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At what age do you stretch your foreskin?
Q. i m 18 years old i dont know whether to streach my foreskin or not? at what age should i pull my foreskin...
A. 16 January 2009: ok if this is a real question then it should have stretched by now. It might help you to pull it back a little more each day to get it started. if you use and oil based moisturiser it should help too.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I think our 3-some has back fired on us....
Q. Okay my man and I have been together for almost 5 years and we had a threesome a couple of times. It was nice after a while but I got tired of sharing my man to my best friend. Now my man and I have an open relationship and have had it since day 1 ...
A. 13 January 2009: if you want to have an open relationship then i think you need to be made of really stern stuff!. Its much more beneficial for men than it is for women. hes having hes cake and eating it!. if you want to continue this relationship you need to do one ... (read in full...)
I'm on the verge of cheating! HELP! So confused!
Q. I need some advice...I've in a serious relationship for 7 years, married 2 1/2 out of those 7. My husband and I have a wonderful relationship. The 1st year we started dating he took me home to meet his family (on west coast). As soon as I met his ...
A. 10 January 2009: If you want to keep your relationship with your husband then I seriously suggest that you do not tell him. The best thing to do is to speak to his brother and tell him it was a silly mistake, you both got a bit carried away. Even though you may be ... (read in full...)
I'm on the verge of cheating! HELP! So confused!
Q. I need some advice...I've in a serious relationship for 7 years, married 2 1/2 out of those 7. My husband and I have a wonderful relationship. The 1st year we started dating he took me home to meet his family (on west coast). As soon as I met his ...
A. 8 January 2009: The problem is you've decided that now is the best time to "live your life to the fullist" when your already married!. its just wrong!. if you felt it was time to settle down with your husband after so long whats changed since?. Its selfish for you ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get over someone I have never had?
Q. I feel such an idiot writing this. I'm not sure how to even start this. I like my teacher, alot. Wow like I have never heard that before. I haven't told anyone about my obsession, about how I spend every living second thinking of ways to get h...
A. 8 January 2009: well I know that you may not want to hear this but, its very common for young girls to look up to teachers. and although you feel you love this man, I doubt very much that is the case. Its hard for you to believe that in time you will forget about ... (read in full...)
Not sure if I can go through with the abortion
Q. hi there i have just recently found out im 10 weeks pregnant and not too sure what to do. im booked in for an abortion on monday but dont think i can go through with it. im 20 and have only been with my boyfriend for 4months, hes 25 and has a good ...
A. 7 January 2009: well if you have any doubts its very important that you talk them over with your partner. its not easy to make that decision, and women who have always regret it after. but it doesnt mean it wasnt the right thing to do for them. im not for abortion... (read in full...)
How do you learn to like yourself?
Q. I have never had a boyfriend because I feel fat and ugly, people always say you need to love yourself first but I don't now how to build my confidence. I don't have friends, my work collegues don't really like me I am just someone who is there, ...
A. 7 January 2009: First of all you need to stop putting yourself down, then you have to work on your good points. think about everything your good at, your best traits and your favourite things to do. then you can start to work on loving yourself, the way god made ... (read in full...)
Bullied at work
Q. I need some advice/help, I am being bullied at work and I reported the bullies because other members of staff advised me to and now it has been turned around on me because I am shy an I don't speak much, I feel so low and I feel very isolated. ...
A. 7 January 2009: I would recommend that you pay no atention to them, I know its hard to do. trust me I have been a target of bullying at work before. and funnily enough I was about your age at the time. I think its because your shy and maybe your the new girl. but ... (read in full...)
Comes onto me in text but not in person
Q. I am seeing a guy from time to time who I love but when we are together he never comes onto me or talks intimately! - Then the other night he started texting me saying he wanted to get it on with me etc etc. I was quite surprised that I ended up...
A. 7 January 2009: It sounds to me like he's embarrassed or too shy to say it to your face. I would also make sure that it wasn't some prank by one of his friends!. men do play tricks like that on each other, but it's best to ask him in person. He may have just been ... (read in full...)
I think I might have an infection, please help!
Q. I lost my virginity on new years....... ever since I have been itching a little bit and there has been like this muddy type substance and the color is like a brownish greyish.... I wash real good and it goes away... but the next morning when I wake ...
A. 4 January 2009: it sounds to me like you have thrush. you can buy over the counter creams and tablets for it. there is a tablet and cream combo that really works. they come in a set together, you simply take the pill then use the cream for the recommended amount o... (read in full...)
Is 33 years plus old over the hill???
Q. Is 33 years plus old over the hill truthfully Because I feel its is... your youth is gone......
A. 4 January 2009: I bloody hope not!! im 28 soon and I would hope that I feel the same as I do now in a few years time!. so i would say no its not over the hill.
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He bites my neck now instead of kissing it... what does this say to me???
Q. I have a question. I recently got into a relationship with a guy and so far it's been 3 amazing months. In the begining whenever we would makeout he would eventually end up kissing my neck, which I loved. But now when we engage ourselves in ...
A. 4 January 2009: it can be quite a nice feeling when someone bite the right part of your neck, GENTLY!.
maybe if you told him that it was a little too rough, but you really love it when he kisse your neck. And if you finish the sentence with something like " it driv... (read in full...)
He bites my neck now instead of kissing it... what does this say to me???
Q. I have a question. I recently got into a relationship with a guy and so far it's been 3 amazing months. In the begining whenever we would makeout he would eventually end up kissing my neck, which I loved. But now when we engage ourselves in ...
A. 4 January 2009: it can be quite a nice feeling when someone bites the right part of your neck, GENTLY!.... (read in full...)
I can't orgasm through penetrative sex
Q. hope someone can help, i can't seem to orgasam during penetrative sex?i can orgasam through clitoral stimulation (from myself or my bf)but just not when having sex with my bf?? can anyone suggest any advice please??...
A. 7 August 2008: hiya, alot of women have this problem. Its not like it is in the porn films, you have sex and everytime is a garunteed orgasm!. no, in real life its split 50/50 actually. most of the women in the real world find it difficult to orgasm during sex and ... (read in full...)
My husband kissed a girl who stays with us. I need some advice what best to do.
Q. Am married for 5years,am having a son of 4years and and within a month am expect our second child.my husband has been always faithful to me.he shares with me everything and it hard for us two to keep secret for each other.In our house we have a girl ...
A. 2 July 2008: Hiya,
unfortunately I dont think you have any choice but to cut all contact with this guest. its the only way you will be able to continue your relationship with your husband. Everyone is allowed to make a few mistakes, and hes been decent enou... (read in full...)
A girl from America wants to come and meet me, but she can't until Christmas. By then I will have started University with new possibilities at my feet! What should I do?
Q. Hi. I don't know what to do, and I'm finding myself trying to find out what is right and what is wrong. I've made contact with a girl from America. From the start, she showed interest in me, and our conversation has recently begun to develop. It's...
A. 2 July 2008: Well if I was you I would say to her that it might not be a good idea to set any arrangments in stone just yet. Tell her what you told us, its seems a reasonalbe enough explaination. Just say somthing along the lines of " you will be starting uni ... (read in full...)
Anyone have any idea how we can arrange an underage marriage?
Q. Ok so I am under 18 and I have this boyfriend who is 38. He and I want to get married but I know my parents won't allow it. No body even knows about him. So my question is, what can I do to be with him? Legally I mean. We have been ...
A. 2 July 2008: I'm with LadyOfSorrows on this one, if this man was a decent one, he would never consider being with a 13 year old Child!. It is Illegal for you to have sex and worse still he is infact breaking the law if you are having sex with him. The matter o... (read in full...)
My husband is pretending to be a young girl on a poker site!!
Q. my husband has been pretending to be ayoung girl on apoker site he has been chatting to a man in finland he stays up until all hours chatting and flirting he has today sent him a cd of love songs please can anybody help me...
A. 1 July 2008: I think it might be possible its some sick joke!. men are really cruel somtimes, and he might seriously see this as a really funny joke!.
I mean its a bit far fetched, but think about it. hes a fully grown man hes on one of these chat sites, he g... (read in full...)
How can I tell my partner that its my time of the month??
Q. I am a very private and personal person. The dilema is that I'm not sure how to tell my lover when its that time of the month. I usually just avoid him for those few days but he's recently been away for a month and wants to be intimate but I ...
A. 1 July 2008: Simple just tell him!, its a serious relationship right?, hes not gonna run a mile for goodness sake!. and im sure he knows why you avoid him at certain times of the month. I mean it is a bit silly to be all prudish with the man for goodness sake! ... (read in full...)
How do you get rid of a sunburn really quickly?
Q. Sorry, this isn't a relationship question BUT basically I got really sun burn at Glastonbury Festival and its SO SORE and RED and painful!!! im slapping on the after sun like there's no tomorrow but the problem is im supposed to be getting a t...
A. 1 July 2008: Yeah I would recommend delaying the tattoo, its painful enough without the sunburn!. but seriously, the reason that tattoists wont do tattoos on a sunburn is because it will peel and take a thick layer of skin off!. its hardly worth it. and the ... (read in full...)
We need to spice up our marriage. Please tell me what to do.
Q. I'm married and I have been married for 16 years now.I am trying to figure out what's the best thing to do.My husband comes to bed around 4 in the morning instead of spending time with me.I have told him time and time again to please come to bed.He ...
A. 30 June 2008: Firstly you need to sit him down and try to take any distractions away. When you talk to him try not to sound patronising or like your nagging him. I learnt the hard way, nagging makes things worse!.
Ok once that is sorted, then tell him how you ... (read in full...)
I fear its too late, he pulled away and hasn't come back, what do I do ?
Q. I have been single for 3 yrs and in Feb. I met someone who is perfect for me, the first 3 months were Bliss,we were together everyday , he put everything and everyone aside for me, and just this month that all changed, I have only seen him twice a ...
A. 24 June 2008: Well I think you need to make him aware of how you feel. Its not ideal to do this over the phone, but if he cant make time for you then it may be the only way to tell him. Just make it clear that you need to have an important chat, and you would ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is begging me to have sex with him, What should I do?
Q. I am 13 years old, my boyfriend and I have known each other since we were 4 but we only started dating last year. My b/f and i are really close, but he keeps begging me to have sex with him. I trust him alot, but i'm not sure what to do. Please h...
A. 24 June 2008: Ok, Im glad you are mature enough to realise that you are not ready, And also mature enough to ask for advice.
Now the best thing you can do is tell him that you are not ready, and if you do feel ready in the future then you will let him know. But ... (read in full...)
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