How much of this am I responsible for?
Q. I feel really ill and responsible for something terrible. I have been dating someone on and off for about a year and a half. He has a roommate that has been his friend since he was four years old. Just incidentally from being at his house so often I ...
A. 11 August 2011: I am surprised I guess that no one has sympathy for J. I guess you'd have to know him to feel empathy for him. He has a prescription drug habit and his wife has all but abandoned him and now his best friend is going to leave him on the street. I'm ... (read in full...)
I found it I was pregnant and he started calling me names
Q. I am very confused and in need of advice . I hv been a commuted relationship for three years. I just found out I was pregnant , not sure how my birth control failed , I use depo shot. Anyways I told my boyfriend I was pregnant and he freaked o...
A. 13 December 2010: For those who are implying with their statements "that everyone has a right to decide not to be a parent" that somehow he should have equal say on whether she terminates the pregnancy, way to dissolve this man's onus and responsibility. This is a ... (read in full...)
Does pre cum have sperm in it?
Q. Okay so no criticism please. I have a couple of questions here. First, I'm on my period so I had a tampon in, but me and my boyfriend sort of had anal, but it was mostly just him rubbing his penis on my butt, but I could feel that there was precum. ...
A. 13 December 2010: You are very welcome! Glad to see you are taking care of yourself, keep up the good work! :)... (read in full...)
What is an appropriate age difference?
Q. I have a question, I get hung up on age, is ten years too much of a difference. Is it wrong if the girl is ten years older like if she is 32 and he is 22?...
A. 12 December 2010: Age does matter, no matter what people want to admit. I'd say it matters dramatic for those 21 and under, moderately for those in their early 20s post 21, then drops off afterwards (of course talking about the younger party. I've had sexual ... (read in full...)
Facebook on verge of ruining an engagement
Q. Hello everyone, I recently got re-engaged with someone whom i had a 5 year on/off relationship from another state. He proposed in September and now its December and he refuses to add me on his Facebook because he feels "he needs his space and he w...
A. 11 December 2010: I wouldn't dismiss this so easily either. It's one thing if someone doesn't want to share their relationship status or photos on facebook, but people add extremely casual acquaintances and even strangers to their facebook. What's onm there they ... (read in full...)
Can I date more than one guy at a time? Or is it wrong?
Q. So I have been dating this guy for about 7 months and while I adore him, we had a discussion and he said he was not ready to commit to me, so I began to date other people. He s 38 and I'm 25, he's white and I'm black, he has a very supportive ...
A. 10 December 2010: See, the only thing is that I kind of have to lie. The first guy and I are usually in constant, constant contact throughout the day. He's always asking where I am or what I'm doing and if I do not respond rapidly enough he gets suspicious. I've ... (read in full...)
She untagged our romantic Facebook pictures?
Q. I really like this girl who lives the same floor as me in our University accommodation. We went to a club on Monday and i bumped into her. She was with two of her friends away from the dance floor and looked bit upset. I went over and she hugged ...
A. 10 December 2010: If I were her, I would've untagged them too. She barely knows you and you barely know her, why would she want to give anyone the impression you two were intimate? And you lack maturity and discretion for uploading photos of that nature with someone ... (read in full...)
Is she breaking up with me? I don't know what to do.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been arguing a lot lately, she is always so snappy and argumentative. ,She says i annoy her all the time, but i really cant see what im doing and if i ask her she will cause a massive argument and threaten to end the ...
A. 8 December 2010: It's so funny how people are so quick to assume the fault is with the gf. Maybe you are constantly do things that are annoying. Keeping someone awake when they are tired by running your mouth is extremely childish and emotionally immature. Maybe you ... (read in full...)
No, means no!
Q. I met this guy when I was walking home from university the other night, we talked and I ended up getting his number. Last night he came over to my place to "hang out" and he all but told me he loved me! We did kiss, and he seemed to want more as ...
A. 6 December 2010: I don't want to blame you, but essentially you invited a stranger into your home. Let someone meet you in a public place like a restaurant or coffeehouse so if you decide they're strange you can hightail it out of there completely non-awkwardly. And ... (read in full...)
I'm not happy about my girlfriend's pregnancy, I don't want to let my dreams and goals go down the drain!
Q. I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 20. We found out a couple weeks ago that she is pregnant, and she's ecstatic, I am more reserved. When we found out our reactions were very different, she was happy, I was upset. To cut a long story short she has decided ...
A. 6 December 2010: Since I see nothing in this post about failed contraceptives or her scamming you, I'm going to assume you're in this situation because you did not exercise proper judgment. You're not all that young either, I'm quite close to your age. I going to ... (read in full...)
Does pre cum have sperm in it?
Q. Okay so no criticism please. I have a couple of questions here. First, I'm on my period so I had a tampon in, but me and my boyfriend sort of had anal, but it was mostly just him rubbing his penis on my butt, but I could feel that there was precum. ...
A. 6 December 2010: It's very, very unlikely you are pregnant and you need to stop obsessing. 1. Pre-ejaculate does not have sperm in it unless he recently ejaculated and did not urinate. That myth needs to die there is research on the matter now. 2. He did not ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend was nursing her 3 year-old!
Q. I have been dating a new gal for the last several months. She is wonderful in every way. She has a cute 3 1/2 year old son. I was at her house a week ago and she took her son upstairs to put him to bed. It took a long time, so I thought she may have ...
A. 6 December 2010: You're the one with the issue, not her. If I were her I'd tell you to mind your own business...why do you care how she feeds her child. Like someone said, this is just a product of Western sexualization of women's breasts. There is nothing wrong ... (read in full...)
Anybody want to share ideas on being freaky?
Q. So i'm new to this site, anyways... i'm 20 and me and my girlfriend have ben going out for 2.5 years :) and we've done or talked about doing just about everything sexual, and she and i are actually worried that if we last that we will run out of ...
A. 26 November 2010: Believe it or not I think there's such a thing as trying TOO hard in the bedroom. Meaning if you both feel pressure to find something novel to do all the time it may negatively impact your sex life. As long as all the mental and emotional intimacy ... (read in full...)
His friends are teasing him about dating a black woman, how do I get him to stop caring?
Q. I have a great boyfriend, we've been dating for several months and we spend practically every day together. He is white, and I'm a black female. Recently, however, he's been letting me know that some of his friends are 'teasing' him about dating a ...
A. 4 September 2009: All 'advice' must be taken in light of the adviser's world view and frame of reference. It is common for people to frame their own reference as universal to give them an air of veracity. It is the job of the advisee to suss this out. Obviously if ... (read in full...)
His friends are teasing him about dating a black woman, how do I get him to stop caring?
Q. I have a great boyfriend, we've been dating for several months and we spend practically every day together. He is white, and I'm a black female. Recently, however, he's been letting me know that some of his friends are 'teasing' him about dating a ...
A. 3 September 2009: You have not helped me to see why my boyfriend is saying these things or handling this situation in this manner, all you've discussed is why 'white people' (I guess code word for you) feel resentment against black people. I bet if I were to sit down ... (read in full...)
His friends are teasing him about dating a black woman, how do I get him to stop caring?
Q. I have a great boyfriend, we've been dating for several months and we spend practically every day together. He is white, and I'm a black female. Recently, however, he's been letting me know that some of his friends are 'teasing' him about dating a ...
A. 3 September 2009: "Like I said we get weary, and I am weary of this question, I am trying to explain why some white people make fun of black people, it isn't as malicious as you think it is, it is because we get tired of always having to walk on egg shells around ... (read in full...)
His friends are teasing him about dating a black woman, how do I get him to stop caring?
Q. I have a great boyfriend, we've been dating for several months and we spend practically every day together. He is white, and I'm a black female. Recently, however, he's been letting me know that some of his friends are 'teasing' him about dating a ...
A. 3 September 2009: "Sometimes us white folks get a bit weary of African Americans making such a big deal about their being black, about how they are so sensitive over any form of a description that they can perceive as racism and a slight that is pointed at them. It ... (read in full...)
His friends are teasing him about dating a black woman, how do I get him to stop caring?
Q. I have a great boyfriend, we've been dating for several months and we spend practically every day together. He is white, and I'm a black female. Recently, however, he's been letting me know that some of his friends are 'teasing' him about dating a ...
A. 2 September 2009: "Think of it this way -- I live in a gray house, and I've always been very self-conscious about my short legs. Someone making fun of me for living in a gray house would have no effect on me, because it's not something I really care about, but a ... (read in full...)
His friends are teasing him about dating a black woman, how do I get him to stop caring?
Q. I have a great boyfriend, we've been dating for several months and we spend practically every day together. He is white, and I'm a black female. Recently, however, he's been letting me know that some of his friends are 'teasing' him about dating a ...
A. 2 September 2009: Actually, it is a big deal, because he isn't 'backing me up', he feels the need to let them know that he's not typically attracted to black women (why would he care if they thought he was?), and he feels the need to convince them of my 'whiteness'. ... (read in full...)
His friends are teasing him about dating a black woman, how do I get him to stop caring?
Q. I have a great boyfriend, we've been dating for several months and we spend practically every day together. He is white, and I'm a black female. Recently, however, he's been letting me know that some of his friends are 'teasing' him about dating a ...
A. 1 September 2009: I should mention, he is seven years my senior, I'm 23, he's 30, and his friends are all 30+.... (read in full...)
He seems to want a celibate marriage
Q. Ok, so here is my situation. I am 26 and my husband is 30. I have been married for 8 months. In the beginning of our relationship my husband had problems *performing*. I just gave him love and support and tried to let him know that I loved him no ...
A. 1 September 2009: Perhaps he is gay. Perhaps he has psychological problems. In any case, this is a marriage not just devoid of sex but intimacy period. I have never heard of such an extreme example. He won't even let you kiss him on the mouth????
In any case, th... (read in full...)
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