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writes:Im really happy with my boyfriend and im really happy when my boyfriends around but heres the issue.I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago. Ive been searching for jobs for months and months, right since i was back at home and am having no luck! I've moved cities to live with him and i dont have any friends here, only his friends and im not so close with them that i would invite them to see me when my boyfriends at work. My boyfriend works from early afternoon til late at night five days a week. I dont live in such a good area and theres not alot to do around here either, theres no parks or anything that i could go sit in. Now that its summer im looking out of the window every day and really wanting a piece of the sun! I wana put my summer dresses on and get out there! But i dont wanna go out alone, i wouldnt mind if i was going out alone with somewhere to go hang out like i said, at a park. I could take myself off for a walk everyday but theres nowhere interesting to walk. If i was to walk anywhere i'd like to be able to see new sights and find somewhere to perk myself down afterwards if you get what i mean. So all i have to do every day is either clean up or watch endless movies. I wouldnt care so much if it was winter or if i had company. The other thing as well is, my boyfriend gets two days off a week, and i think weve only ever done something three times on his days off since i moved in about three months ago. I asked him if we could do more things and we went to a steam railway one day which was lovely but every day off after that we've reverted back to old ways and just sat around the flat watching movies which is what i do every day of my life!!I know that its up to me to change my life and make friends, but i wouldnt even know where to start! Im starting college in September so i know my lifes gonna brighten up after that but i cant just waste the next couple of months sitting around here doing nothing, its making me depressed! I wanna go out and lap up the sun! Any ideas??
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (27 June 2009):
 I just moved to philly 3 months ago and this area its not a really nice area either. I have no friends and and i've also been looking for a job but no luck. I got a gym membership and thats where i meet people all the time. It's better than staying at home. Try that, it's been workinbg for me. im also going to college in september but the gym will keep me occupied.
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reader, desesperada  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 Maybe you could get a pet? take it for walks and explore the area.
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