I thought I was happy until an old ex got back in touch!
Q. I have been married for 5 years and have a 18 month old child. After the birth of our child I suppose me husband and myself became bogged down with everyday life and being parents. I though I was happy untill recently an ex of mine got in contact. T...
A. 8 May 2009: Hi there,
i have been in exactly the same position, only i did meet up and started an affair, it felt good, for once i wasnt i just wasnt a mum and wife, but let me tell you, its a bad idea, it really is. The guilt ur feeling now is nothing ... (read in full...)
Love my husband so much, not sexually attracted to him, adicted to my lover
Q. I've been with my husband for 12 year, married for 5. Although we once had very steamy sex and were completely in love and "in like", for me, the attraction is completely gone. It has been for probably 9 years. There's a lot of resentment on my pa...
A. 19 January 2009: i know what ur going through, i did a similiar thing, i had an affair and live with the shame, guilt and fear of it coming out and ruinng my life and my husbands.
Message me if u would like to talk more
tc xx... (read in full...)
He shagged like a porn star in his affair!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 14 years, with 2 kids. He is 40 I am 37. For a long time (possibly always) our love life has not been right. He is very highly sexed, and would want to make love every day, and several times a day if ...
A. 15 January 2009: I think its a good thing in most cases to give a second chance, we all make mistakes, but, in this instance ur husband is being terrible, it is wrong to make u feel like that. If he was making an effort at ur marriage, regretted what he did i would ... (read in full...)
Cheat, cheat and cheat again?!!
Q. i been married 20yrs and found out my husband was having an affair with a girl at work.she is 20yrs younger when i found out he admitted everything he had been seeing her for a few months he even took her to a hotel where our son had got married a ...
A. 15 January 2009: I am a believer in 2nd chances, none of us know what we are capable of, however, that is a lot of times to betray, which leads me to believe that he feels no remorse, sometimes people have affairs and feel so ba afterwards, they realise what they ... (read in full...)
Is she over reacting?
Q. I have been very stress out with planning my wedding, my work and my family life. So sex have the last thing on my mind. My fiance and me haven`t had sex in 3 weeks because I haven`t really been up to it lately. One night my fiance and me were going ...
A. 12 January 2009: Wow a man that refuses sex! now that is something new!!! i do she may have overeacted a tad, but she was probably embarrassed, do call her though for gods sake, make a huge effort with, show her u still care and love her loads. tc xx... (read in full...)
I couldn't get it up for her! Was I too drunk?
Q. Last night I was about to have sex with this girl that I have been interested in having sex with for months..Im so horny around her and I think about it all the time. Yesterday we hung out and we got drunk real bad.We were on Gin and juice for ...
A. 11 January 2009: From a female point of view i bet she feeling awkward simply because she knows u will be and not because she thinks any less of you. Why dont u try a date without the booze!! if shes a nice girl she will know exatly te cause of last night, dont ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't she be past all the romantic little things by now?
Q. quick question: I am with my partner for almost 3 years. I might not be the most romantic of men but I do try.. I will bring home flowers/gifts for her without a reason like a birthday or whatever. Spring a surprise trip on her when I can affor...
A. 9 January 2009: I think it is sweet that ur gf is keeping this up, doesnt it make u feel secure? do u not get pleasure out of knowing how much she loves you and wants to be close to u? I think this is a sign of a nice relationship, i think its great
tc xox... (read in full...)
She just "accidentally" happens to be naked when he comes over
Q. I feel uncomfortable with what goes on between my bf and a girl friend of his. On numerous occasions he has gone over her house and shes just 'accidently' been naked- even at times when she KNEW he was coming over- it was pre arranged a time and...
A. 9 January 2009: If this guy loves you he will understand ur insecurities, u shouldn't have to feel like this, i find it bizarre that his 'friends' would behave like this. Men love to know that they are longed after, he will lapping this up, but if he doesnt see the ... (read in full...)
Older people fall for me!
Q. Call me narcissistic for saying this, or call me delusional: I always wonder why so many of the adults in my life are so visibly attracted to me. It's my professors, mostly, who seem so interested in talking with me, and, during this time, flirting ...
A. 9 January 2009: Is it not possible for you to put urself in an environment with people ur own age? Do u secretly love this attention??... (read in full...)
My mum seems to hate me...
Q. My mom seems to hate me We are an asian family, and, well, to be honest, because we don't live in our homeland i've grown accustomed to fast food, aka food that's not 'home-food'. today, only half an hour ago, my mum called me into the kitchen...
A. 9 January 2009: Ur mum doesnt hate u sweetheart, she is probably presenting her anger and frustraions the wrong way. Its not easy being a mum, i realise its not easy for u either at the min, but ur mum is ur mum, u should never forget that, no-one else will ever ... (read in full...)
My ex is a beautiful godess and I can't find sexual pleasure in other women since I met her...
Q. I have a problem that doesn't seem to be going away. I broke up with my girlfriend of 3.5 years about 14 months ago (long story short: we were fighting a lot, neither of us were happy, I suggested taking a "break", and we never got back together- ...
A. 9 January 2009: Wow, that was exhausting reading!!! no but seriously, u have urself in a dilemma, Im a bit concerned that in all that writing u paid little attention to her as a person? surely u cant just want her back for her body? reality says that she wont ... (read in full...)
How do I date other people without losing him?
Q. I have been dating this great guy for about a year. He treats me perfectly, is fully trusting and trustworthy, appreciates my honesty (I'm a bit too honest for most people, so this is a big deal), does nice things for me constantly and we never ...
A. 9 January 2009: I would be concerned that you havent exchanged any 'i love u's' after this time. Maybe he senses ur totally happy? maybe he is cared of getting hurt? i think the bottom line here is that if u r having doubts now u probably always will. I would take ... (read in full...)
18 in love with a 40 year old man
Q. Dear Cupid, I am an 18 year old and I am in love with a 40 year old man. He doesn't know. I can't help it but everytime I see him or talk with him, I just want to be in his arms. I feel like there is no care in the world when I am around him. ...
A. 9 January 2009: No sweetheart this isnt wrong, u cant help who u have feelings for, what i would say though is that u should consider the future, lets say this guy felt thw same way about you? what happens when u reach an age of wanting a family? will he? i know ... (read in full...)
What does he want from me?
Q. This guy and I met back in September at a friend's party where we seemed to get along well and have a nice little chat. That night ended in us engaging in sexual relations (not actual sex, just oral). The next morning we exchanged numbers. Got a ...
A. 9 January 2009: Most of these replies are quite negative, isnt it possible that yes maybe at the beginning he didnt want anything more than just sex? is it not possible now that u have spent time together doing normal things, having nice chats that maybe he is ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get him out of my head and this has me really down.
Q. It's sort of a two-part problem (although I think that the two parts are inter-related). I was overseas this summer at a place where I used to live and spent time with a friend -- we hooked up a few times in the past, but this was many years ago. ...
A. 9 January 2009: I would be more inclined to say that maybe it is worth persuing this, you say this guy is unhappy, maybe he is thinking of u as much as u r thinking of him. Maybe u should make contact and see how things are now, maybe u are meant to be together, ... (read in full...)
I have a hang up on my penis size due to what the ex said, should I mention this to my new girl ?
Q. Right, straight talking on penis size.. It's 4.75 inches in girth and length, - I was with my ex for four years and during this time we had some break ups, although she did never sleep with anyone else,she did get intermit with a guy with a "thic...
A. 8 June 2007: Hi, Listen to me, you sound like a fantastic guy and what your ex has said to you is unforgivable, male pride is very important. You say this new girl is fantastic, i would sit her down and talk about it with her, explain exactly how you feel, if... (read in full...)
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