiculously in love with my ex bf even though we broke up a year ago. I feel like im wasting my life hoping we'll get back together but then again we are still in constant contact and he is always asking me to meet up? Do y...

A.   28 July 2008: well being a guy who has had several ex's in the past and i admit one or two i just couldnt get over till i had one more try, i didnt know then....,but it just didnt work out with them.... so the best advice i can give is give it anouther go and see ... (read in full...)

What can I do to make my big nose appear smaller?

Q.   Im a girl, Im 15 and really, really self-concious about my nose. Its just too big. It makes all my other facial features seem out of proportion and worst of all it makes me really, really ugly. I hate it. I hate the comments I get about it. I avoid ...

A.   27 July 2008: beauty begins within,look at yourself in the mirror and do it everyday and tell yourself that you love yourself for who u are!!i had the same low self confidence at your age and i know it can get you down but if a guy realy likes you he wont care or ... (read in full...)

Is my red sensitive penis normal?

Q.   when i have sex or masterbate my penis head goes really red and is really sensitive :S Is this normal???...

A.   27 July 2008: the answer as far as i know is yes its normal, as the sensitive nerves in your head as you put it become intensivly sensitive and as for the redness i belive its the motion that does make it go red so u r perfectly normal like all us blokes.... (read in full...)

What can I do to get revenge on this guy?

Q.   pls someone should tell me how to suffer a guy just to get back at him. what do i do to revenge? i saw a picture of a girl i suspect him to be with and some outgoing and incoming calls from both parties. he denies it and said he just wanted to show ...

A.   22 July 2008: revenge solves nothing, walking away will make sure you dont stoop to his level and he'l know he lost you which is enought....... (read in full...)

My new girlfriend asks "How can she be with me when my son always comes first!"

Q.   hi my name is paul. im 32 years old and i have posted before about the sameish subject, only thing is things have changed and im in termoil, could realy do with helpfull advice. i have a 5 yr old boy who i dont live with he lives with his mum some ...

A.   21 July 2008: thanks for your replies, we had a massive row tonight and we split for 15 mins until i got the real reason why we split. we made up and hopefully i understand her alittle more now, its not about my son its becouse of my ex and her involvement in my ... (read in full...)

I can't sleep. I can't keep calm. I can't afford to get it wrong. I can't afford to fail. What? Oh. My driving test, of course!

Q.   This isnt about relationships but please help! I have my driving test on friday and im so scared becasue i cant afford to fail it, mainly because the test centre is closing down, so i wont be able to do another test there, i cant afford any more les...

A.   21 July 2008: cant give tips on passing accept try and keep carm on the driving test and dont let the jitter's get you, i always say to myself when im not in control the grass is green the sky is blue seams to work when all else fails return to the on... (read in full...)

My Ex is Ruining Things Between Us

Q.   dear cupid, my story starts in 2002 i met what i thought would be my future wife, within six months we had moved in together and was happy when we planned a pregnancy and she gave birth to my little boy!! i was so happy but soon after sh...

A.   15 July 2008: just like to thank you for responding to my message i have txted her what you said and all is ok at the moment and me and my girlfriend can get on with are lives and still have my son in my life to so great thanks.... (read in full...)

How did you meet your partner?

Q.   Hi everyone, I've had a lot on my mind today so to lighten the mood I wanted to find out somthing dreamy. You see, every guy I have ever been with I have met after a big night at a party or the pub/club. Im not an alco or anything I just like (well ...

A.   15 July 2008: hi, male here. having had only 4 longish term relationships and most failed after a few years, i waited a couple of years for me to go back on the dating game,built my confidence up made my look attractive. then when i wasnt in the mood to go to a... (read in full...)

Is it better to stay in his life or give him space?

Q.   My boyfriend has issues trusting people. I know everyone in his past has hurt him, but he never talks about it. Also, the girl he was engaged to before just left him for no reason. I want him to be able to trust me, but when I try to talk to him he ...

A.   15 July 2008: hi, with out trust you cant have a relationship. well you can but it would be pritty tought on both of you,just keep reasuring him tell him that you love him and that you would be a fool to leave someone you truely love and that you would be hurt... (read in full...)

How do I deal with the "dragging time" after a break up?

Q.   Hi Dearcupid Members, thanks for clicking this post and for any feedback. I am 20yrs old and finding life really difficult at the moment. I had been with my ex-girlfriend for about 10 months and we both said we were in love. However we brok...

A.   15 July 2008: hi, my own personal experiances can come into play here. i was with my ex for four yrs a similar situation to your only i had a child with her!!, one day she just upped and left and i was dumbstruck, i was so depressed i dint know what to do so i fo... (read in full...)

Any advice on how I can deal with this crisis of self-confidence?

Q.   I recently broke up with my boyfriend which hurt me a lot but I was very lucky to find a really nice guy right afterwards. I like him a lot, but he just makes me feel so insecure that I'm having a really hard time being with him. I'm really sma...

A.   15 July 2008: hi, first of all id just like to say money isnt everything in a relationship of coarse it helps when you want things for yourself or to buy your new partner that something special,if he hugs you great!!!! if he loves you great!!! spends time with... (read in full...)

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