Will I ever get closure?
Q. I met a guy two 1/2 years ago. We dated for 3 month on our last date we said bye like normal but he never came back. I need closure. I want to understand what happen. we speak alot through emails but i'm afraid to tell him how I feel. He ...
A. 27 October 2009: If you still speak through emails and he responds than you can get your closure right there. Tell him whatever you need to get off your chest and just ask him straight out. Let him know you are over him and are not looking to date him anymore nor ... (read in full...)
Now I am single my married friends have cooled on me!
Q. I am in my forties and have gone through a divorce. I have female friends both married and single. Since I am newly single some of my married friends have cooled on me. Not sure why. Any thoughts?...
A. 27 October 2009: This is natural. Married people feel uncomfortable sometimes asking you out as a single because you will be sitting alone while they are together possibly happy and cuddling and don't want you to feel bad. Also marriage carries a lot of ... (read in full...)
Is being a close friend a turnoff?
Q. I dont understand people sometimes they say they wont go out with someone because they see them as a close friend. But people usually say to have a good relationship friendship should be there. I dont understand why being a close friend is a turn ...
A. 27 October 2009: That's just a nice way of saying I like you a lot as a person and friend but I'm not attracted to you enough for something more. He "sees" you as a friend, not a lover. What's not to understand? It is possible for friends to become great lovers but ... (read in full...)
Distant boyfriend. Is something going on?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months now but lately he has seemed really distant. He rarely talks to me anymore, when we walk together he doesn't even try to hold my hand, and then last night after talking on the phone for ...
A. 27 October 2009: Well you have your answer. He wants to date other girls. He told you straight out that if she says yes and is available to him that he would date her and prefer her to you. He has a lot of nerve I think to say that to you and hurt you like that. ... (read in full...)
Should I have an affair on my husband?
Q. Soon after getting married, my husband had an unfortunate incident where he became paralysed, resulting in us not being able to have a sex life. I love my husband dearly and I did not leave him. I look after him and attend to him the best way I ...
A. 27 October 2009: This is a very difficult situation and no one can really tell you what you should or shouldn't do. It's up to you and what's in your heart. However, put yourself in your husband's place. If you were paralyzed how would you feel about your husband ... (read in full...)
Why did he lie to me about the way he felt about her?
Q. ok.....this is a realllllllly long one but m DESPERATE for help. 4 yrs ago i got in touch with this awesome guy n we really hit it off. he is 3 yrs elder to me.... n we've been togther for over 3 n half yrs now....n its always been in a long dis...
A. 25 October 2009: The emails you found "how am I going to live without you?" and all that were things HE sent to her or mail she sent to him? If it was all her than you may not have anything to worry about. Just because she is obsessed with him doesn't mean he has ... (read in full...)
Distant boyfriend. Is something going on?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months now but lately he has seemed really distant. He rarely talks to me anymore, when we walk together he doesn't even try to hold my hand, and then last night after talking on the phone for ...
A. 25 October 2009: The only thing you CAN do is just ask him! I mean if you are in a relationship you should be able to talk about anything bothering you. Tell him you are concerned that he has been acting "different" and why..but without showing too much emotion or ... (read in full...)
How to move on from my ex, but I still love him in a weird way?
Q. Hello I'd just like to thank people in advance for the help. A month ago my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. He had tried on several attempts over the course of about 2 or 3 weeks, and i'd been so upset at the thought of us breaking u...
A. 25 October 2009: I know it's difficult. It took me 2 years to finally get over my ex, one to believe it's actually over. However we were together over 10 years. It should take much less for you, nonetheless it WILL happen eventually. You are so young! You will meet ... (read in full...)
Need good remedies and/or painkillers advice for menstruation!
Q. Hey, this isn't really a relationship problem but I know all the aunts have great advice. The thing is, next week I'm off do do work experience for the whole week during my half term, but I'm due on my period either Sunday/Monday. Like many girls I ...
A. 22 October 2009: Advil is the best. I know because I suffer from severe pains. I literally throw up and go into seizures from the pain if I don't take a painkiller and nothing else works for me. It's good for migraines too. Usually takes 2 though or maximum strength ... (read in full...)
Met this guy at a pub, has he lost interest?
Q. I am a bit confused by this guy. I see him around my local pubs quite a bit and he always had lots of girls around him. I thought he was a bit of a jerk. I had a feeling he had a thing for me because he would always stare at me and look at me when ...
A. 20 October 2009: Have you considered that he might be gay? Is that a possibility? I mean the hanging around and hugging a lot of girls, inviting you all over, sleeping on the same bed without doing anything..then texting you, getting together with you but again not ... (read in full...)
She's hit me with a bombshell. Do I just need to give her some space?
Q. Hi. My Girlfriend of almost 6 years has hit me with a bombshell, she says she doesnt feel as though she loves me in that way any more, I love her more than I can explain, she's my world, I have never done anything to push her away and she openly ...
A. 20 October 2009: Ok,same thing happened to me and it was even worse because he was my husband! We were together 11 years and married 3 when out of the blue he tells me he doesn't feel the same anymore and thinks we should break up he doesn't love me as much as I ... (read in full...)
Can someone impartial tell me whats going on?
Q. My ex and I had been together for 7 years, but broke up about 4 months ago. We have since been seeing different people. He contacted me about 3 weeks ago, and we did some talking about getting back together. He said some very important things about ...
A. 20 October 2009: Honestly it sounds to me like he is keeping you as backup just in case his new relationship doesn't work out. Either he really misses you and wants you NOW no matter what, or he doesn't know what he wants. I mean if he said that he doesn't want to ... (read in full...)
How long should it take to get over a break up?
Q. Hi everyone. I hope you can help me. My girlfriend split up with me about a month ago. We'd been together for well ove two years. It hit me hard cos I was (and still am) so in love with her. I've read all the advice on how to deal with a bre...
A. 20 October 2009: I know how you are feeling because I still can't really get over my last break up either and still think about him even though I know he was very wrong for me. I can't help the way I feel about him and miss him all the time.Best thing that will help ... (read in full...)
How long should it take to get over a break up?
Q. Hi everyone. I hope you can help me. My girlfriend split up with me about a month ago. We'd been together for well ove two years. It hit me hard cos I was (and still am) so in love with her. I've read all the advice on how to deal with a bre...
A. 20 October 2009: I know how you are feeling because I still can't really get over my last break up either and still think about him even though I know he was very wrong for me. I can't help the way I feel about him and miss him all the time.Best thing that will help ... (read in full...)
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