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My husband hits me and I'm not sure what to do

Q.   I have a huge issue i have been married now for almost 3 years and im 23years old but my husband just turned 28, he is a cop and i am a student i was with him when he had to go to police academy and stuck by him in thick and thin but im starting to ...

A.   14 March 2009: Well isit worth him not stoping and killing you get out talk to someone like a shrink or something get on mess help yourself now ... (read in full...)

She thinks I'm trying to change her, but I'm just concerned for her, and now she's broken up with me! Help!

Q.   hi im 15 and goin through a hard time. okay heres how it all went down. my girlfriend who is 15 but older than me still told me she smokes i was shocked cause she said she hates people who smoke which doesnt make any cents. anyway i asked her why ...

A.   13 March 2009: Listen you need to understand some people use pot and cigs as a crutch to feel good when everything is bad and pot isn't that bad compared to cigarettes but you gotta give that person support instead of getting on her case about it you shoulda said ... (read in full...)

He won't ask me to be his girlfriend

Q.   So, I have been going out with a guy for about 5 months. We have gone out before, but our relationship has never been as good as it is now. However, he will not ask me to be his girlfriend. I asked him why and he said he does not want his family to ...

A.   13 March 2009: That's a toughie b/c my personal life is my business but I don't tell my ok man or lady shit about relations but if he loves you he shouldn't worry about that ... (read in full...)

Online boyfriend being pushed into an arranged marriage

Q.   Hey im a young girl 18 yrs old n a student, never had a boyfriend but found one over the internet chatting last year.He is 25 and a working guy. I met him through chatting n added him in messenger. We chat often, day by day we become closer.After ...

A.   13 March 2009: I'm in the same boat but I'm 17 and I get frustrated too when my girl ain't around b/c I love her soo much but were on the xbox and we got into a fight last night but we worked it out and listen don't be scared of your parents actually when if you ... (read in full...)

How can I make it so he won't dump me after a month?

Q.   How can u make our relationship last long. I really want this to work, between me and my boyfriend in the year above... But how do I make him like, NOT dump me after a month?! His last relationship was eight months, mine, 2 months... I dumped m...

A.   13 March 2009: If he's anything like me show him you love him no matter what and when you guys get into a fight don't ignore him mine did that last night and like I love my girl she's got a really big heart and she completes me but I was about ready to say f$&@ ... (read in full...)

I'm trying to change for my boyfriend

Q.   im having problems with my boyfriend. im trying so hard to change for him and he still doesn't see it. when ever i try to talk to him he takes my words in a wrong way and he thinks im complaining to him. i want to make things good again because i ...

A.   11 March 2009: Try to use words like this is awesome or this is really fun just try to use positive words in a positive action I hope that's good advice it's all I got ... (read in full...)

Can you develop feelings for someone you're not attracted to?

Q.   Hi I have had bad luck in love for a long time. I just started recently hanging out with this guy and he's really nice but I only see him as a friend. Anyway I think he likes me he always buys me stuff and I try and tell him not to but he does ...

A.   11 March 2009: Well it sounds like he likes you alot but eventually you will probably get used to the face and in my opinion god gave you whatever he gave you and you can't control the way you look but give him a shot seems like he likes you and maybe he'll grow ... (read in full...)

How can I ever trust him when he lies about porn?

Q.   How can a spiuse regain trust after sneaking in porn and lieing ab outout it? We had an agreement that he would not look at porn when I'm home as I feel that is very disrespectful, but I have caught him several times taking quickie porn looking ...

A.   9 March 2009: Well all I can say is the question a this does he love you ... (read in full...)

A temporary break?

Q.   I have been in a long distance relationship for the past couple of years. She has been the love of my life since 6th grade. We had a crush on each other for back in 8th grade but we drifted apart. Again, when I was in college, we started meeting, ...

A.   9 March 2009: Tell her how you feel man and it's ok to cry explain when you get there and tell her what your thinking work at it together. Hope that was a little helpful... (read in full...)

My guy is very stressed about his life..how to help him?

Q.   Hello pips Sorry for the long story. just need to let it out here is the story. me and my ex got back together like 2 months ago, he is the one who actually initiated the get together thing, however i knew that he had a girlfriend, the intenti...

A.   9 March 2009: I'd still check into go he a and find out what he wanted to say that day try to help him if he talks about it maybe he'll feel a little better... (read in full...)

How to seduce a lady & have sex

Q.   Wants 2 no how 2 completly seduce a lady and hv sex wit her. Cos i hv been wit 4 girls bt non respond properly.d 1st didnt allow me 2 touch her panties but we ar kissing. D 2nd after much strugle i remove her panties but refuse me 2 penetrate. 3rd ...

A.   9 March 2009: Dude give it time man sex is something you share with someone you love wait till they are ready... (read in full...)

Wrong for 15 year old to date 19 year old?

Q.   I am a fifteen year old girl, and I am currently interersted in a 19 year old man. We have known eachother for about a year now and have become extremely close in this period of time. Is it wrong for a younger girl and an older guy to date? ...

A.   9 March 2009: ok I'm close to your age and I'll say this if he loves you and you love him then do it but you need your parents permission to date and to have sexual intercourse but as for me 17 and I only date 2yrs younger than myself but if it feels right then ... (read in full...)

My guy is very stressed about his life..how to help him?

Q.   Hello pips Sorry for the long story. just need to let it out here is the story. me and my ex got back together like 2 months ago, he is the one who actually initiated the get together thing, however i knew that he had a girlfriend, the intenti...

A.   9 March 2009: I think it would be wise to find out what've wanted to say and I could understand why he is soo stressed try to be supportive and I'd be careful what I said to him mostly if it's over you still had the memories of you two being together but you ... (read in full...)

Do I have reason to worry about what's on his facebook?

Q.   My mum looked at my bf's facebook and had some very negative things to say about it. This has caused me to have so many doubts in our relatiosnhip. She critised alot, such as how the majority of his friends are girls, he has photos of himsel...

A.   9 March 2009: They may just all be friends of his but parents like to bash myspace and facebook for some reason but I'd just talk to him honestly and tell him how you feel about him just don't get angry or upset with him just tell him how you feel and if it ... (read in full...)

Have I lost my sex appeal?

Q.   so i have been wondering for the past maybe 7 months of my almost 2 year relationship that my girlfriend, now fiancee has been wanting increasingly less sexual things, not just sex, but everything of a sexual nature, even just making out or fooling ...

A.   9 March 2009: Ok she.could be stressed about something or she may not feel loved I would talk to her about it tell her your feelings don't be afraid to cry you know. Tell her that you love her and be supportive tell her how much you love her you can never say I ... (read in full...)

How do I become a caring guy interested in girls?

Q.   I had masturbatd 4 4yrs,bt had stop and i hv noticed dat i now find relationshipt boring, so i find it difficult 2 enter in2 a relatnship even though i had many girl as friend bt i cant love any of dem. So pls wat should i do 2 start lovin girls. ...

A.   9 March 2009: I honestly think you need to find the right person that's all I've always stayed out of the dating game until a month ago when I had this amazing girl come into my life and I love her so dearly but I never felt that I could love anyone then my girl ... (read in full...)

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