Insane jealousy driving me crazy, please help!
Q. Hi. Does anyone have any help for me in how to deal with jealousy/insecurity? I have been with my bf for almost 2 years and we are about to move in togther. I know he is my one, I have never felt like this about anyone, I love him deeply. The thing ...
A. 26 September 2011: I think you should relax and enjoy the moment. He hasn't given you a concrete reason besides old sentiments towards ex's. Some ex's can't be forgotten, but instead ignored. I hope the both of you can be very happy. If your consumed by the feeling, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I got selected to same college, but he doesn't want to come along
Q. me and my bf love each other like mad.we are in a ldr since two years. recently we gave entrance exams and i and my bf got selected to the same college. but my bf doesnt want to come.he said he will drop this year and will try for some better...
A. 13 May 2011: He may be motivated by finances and may want to wait, or decide to get an a.a then transfer. I think he has faith in your relationship lasting long distance, and with a relationship with such long time invested I can understand the seperation may ... (read in full...)
How many friends do you have?
Q. OK I am wondering how many friends--and I mean real friends--can a person honestly have. I am not counting Facebook friends, but real friends. To me a real friend is someone you feel a kinship with, someone you identify with and who identifies w...
A. 13 May 2011: I have a fair amount of associates, but I have family of friends. Literally. I'm like the mom of group. I see these people, at least 6-8 people a day. We all care deeply about each other, we laugh at each other, we cry together, we stand together if ... (read in full...)
What was once loved is now lost, can anyone help me grieve?
Q. Ok, so I just left a relationship with one of my best friends. We've known each other for a few years, and a few years ago we made out for a bit, but I was with my 1st boyfriend at the time and wanted it to work out. Unfortunately it didn't and we ...
A. 22 May 2010: thank you for the advice. I just have to wait for the days to go by, but I'm tryna stay busy. ... (read in full...)
What does 'I lost her a long time ago' mean?
Q. i go through my boyfriends phone every so often just to see he's behaving himself, he hasn't done anything to warrant me not trusting him but im afraid of getting hurt. I sorta cheated on him twice, no sex. so im going through his texts and he's ...
A. 11 September 2008: thankyou for the advice. yeah i know what i did was wrong but right nowim feeling very insecure. he's turned into a total different person that i didn't fall in love with. for the most part he's been with me and only for the pqast 5 years, with ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why she broke up with me so suddenly with no reason!
Q. Hello everyone. I left England to study in Sweden for 6 months as part of my university course in january this year. It really was an amazing time. i met people from all across the world, and ended up being extremely close to 4 friends. One of t...
A. 10 September 2008: you didn't do anything wrong. the basis of your relationship was a drunken monent, which you guys did talk but it didn't start off on the right foot. I think either she likes you and needs more time to be friends or she just liked you as a friend ... (read in full...)
Am I about to start my periods?
Q. I am 10 yrs old, I have got a white discharge, pubic hair, even I get sweat in my armpits. Does that mean I am going to start my period?...
A. 10 September 2008: these signs show puberty but lots of factors can delay a period. Your weight, your activity level. Your almost there but its hard to say when it will happen. be prepared and bring a pad or tampon with you just in case. you never know when it will ... (read in full...)
He said he loves me, but the emails to his ex say otherwise. How can he love us both?
Q. hi everyone...recently i was at my guy's place. we were on the computer together, he then had to take a toilet break. So i was alone there on his computer. I saw his private email inbox and out of my curiosity, I checked it. I was shocked t...
A. 10 September 2008: depending on their history he may just love her as a friend. in some cases it is possible to love more than another but maybe he loves the memories he had with her or maybe her body. i think you need to talk to him about this hear his side of the ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me while drunk and confessed, feeling guilty. Does he love me? How can I forgive him?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years now and have trusted him wholeheartedly. We have always been open and honest with each other with a great friendship and he told me that he could never cheat on me. He recently went on a boys holi...
A. 10 September 2008: I was in a similar situation, i messed around with a friend i wasn't attracted to sober. I told my bf a month after the fact and yes it helped but trust isn't in our relationship. it's good that you trusted him but everyone makes mistakes. he could ... (read in full...)
Why do I still love him despite of his abuses? How do I deal with the conflicting feelings? How do I stop being in denial?
Q. I know im probably going to sound crazy or something when I say how I feel about my ex abusive bf, but its how I feel and what bothers me most is how my feelins conflict each other. On one hand, I have so much anger and hurt and cant believe he ...
A. 10 September 2008: I think you miss the good times with him. Regardless of the love you have for him its unhealthy to hold onto it knowing what you've been through. Take some time and don't pursue anyone, let your heart heal and grieve. even if you guys did get back ... (read in full...)
Talking to him is like talking to a wall... and these bitter feelings burst out every other month.
Q. I'm having more bumps in this relationship. Every other month all these bitter feelings burst out. Again I'm telling him that I want romanticism. I had to beg him today to cuddle with me. He knows i'm jealous of his female friends so he sneaks out ...
A. 19 June 2008: thankyou everyone. I tried to have a heart to heart with him but nothing was accomplished. I brought issues to the table and he denied most of it and all he kept repeating is "You realy don't know me do you?". But as of late I'm having sever anger ... (read in full...)
Talking to him is like talking to a wall... and these bitter feelings burst out every other month.
Q. I'm having more bumps in this relationship. Every other month all these bitter feelings burst out. Again I'm telling him that I want romanticism. I had to beg him today to cuddle with me. He knows i'm jealous of his female friends so he sneaks out ...
A. 19 June 2008: lets just say ive done things i shouldn't have done in the past. he acted accordingly and was devastated. this time around he admits his reactions to things are blase. I'm not sure, I want this to work but he never seem like a team player. Everyone ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want to make out!
Q. my boyfriend isnt interested in making out. i feel like im pulling teeth. he always has some excuse. we dont even kiss unless i steal one from him. hes interested in other stuff, it makes me mad but he has stated that he isnt a affectionate nor ...
A. 11 May 2008: thank you for the advice. i gotta clear up a few things, im not being forced to do anything against my will like sex or anything. i just dont like feeling ignored in this department. this relationship feels like a friendship and not anything ... (read in full...)
Am I getting upset over nothing?
Q. Am i complicating things? I recieve the message of love through pda and gifts. My boyfriend isn't interested. He's laxed about marriage and kids. I want to go to the next step. I know I'm loved but sometimes i don't feel it. ...
A. 30 March 2008: Thanx for the feedback, i should talk to him, but everytime i talk to him about these things he gets defensive and angry, so i keep these thoughts to myself. I bought him an expensive gaming console for xmas, he wasn't as appreciative as i thought, ... (read in full...)
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