Is this what they call police officer mentality???
Q. My boyfriend goes from nice to mean constantly. It's very annoying. We have stopped going out together, which also is because I'm at my job from 8am to 430pm and he's at work from 3pm to 11pm. So the two days off a week he has off he goes out with ...
A. 3 February 2009: Thank you for your response. I actually just logged into facebook and took a look at his page, which I never do because of what i may find... and I can see from pictures that he has completely been lying to my face. He went to Vegas with two other ... (read in full...)
Wrong for 19 year old guy to want a 13 year old girl?
Q. well my question is, is it wrong for a 19 year old boy to want a 13 year old girl (he wants her in the bad way and has done the same to other girls and then dumped them after he got what he wanted) and if so how do i help this girl if she won't ...
A. 3 February 2009: It is extremely wrong for a grown man, not a "boy" to want a 13 year old girl. Once you turn 18 you are considered a legal adult. This 19 year old has some deep problems if he is going after someone who is six years younger then him, not even able ... (read in full...)
Why don't any of these guys have feelings for me?
Q. Brace yourself people this is going to be a long one Grrr, right what is wrong with all the males I meet after reading this question please do not tell me that I need to stop going for the same kind of guy because really everything about...
A. 12 January 2009: I completely 100% understand your frustration. I swore up and down to all my friends that I kept meeting jerks for about 2 years. I seriously had a new guy every month...no joke. I got the don't give sex up so quickly speach tons of times. You might ... (read in full...)
Living with an alcoholoc...
Q. hey, I am wondering if anyone can help me? I have been with my partner for over 10 years and we have 3 beautiful daughters but for the past few years he has been drinking heavily. I had finally had enough in the middle of 2008 when I was pregnant ...
A. 12 January 2009: You are looking for advice to this question that you posted, but you write "don't tell me to leave." This topic hits right at home for me. I'm going to tell you for the sake of your 3 children, you need to leave. Yes you love him and your children ... (read in full...)
My wife is gorgeous & I hate men looking at her!
Q. Ive been married to my gorgeous wife for 7 years. Im very insecure about other men eyeing her up in public. When we go out she looks amazing, the trouble is this makes me feel very uncomfortable as im constantly being hyper-vigilent to see if any ...
A. 12 January 2009: The best advice that I can give you is that you should feel honored that other men think she is beautiful. Just remember that the both of you made a vow seven years ago to love homor and respect each other in sickness and in health. From what I can ... (read in full...)
I'm in med school, should I quit and choose modelling?
Q. hey i am 20 years old..n i am in a major delima...i have always wanted to get into the glamour field ever since i realised i had the potential for it,its not only me but everyone around me thought that i deserved to be in the field rather than ...
A. 11 December 2008: Honestly the final decision is up to you. You know what makes you happy, and if modeling makes you happy then try it out. Modeling and being an actress are very hard to get into and I'm sure you know that. You need to meet the right people to get ... (read in full...)
Ex trying to chose between me & another girl!
Q. oh me and this boy use to date during my senior year of high school. and we broke up graduation night. he now goes with the girl he dated in high school. but he calls me 6 months later saying he is in love with me. the catch is he is in love with ...
A. 11 December 2008: He does not even know who he loves. I feel like he is using the word love like it means nothing. It's a way to keep you both close to him just in case one of you realize he is using the both of you. I understand that you love him back, but love ... (read in full...)
How do I get over him? I've tried everything and nothing works...
Q. last year i ended a relationship with my first ever boyfriend because he accused me of cheating. for the whole of the year we were on and off, and everytime I took him back he would drop me as soon as he found another girl that he liked. B.ut no ...
A. 11 December 2008: I never thought that I would get over my first true love. I was 18 at the time and he was 28. He had asked me to marry him and then he disappeared one day with our realtor. All the time put into the relationship down the drain. It took me a year and ... (read in full...)
How can I convince myself he's not cheating or should I just end it?
Q. help sum1 plz i dont know what to do i wrote to you the other day about my partner cheating on me with who was ment to be his ex but wasnt and theyve been together for 7 years never broke up yet he was seeing me at the same time and living together ...
A. 11 December 2008: I wrote yesterday about a similar situation with myself. I know exactly how you feel. It's that uneasy feeling in the pit of your stomach that eats you alive because you don't know what to believe. If he is cheating on you with someone else the ... (read in full...)
I'm confused. What does :P mean?
Q. hi thanks for taking the time to read this what could my friend mean when he said to me that "you wont be single for ever and the fact we enjoyed fooling around together is proof of that!!"? i told him i was confused and he said "i hope you unde...
A. 10 December 2008: It sounds to me like he has some sort of feelings towards you, and possibly sees a relationship developing between the both of you.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to induce a miscarriage if I'm pregnant!
Q. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and now the worry of pregnancy is in thought. He said that he had everything figured out and if I did end up pregnant he would be there for everything (that was before). Now that he has talked to his dad about ...
A. 10 December 2008: You both knew the consequences of having unprotected sex, but yet you both continued without a condom. This decision is not up his his father, your mother or anybody but the both of you. You two need to get together alone without any family or ... (read in full...)
Was he just scared to commit?
Q. Hello, I recently dated a man who has just finished with me (he is 52, I'm 36). He's never married nor has children. We were friends first and then started a relationship. We enjoyed all the same hobbies and spent every day together. We were ...
A. 10 December 2008: It sounds like he told you the truth about how he felt about the relationship, which I think is a positive because you are not living life on a lie that he told you. The truth brings a person to heal verses not getting an answer at all or a lie. It ... (read in full...)
Are there any other options for me apart from counseling?
Q. I posted the question what should I do now that my life seems worthless, I think was the title anyway, I say thanks to diovan lestat and others for answering, but counseling is not for me, I have tried it and it brought me more down I just could not ...
A. 10 December 2008: Life was never made to be easy, life is a daily challenge. I don't know why you are feeling so down about your life and yourself, maybe a break-up, death, friends, family, etc it could be a ton of things. It's good to hear that you tried the ... (read in full...)
Got back with ex boyfirned for one night, now cant see him for 6 months!
Q. My boyfriend and I split up around 6 months ago as we were "bashing heads" and were arguing all the time, we couldnt see a way to compromise. I wanted him to be a bit more outgoing and social, but he was happy to be at home all the time. He ended ...
A. 10 December 2008: I completely understand what you are going through. I went through a similar situation in 2005 and it was one of the hardest decisions I had to make. Six months is a very long time to be without someone. Try to live your life to the fullest everyday ... (read in full...)
Is our sex illegal and considered rape? Also, could I be pregnant?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we didnt use any kind of protection. We are in a bit of a rut because he is 21 and I am 17. He left the decision to me about if we should or not, so can the law still call it a form of rape? It was ...
A. 9 December 2008: Depending on what state you live in decides the law for rape. I know here in Illinois, if you are 17 years old and you sleep with someone over the age of 18, it is okay. But that varies state to state. Try going to google and research your state ... (read in full...)
How can I give this girl a Christmas card without seeming creepy?
Q. There's this extremely shy, beautiful and smart girl (we'll call her Pamela) that I've adored for some time now. Since it's almost Christmas time, I have thought of giving her a simple card, but I get a bad feeling that she may not like me back, and ...
A. 9 December 2008: From my point of view, I think coming up with dialogue ahead of time is not a very good idea. If you think about it your going to be racking your brain about the right thing to say to her, and when the time comes for you to acually do it a totally ... (read in full...)
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