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writes:Why do I always hurt my girlfriends feelings? I don't understand it it's like everytime I do something it hurts her feelings. I've been with her for seven months now and we seem to fight like almost everyday and I'm getting so tired of it. I'm a extremly jealous person and she has so many guy friends. So can you please help?
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reader, django  +, writes (21 January 2009):
Does she at all try to see your side, to take measures ensuring you'll end up in less situations making you feel jealous, does she acknowledge that her actions trigger this?
How exactly do you hurt her feelings and what do you fight about regularly? Any examples?
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reader, MutantKitten  +, writes (20 January 2009):
 Is there a reason you're so jealous of her guyfriends?
Have you tried hanging out with them and judging their relationship?
There's really no reason to be jealous..If you're worried about keeping her, jealousy will only drive her away faster.
Try to monitor yourself when you're talking about other guys with her, or hanging out with other guys. Try to notice when you start getting jealous, and tell yourself to calm down. You should understand that you don't have the right to all of her time, and that this jealous reaction is brought on by insecurity in yourself.
http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Being-Jealous
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): maybe u should get to know her guy friends,its not far maybe she gets along wit guys better then girls..its all about trust to make a relationship work and u should maybe question ur self wit the relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): awh. jealousy.. hmm my bf has the same problem. sit down with your gf and tell her you love her it just hurts when you see her with another guy or hear about her being with another guy because you want to be the only guy in her life and that you are sorry for being jealous, but you do love her and youll try to work on it.
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