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| | *ountry Bumpkin's profile:Hi, I am 44 although I consider myself to still be young with my finger on the pulse. I don't have many friends but those I do have tend to be older than me.
I live in the Peak District area of Derbyshire and I am a nurse in Stockport and have come across people with all sorts of problems.
I'm single and have been for 4 years now. I feel that I can bring some empathy to most people with relationship problems as a result of my disastrous record with women. I enjoy helping people (which is good really or else I'd be in the wrong job)
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Doctors haven't helped... HELP!
Q. i've had this problem for about a month now. I need to pee every 5 minutes! at firt i thought it was cystitis, so i went to the doctors an altho they cudnt see any clear signs that it was cystitis they treated me for it. However after finishing ...
A. 29 October 2007: Frequent and urgent urination are classic signs of a urinary tract infection. Since inflammation reduces the bladder's capacity to hold urine, even small amounts of urine cause discomfort.
Diabetes and pregnancy can also cause these symptoms... (read in full...)
Is it stupid to provide advice to those who don't treat me fairly?
Q. I provide moral support even to those people who do not treat me fairly or sometimes even abuse me. Is it just being stupid? ...
A. 7 May 2007: I don't know the curcumstances but I would say yes. Normally you would treat others as you would expect to be treated by them but there becomes a point where enough is enough. Don't let people walk all over you. Put your foot down.... (read in full...)
I seem to be eternally single! Will I ever be happy in love?
Q. Hi All, I'm feeling so lonely. It's always highlighted at this time of year (Valentine's Day). I seem to be eternally single, after having dated a number of men who just haven't treated me right. To be honest, I look at myself, and I can...
A. 21 February 2007: You'll need to register with this site then click on my logo to email me via Dear Cupid.org. We have to do it this way, as you'll appreciate if we gave out email or IM address's we'd be swamped.
Hope to hear from you soon.
M... (read in full...)
I seem to be eternally single! Will I ever be happy in love?
Q. Hi All, I'm feeling so lonely. It's always highlighted at this time of year (Valentine's Day). I seem to be eternally single, after having dated a number of men who just haven't treated me right. To be honest, I look at myself, and I can...
A. 9 February 2007: In answer to one of your questions, yes there are some of us out here that feel as disillusioned as you. I won't bore you with my tales of woe but I am 44 and still single. I thought I'd found the love of my life but she left me for someone else. I ... (read in full...)
I feel so alone at Christmas
Q. I’m so lonely this Christmas. I’m a 44-year-old guy living in The High Peak, Derbyshire, UK. I’m a nurse at the hospital in the next major town. I split from my fiancée 3 years ago and I’ve been on my own since. I’ve made sure that I’ll be at ...
A. 26 December 2006: The idea of going on holiday would normally be a great idea but unfortunately my job doesn't allow me to request leave over the Christmas and New Year periods. I have though considered going on holiday in the week or two weeks running up to ... (read in full...)
I feel so alone at Christmas
Q. I’m so lonely this Christmas. I’m a 44-year-old guy living in The High Peak, Derbyshire, UK. I’m a nurse at the hospital in the next major town. I split from my fiancée 3 years ago and I’ve been on my own since. I’ve made sure that I’ll be at ...
A. 24 December 2006: Thanks Juliette,
I can see that you understand why I'd rather be at work than at home at the moment. I will be in touch for a chat. Thanks for listening.
M ... (read in full...)
Grandpa's a criminal
Q. my dad has recently started looking into our family tree, he's has a proffesional doing it all for him. however he's decided to take it into my mums side of the family too and i asked my grandma for my grandads name for it, (my mum hasnt seen her ...
A. 21 August 2006: If you look into your family history you should be prepared for all those skeletons coming out of the closet. Geneology is about finding out the truth but the truth cannot be rosy all the time. You don't need to tell anyone, your grandma is already ... (read in full...)
I have a flap of skin protruding out of my butt...is this normal??
Q. This is a little embarrassing but for as long as i can remember i've had this wierd flap of skin protruding out of my butt. I'm 16 and i noticed it when i was about 10, thought it was unusual but chose to ignore it because i assumed it was probably ...
A. 17 August 2006: This is called a skin tag. The title explains it all, that's all it is. They usually grow around the anus and mostly on older people. They can be found on other parts of the body, like the neck for example and can appear on younger people. They are ... (read in full...)
Is my relationship age gap ok? How can I make it work..
Q. My brother is 19..... He has a friend who is 19 also. I am 13. My brothers friend really likes me. He said he would go out with me now but he is afraid that my brother would kill him (Not really kill him) is he found out. My brother just like all ...
A. 22 April 2006: It's easy for anyone to say no, the age gap is not OK but that's not what you want to hear is it. I'm no legal expert but as far as I know it wouldn't be illegal if you were to start seeing this guy, as long as sex doesn't come into it you ... (read in full...)
Not into the guy I'm seeing. Is it OK to ask to just be mates?
Q. I am pretty confused about what I want. I have recently split with my bf and my mate introduced me to one of her bf's friends. Even though I told my mate I wasn't interested and I didn't want a realtionship, she is still trying to get us together. ...
A. 17 April 2006: You need to let this guy know where he stands, now! Don't let him think that you like him in that way when you don't. The longer you leave it the harder it will be for you and the more upset he will be.
The fact that the guy you fancy is your ex's... (read in full...)
He won't date friends' sisters, so he says. Could he change his mind?
Q. Hi I have a question do you think it is possible that someone can change their mindset?? Okay so I really like this guy we get on really well. There's like a tension and we flirt and stuff. The problem is that he is my brother's friend. My bro...
A. 17 April 2006: You havn't really told us much about him but the 'not dateing friends sisters' thing sounds a bit fickle. Does he think he can pick and choose? When 'a friends sister' becomes someone he likes does he modify his rules. If you're looking for a ... (read in full...)
Call for moderators to help out with DearCupid!
Q. Hi everyone, This is another appeal for volunteers to be moderators. You get to approve and categorise questions and approve answers. If you could spare say ten minutes a few times a week, then this could be for you! Just add your name in thi...
A. 16 April 2006: I'd love to be a moderator. I have only just started using this site but i feel that I have a lot of life experience which would be valuable for the post. Please consider me, I know I will be an asset.... (read in full...)
We love eachother, but her mom isn't liking this and wants to call the cops!
Q. Hi... I live in England, UK. Heres my question. Im 20, but my girlfriend is only 14 (she has the mind of someone more my age, shes mature). Iv known her for about three and a half years, but we were just distant friends for about one year. She st...
A. 16 April 2006: I hear everything your saying bro. I don't want to concentrate on the legal stuff, it seems to have already been covered. I want to concentrate on the concequences for you. Hope you don't mind if I bore you with a bit of history. I met a girl who ... (read in full...)
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