What are some ways I can stay feeling confident and sexy without his verbal approval?
Q. Help! i recently realized that my boyfriend NEVER compliments me verbally. however, i'm pretty sure he thinks i'm awesome. . . right? or else he wouldn't be with me? what are some ways i can stay feeling confident and sexy without his v...
A. 13 May 2012: Well here goes. I am not the most confident guy around so I might have the incorrect view. I don't think there is anyone out there that can function happily without out validation from others. It is called strokes and we all need them. "no man is an ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want sex unless we are watching porn!
Q. Please you guys out there, help me!!! Since early on in our relationship my bf liked to talk dirty ok i tried it he liked it for a while, but then wanted more. So we started watching porn while having sex and looking at pictures of naked women and ...
A. 12 August 2011: Wow I feel for you. If he is as old as you are teen age sexual inhibitions can't be the problem. I think you are dealing with a huge helping of selfishness. It seems you have the balanced attitude, some porn is ok but let's have some intimate... (read in full...)
Mum, I'm dating a 21 year old
Q. i started dating this guy he is 21 and i am 18 my mum has met him but doesnt know that i am dating him. he took me back to his house and we had anal sex on our first date, we kissed and snogged and i given himm a blowjob. i have 2 questions: ...
A. 12 August 2011: 1. You are 18 of legal age for many things. One at the top of the list is permission to talk to your mum about a new boyfriend.
2. See 1 above.
Now for some unsolicited advice. Anal sex on the first date has many danger signals.
1. H... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing breaking up with my b/f who I think has retroactive jealousy?
Q. I need to know if I did the right thing in breakn it off with my bf of 2 yrs... I believe he has retroactive jealousy.. I've been reading about it and it clrealy sound he has that... my past is a real big issue to him... he constanlty puts me down ...
A. 5 August 2011: OP. This site is so valuable with help understanding RJ. It is such a problem because it is so difficult to control. Those who suffer would give anything to rid themselves of the tremendous negative effects the the emotional roller coaster ride that ... (read in full...)
I've got a girlfriend but I miss my ex SO MUCH
Q. I have a girlfriend at the moment, but that isnt the problem. The problem seems to be that I have been very depressed lately over my ex, I have been dating my girlfriend that I have now for 5 months or so.. and my ex... I miss her dearly. we ...
A. 5 August 2011: OP you have gotten some good advice from the other posters especially JMTMJ re: idealization & eek re: second best. If you think your current girlfriend is not picking up the signals that she is not the top feline you are seriously under estimating ... (read in full...)
My wife to be revealed her sexual past. I feel sick to my stomach
Q. I am 31, she is 29. She is drop dead gorgeous. We fell in love a year and a half ago when she was one of my day nurses when I had spent some time in the hospital recovering from a tumor in my knee (non cancerous) During our time dating, I would ...
A. 28 April 2011: I feel your pain. I think you have gotten good advice from many previous posters. The number of men in the world who have this problem is HUGE if it mirrors the quantities I read about on this site. I am one of them. I agree with those who say "if ... (read in full...)
To what depth should you inquire about your partner's past?
Q. The question on every person's mind when they begin to have a new relationship. Exactly what's this guy/girl's dating history? I want to have an idea of what you think. To what depth should we know this. If we don't, is it appropriate to a...
A. 25 September 2010: Don't Don't Don't!!!!!!! Wondering and imagining is a cake walk compared to dealing with the mental images and torture of hearing the truth. In today's moral climate almost everyone has some sort of sexual history that will bother the mate. Just ... (read in full...)
How effective are sex toys for girls?
Q. Sex toys for girls are fairly expensive. To what extent are they just a novelty soon to be discarded as boring?...
A. 17 July 2010: My wife thinks she has a "bent clitoris" which prevents her from having an orgasm during intercourse or foreplay. She had huge issues with dildos or vibrators but after some serious discussions she agreed to try some. BINGO!!!!!... (read in full...)
What explains why some men can have multiple orgasms?
Q. I'm just curious... To explain why I asked, my ex (whom I lost my virginity to and vice versa), before we had sex the first time, I assumed would probably come within just a few minutes since it was his first time. I was fine with that. Turns out,...
A. 3 July 2010: If he is a lucky dude does that make you the LOTTO winner of all time. First off pat yourself on the back that you must be a performer of some stature yourself. To keep a man interested for 2.5 hours requires some serious pherenomes. A... (read in full...)
How long does someone go through a midlife crisis?
Q. can anyone out there help me please.how long does it take for a man to come through a midlife crises.and why do they do the hurtful things to their wife and children that they do....
A. 3 July 2010: Is there an answer to that question? I don't know if it is a one size fits all. Here is my perspective: In my forties I thought I was having a MLC because I bought a sports car and imagined some of the younger women at the tennis club might b... (read in full...)
Why does he ignore me for porn, when I'm perfectly willing?
Q. Hello, I seem to be having problems with my boyfriend and have no clue what to do. We have been dating for nearly a year now. Deep down, I know he's a good man, but for reasons I cannot understand, he prefers watching porn instead of doing anythin...
A. 2 July 2010: I must confess I have seen a porn clip or two. What surprises me is the "studs" seem to always have to finish themselves even though they have a real live woman picked for their looks and sexual compliancy right in front of them. Maybe your partner ... (read in full...)
Tortured with the thought of my wife's sexual past
Q. I am dealing with the common problem of having married a woman who had a sordid (my opinion) past. By age 24 she had over 35 sexual partners varying from a 2 year relationship to blow jobs in a club parking lot with strangers. I am conservative by ...
A. 30 June 2010: Thank you for your suggestions and comments. After reading my post and your answers I realized I had left out some pertinent information. They may make you wonder if I am a masochist or at the very least a very poor judge of character. I 1st married ... (read in full...)
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