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I couldn't get it up for her! Was I too drunk?

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Question - (11 January 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Last night I was about to have sex with this girl that I have been interested in having sex with for months..Im so horny around her and I think about it all the time. Yesterday we hung out and we got drunk real bad.We were on Gin and juice for close to 6 hours. I got pasted to the point where I couldn't drive. Then we parked off somewhere and she started to give me head. I couldn't even feel her sucking me off it was like penis was numb and I just couldn't get it up. I have never in my life felt like that. She asked me if I wanted her to stop and in my mind im like what? hell no!!! i want you so bad..but I couldn't get it up. I ended up not orgasming at all..I felt like less of a man and on top of that she felt like I didn't get hard because of her. Somebody tell me that that happened because I was really drunk. Im too hot for this woman for that to happen to me. I feel real bad right now

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A female reader, Dani28 Ireland +, writes (11 January 2009):

From a female point of view i bet she feeling awkward simply because she knows u will be and not because she thinks any less of you. Why dont u try a date without the booze!! if shes a nice girl she will know exatly te cause of last night, dont leave it too long talk to her now. message me if u want to talk more, Dani xox

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009):

To be honest your not much of a man if you drink and drive. I think you know yourself that your sexual performance was affected by such vast amounts of alcohol, it's really not that hard to work it out. Maybe next time (if there is one) dont drink so much and definitely dont drive. You might kill someone and then it would most definitely be game over.

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (11 January 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntDont be upset...ITS CALLED "Whiskey Dick"

It happens to the best of us.

It happens alot to men who use copious amounts of Cocaine as well.

Im surprised you are in your 30's and this seems to be the first time it has happened?

Dude....stop getting drunk around her...SMOKE SOME WEED!!! That's the Rock Hard solution!!!

Then after you can order a Pizza!

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A female reader, BlueCherry Mexico +, writes (11 January 2009):

BlueCherry agony auntAlcohol tends to have that effect on ya' when you drink it like its water. Don't feel bad, its clear it wasn't you. Your head was telling you to go for it but your poor body was just wasted. Next time make sure not to get so drunk so you can have some control of your body & enjoy yourself. Better than looking like a fool dont ya' think ?

Regards,

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009):

Trust me, it's not your fault. I remember the first time it happened to me, I asked some friends about it and they called it whiskey dick. It happens when you drink too much, that's all. Explain to her that your dick was too drunk and try again, just don't drink as much.

Good luck!

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