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writes: Hi I have a question do you think it is possible that someone can change their mindset??Okay so I really like this guy we get on really well. There's like a tension and we flirt and stuff. The problem is that he is my brother's friend. My brother has no problem with it if I wanted to go out with him. He said that would be okay.The thing is that this quy has a thing where he never dates his friends' sisters. As I say, we get on really really well, and we are working on a few projects together at the momment so spending a bit of time together. I haven't told him that I like him, so I guess my question is: do you think that with spending so much time together and getting on so well if I just let things run their course something could happen between us? And he could overlook his 'policy' on not dating his friends' sisters??
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reader, smeedle +, writes (17 April 2006):
Wise guy, it is never good to date friends brothers or sisters as it puts strains on the friendship and can oftern result in the ruining of a good solid friendship.
My guess is that he enjoys your company as a friend and this is how it will stay.
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reader, Country Bumpkin +, writes (17 April 2006):
You havn't really told us much about him but the 'not dateing friends sisters' thing sounds a bit fickle. Does he think he can pick and choose? When 'a friends sister' becomes someone he likes does he modify his rules. If you're looking for a relationship that will last I don't think he will be the one. If you just want s fling with no ties he'd be ideal.
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