He is mistrusting, paranoid, insecure and trying to control my life
Q. This story sounds minor but it pretty much sums up my relationship with my boyfriend of two years, who I love dearly and he wants me to move to Italy (where he is from)... So I bought two pairs of shoes, I work in a professional setting. The he...
A. 7 July 2009: No men like this do not change unless they go to therapy and even then it's a long shot. In my opinion, things will only get worse from here. If you move to Italy you are going to be cut off from close family and friends and if he starts to get even ... (read in full...)
Hopelessly in love...with a player.
Q. Ok first of all, i'm a 22 year old virgin. i've never had a boyfriend and i had my first kiss just last year at 21. i've always been pretty shy especially when it comes to talking to guys. this is gonna be long, but please help me. here goes...ab...
A. 26 June 2009: The best thing you can do is to move on from this guy. You deserve someone who is interested in more than just your body. Relationships based on lust never work out ..TRUST ME I KNOW lol...If this guy was worth it then he would want to get to know ... (read in full...)
I want to go out and have a life but don't know how to do it!
Q. Im really happy with my boyfriend and im really happy when my boyfriends around but heres the issue. I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago. Ive been searching for jobs for months and months, right since i was back at home and am having no...
A. 26 June 2009: Maybe you could get a pet? take it for walks and explore the area. ... (read in full...)
Are bachelor/bachelorette parties wrong for our situation?
Q. Ok so my BF and I are thinking about getting married and the topic of the infamous bachealor/bachealorette party has come up. Something I should tell you is that my BF and I have been together for about 6 years now and we were teenagers when we ...
A. 25 June 2009: Thanks for the advice guys....I guess I forgave him but I havent forgotten and I don't think I ever will. I also don't see myself leaving him so I think I might just have to suck it up and bear it. ..I feel as though once we get married I won't be ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test came back negative but I'm still late, what else could be the reason behind this?
Q. hey im a week late for my period and i took a pregnancy test yesterday and it came back negative my boyfriend and i are always careful and responsible and we havnt had any problems with our contraception im starting to get worried now but sure...
A. 25 June 2009: First and foremost you need to relax, being a week late is no big deal. If you were careful then you should have nothing to worry about. I ALWAYS get my period regularly and there was a point in time when I went THREE MONTHS without it!! i went to ... (read in full...)
What should I do? Leave him because he's an asshole with anger problems?
Q. I've been with this guy for 9months and Its been ups and downs from the 5th month. When we use to go out he would stare at females and not hear a word I said. I finally got him to understand but it didn't last long. My b-day weekend we went out ...
A. 20 June 2009: HE IS AN ASSHOLE WITH AN ANGER PROBLEM!!! Honey please dump this guy ASAP. i can guarantee you that he is going to cheat on you. You say he is the only guy who hasn't cheated but he is the type of guy that WILL cheat on you. You deserve to be ... (read in full...)
I have to chose between Man A & Man B and I don't know how to do it!
Q. dear readers, i am very sorry for the lenght but i have to explain. Please dont get discouraged by that. Read it coz i need ur help. i had an internet relationship last year that was ignited in august 2008. We got so used to eachother that i...
A. 20 June 2009: Stay with Mr. B!!! In my opinion, MR. A had his chance and he blew it. Why should You want to be with him now when he didn't want to be with you back then? It seems to me that he is just all over you because hes back in town but once he leaves again ... (read in full...)
Should I expect him to take me back or should I move on?
Q. I recently lost a very good friend to cancer. My boyfriend was not being very supportive the following morning my being mean and unfair to my son (who did absolutely nothing wrong) I got mad and packed up everything that I had in his house and ...
A. 20 June 2009: This is a tough one, I would say just give him a little space. He probably just needs some time to process what just happened. I understand how you feel, when things go wrong in my life I always seem to take it out on other people. Despite this, ... (read in full...)
Girl flirting with me but I can't bring myself to let anything happen
Q. ok so I recently posted on here. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-pain-from-my-past-has-numbed-me.html for those of you who suggested therapy unfortunately I cannot afford it. although I truly don't feel anything still I wait for time to pass. ...
A. 20 June 2009: I'm not sure what has happend in your past but my advice would be to go with it. Sometimes the best medicine is new love. Just go with the flow and if things start to get serious with you and this girl then go for it! Don't be afraid to get hurt ... (read in full...)
How do I get over her? I can't live without her!
Q. Hey, i'd appreciate anyone's advice that's been in this situation before, or even going through it right now! My ex and I have been broken up around 7 months now, and we've remained really close friends,but the problem is I still have strong feel...
A. 19 June 2009: you're welcome! Good luck, keep me updated :)... (read in full...)
After everything I have done for her, she still misses her ex
Q. Hello, new here. For the past 5 months i have been going through a divorce with my wife and met a woman going through a divorce as well. Her ex really hurt her and attacked her one night, something she never expected which ended their relationsh...
A. 19 June 2009: Hi I was that girl once and all I can tell you is please try not to get too attatched to this woman. I was with a guy for 7 years and then we broke it off. During that time I found someone who adored me and treated me 10x better than my ex but for ... (read in full...)
My friend has a guy friend, who beats her up, cuts her, what can we do about this, she doesn't want to tell parents?
Q. I'm seriously worried about my friend, she was in what she thought was a non-commital relationship with someone. And then dumped him. He gave her a black eye. Yesterday, he met her while she was walking her dog and punched her and used a razor to ...
A. 19 June 2009: Tell your friend that she needs to go to the cops or her Parents ASAP. This guy has the potential to seriously injure her or even kill her. This is a serious issue and you guys can not wait any longer. I would even advise you to tell her parents if ... (read in full...)
Everyone says I'm Beautiful and skinny. I just feel fat and ugly!
Q. My boyfriend is always telling me I'm beautiful to him no matter what. Alot of people I know tell me I'm pretty, beautiful, skinny, etc.. but I can't help but feeling fat and ugly, is there something wrong with me?...
A. 18 June 2009: There is nothing wrong with you. Is there something troubling going on in your life or have you ever had a bad experience in your past? if you feel as though this could lead to an eating disorder I would seek help ASAP.
Sometimes the reason peop... (read in full...)
I can't orgasm through intercourse!
Q. Hey, I find it really hard to orgasm through vaginal intercourse, and by hard i mean practically impossible. I can cum fine through personal masturbation or if my boyfriend goes down on me, its just the actual sex that doesnt make me orgasm. ...
A. 18 June 2009: What position do you guys do regularly? I find that missionary halps me orgasm better than any other position because his pelvis is stimulating the clitoris and at the same time he is going in vaginally. I have only had a few vaginal orgasms..its ... (read in full...)
How do I get over her? I can't live without her!
Q. Hey, i'd appreciate anyone's advice that's been in this situation before, or even going through it right now! My ex and I have been broken up around 7 months now, and we've remained really close friends,but the problem is I still have strong feel...
A. 18 June 2009: Dear Stuck
I have been in this situation before and I ended up getting back with my ex after 7 months of being apart. My advice would be to be alone for a while. Focuse on other activites, maybe a hobby of some sort?..do you have anything you have... (read in full...)
Running out of time....
Q. Ok, I will try to make this as short as possible. I have been with my current boyfriend for about 8 years now. There was a period of time that we werent together and I was seeing another guy. This guy( who i will call romeo) was the perfect boyfrien...
A. 18 June 2009: Thank you all so much with your answers!! They have really helped me think about this in a different way. I will keep you updated!!!... (read in full...)
Is it like, love or lust?
Q. Is it like, love, or lust? 1. I see this guy and am instantly attracted to him. I fantacize about him kissing me, etc. 2. I get to kinow this guy and realize that we have a lot in common.. even really random things, like favorite ice cream ...
A. 18 June 2009: It is lust! Get out now before this turns into a huge disaster that you will regret for the rest of your life. Please trust me on this..I was ina similar situation. I fell hard for someone and they ended up cheating and being verbally abusive. I AM ... (read in full...)
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