We have FWB relationship, I want more, he still has feelings for ex!
Q. Hi Everyone! Iam so sad and disappointed at the moment and really dont know what to do. Please tell me what the best thing I have to do right now. I have been with a man for 4 months, I really had fun with him, and of course we had sex ( great...
A. 27 January 2009: Initially I thought that he maybe has feelings for you but does not want to give you false hopes by admitting to it, but if you say you're not the only one.. if you're *absolutely* sure of that, then yes, you have some good advice about what to do ... (read in full...)
Am I being racist?
Q. Hello all! There is a guy who likes me a lot but is not the same race as me. He is such a great guy but I only see him as a friend because I dont date of my own race. I dont know if this sounds racist, because I dont think I am a racist. I have ...
A. 26 January 2009: "I say that I want to be single for now" - that's just not true. To me a statement that by no means is true is a lie. Your mileage may vary.
I meant that there is no need to bring races into what she says or what she thinks - if she's not attr... (read in full...)
All my friends have perfect cleavages, I've nothing!?
Q. I'm really worried because i have about a 2 inch gap between my boobs. i've tried everything to get rid of it like different types of bras and i've even been on the pill because its ment to make your boobs grow but it doesn't work. All my friends...
A. 25 January 2009: As people said, you sure don't need to worry. However, since you said you are on the pill - are you sure it's the kind of pill that actually does something for your breasts? Some contraception pills do the precise opposite of what you want. Girl... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant, boyfriend doesn't understand I want an appartment of my own...
Q. Me and my boyfriend has been living together for almost 1 yr now. I do love him, but I think we should get seperate apts. I dont want to break up with him but he thinks I does. By the way, I am 7 months pregnant with my first child, his second ...
A. 25 January 2009: To answer that question we'd have to know what your reasoning for all of this is. Why should you get separate apartments? You say you don't want to break up with him, yet you also say you "want to move on with your life not living with him anymore". ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about his being so thin and I also dislike it! What do I do?
Q. Im 15 and I have a boyfriend. Hes great but he always keeps things to himself. He never tells me whats wrong or if anythings bugging him. Im really worried also because I dont think hes eating enough! Whenever I go to his house , theres never any ...
A. 25 January 2009: It happens often at this age that people are really thin. I know I was what is officially called underweight until I turned 18 - suddenly gained a lot of weight then. But based on what you say about his eating habits at your house, there seems to be ... (read in full...)
Does he still want to get to know me?
Q. Ima try to make the story short.. Ok so I met this guy last year(he is now 22 and I am 18) and he asked for my number and he would call me almost everyday, but since he's older than me I didn't take him seriously. So we eventually lost touch and a ...
A. 25 January 2009: Call, text, ask him. Don't act based on signs - maybe he really is busy, maybe he found somebody else and doesn't want to tell you, maybe ... you don't know. Find out.... (read in full...)
We had threesome with wife's ex and now I feel sick
Q. My wife and I had a threesome the other night with her ex boyfriend, who is also a friend of mine from high school. The two of them dated right before we got together. He was her first love, and she lost her virginity to him, but they broke up a ...
A. 25 January 2009: Suppose you should tell her you feel terrible about it. Best of luck with this :x.... (read in full...)
How can I tell him NO without hurting him?
Q. I'm 14 and know I'm not ready for sex just yet but my boyfriend and I are hanging out ALONE with my best friend and her boyfriend next weekend.... he is very very experenced.... but I'm not as much.... I was raped when I was younger but thankfuly ...
A. 25 January 2009: Did you manage? ... (read in full...)
Is he an abuser? Am I? (verbal abuse that is). Help!
Q. Help! Did I make a mistake in ending our relationship? If I did, how should I rectify the situation? I read the link on warning signs of dating a loser (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/warning-signs-youre-dating-a-loser.html), and thought that...
A. 25 January 2009: It's good to hear that you chose the sensible option. Don't get yourself down - based on your words you have absolutely no reason for it. Best of luck with less problematic partners.... (read in full...)
Am I being racist?
Q. Hello all! There is a guy who likes me a lot but is not the same race as me. He is such a great guy but I only see him as a friend because I dont date of my own race. I dont know if this sounds racist, because I dont think I am a racist. I have ...
A. 25 January 2009: The old Man?: Respecting lies is not my idea of a 'great guy', personally. I think you should just tell him that you are not attracted to him, see him as a friend, and would love to keep him as a friend. If he can deal with that, yay. If he ca... (read in full...)
I'm jealous and always seem to hurt my girlfriend
Q. Why do I always hurt my girlfriends feelings? I don't understand it it's like everytime I do something it hurts her feelings. I've been with her for seven months now and we seem to fight like almost everyday and I'm getting so tired of it. I'm a ...
A. 21 January 2009: Does she at all try to see your side, to take measures ensuring you'll end up in less situations making you feel jealous, does she acknowledge that her actions trigger this?
How exactly do you hurt her feelings and what do you fight about regu... (read in full...)
Sex with the ex while I was away
Q. My partner of 8 months had sex with his ex girlfriend of 2 years behind my back. He'd always made her out to be a bit of a monster, and said she always tret him like shit and he hated her. Apparently she is a real bitch. Once in a hotel when we'...
A. 21 January 2009: I don't think it's particularly okay to cheat on your partner "to fuck with your ex's head, so she leaves you alone" - that he had not told you almost half a year later doesn't add to his trustworthiness.
In any case, if he has sex with people to "... (read in full...)
I'm a mess! I have to break up with him!
Q. how do you tell a guy you really love that your relationship must end? i have been going out with this guy i love him but for really important reasons i must leave him now it seems impossible to tell him that because i love this guy a lot. but i ...
A. 21 January 2009: I'd suggest just honestly telling him why - that at least can prove some closure instead of leaving him with uncertainty, cluelessness.
P.S.: "It's not you, honey, it's me" sounds like the oldest lie in the book.... (read in full...)
I think I might be falling for my co worker.
Q. This is long, and I'm sorry. I really don't know what to do, but i figure asking will help me get it off my chest. I'm 16 years old (17 in a week) I think I might be falling for my co worker. He's 22, and an assistant manager. Our work envi...
A. 21 January 2009: There's sure nothing wrong with agreeing to see a movie with him and seeing where that leads you.... (read in full...)
My heart is with my ex and always has been but I am wearing another man's ring...
Q. Well my situation is very very complicated. I met my true love when I was 16 and we had a child when I was 19. He was 22 at the time and was not ready to settle down so we split and went our seperate ways. I always wanted things to work out ...
A. 20 January 2009: Get a divorce. Get with the other guy. Easy. Just do it, rather than mulling about for more years. Ideally don't have sex when you don't want to, but then again you somewhat deserve the pain in the an eye for an eye sense, seeing how you cheat on... (read in full...)
How can I tell him NO without hurting him?
Q. I'm 14 and know I'm not ready for sex just yet but my boyfriend and I are hanging out ALONE with my best friend and her boyfriend next weekend.... he is very very experenced.... but I'm not as much.... I was raped when I was younger but thankfuly ...
A. 20 January 2009: Tell him you're not ready yet if he makes any advances; apologise if he confronts with your earlier leading him on. As you said he's not the kind of guy who'd have a problem with that, and if he is he's not worth your time anyway.... (read in full...)
Is he an abuser? Am I? (verbal abuse that is). Help!
Q. Help! Did I make a mistake in ending our relationship? If I did, how should I rectify the situation? I read the link on warning signs of dating a loser (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/warning-signs-youre-dating-a-loser.html), and thought that...
A. 20 January 2009: He seems crazy-ass insane, to be honest. From what you say he is unable to see himself at fault, ever, and finds ways to make the most ridiculous things be 'your fault' -- and with somebody who breathes hypocrisy, you can't even really know if he ... (read in full...)
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