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He bites my neck now instead of kissing it... what does this say to me???

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Question - (4 January 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a question. I recently got into a relationship with a guy and so far it's been 3 amazing months. In the begining whenever we would makeout he would eventually end up kissing my neck, which I loved. But now when we engage ourselves in passionate making out, he bites my neck, sometimes pretty hard instead of kissing. I was wondering if this is normal? and what it could possibly mean if you were to decode it, like body language.

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A female reader, taylork2015 United States +, writes (7 December 2012):

Omg I love it when my bf bites my neck,but after he kisses me. It just feels great and we call it going Vampire mode,after that got started we haven't gone a day without kissing then going "vampire mode!"

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A female reader, rabbitrunning United States +, writes (28 April 2009):

All of these answers could very well be correct.

My boyfriend bites my neck.

I think it feels good and he loves it so we're all good.

But before you go around letting guys sink their teeth into you, remember that a bite leaves a mark.

However fun it may be, if parents are part of the problem (like mine)then you may want to talk to your boyfriend about refraining from bitting for a while. And always keep some makeup handy if so needed.

All the same, reasure your boyfriend if he is doing things you like, and it is very important to tell him if he's doing something you don't like.

The worst that can happen is being forced into something you don't want. If that happens, dump his ass and run.

-Jen

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009):

he does this because it is said that the nech is very sensitive and when a little presure is added it feels even better but if u dont like it you should tell him. but this i just like an intense kissing. showing how much emotion is comming from him

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009):

Uncle Phil... all this talk about food and you're making me HUNGRY!

Anyways, his biting could be his way of relieving some sexual tension. He's probably ready to take it to the next level, are you?

If you like him kissing your neck, let him know. Communication is really helpful, especially at an early stage.

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A female reader, confusedinkent United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2009):

confusedinkent agony auntit can be quite a nice feeling when someone bite the right part of your neck, GENTLY!.

maybe if you told him that it was a little too rough, but you really love it when he kisse your neck. And if you finish the sentence with something like " it drives me wild when you kiss my neck", he should still feel good about himself. Also I think its kind of a male mating ritual that goes back the dark ages!, but seriously some people just get a bit rough when they are turned on its just how it comes accross.

I think its a compliment, you are obviously driving him wild with passion!.

good luck, hope i helped.

xx

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A female reader, confusedinkent United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2009):

confusedinkent agony auntit can be quite a nice feeling when someone bites the right part of your neck, GENTLY!.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009):

He thinks you're good enough and tasty enough to eat, pure and simple. Be careful if he gets his face between your legs.

Before you engage in this making out business, give him a double quarter-pounder cheeseburger and a can of coke to swell his stomach and dull his appetite a bit.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

Honeypie agony auntMaybe he thinks it turns you on to get bitten. For many people, biting is high arousal. Maybe he is just so turned on by you that he bites.

If you don't like it you need to find a nice way to get him to stop.

If I should "decode" it for you then I would go with biting=horny.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009):

Biting is a sign of possession, so if he's doing that maybe he's feeling your relationship is moving to a much deeper level.

Your desicion if that's what you like or not.

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