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writes:well my question is, is it wrong for a 19 year old boy to want a 13 year old girl (he wants her in the bad way and has done the same to other girls and then dumped them after he got what he wanted) and if so how do i help this girl if she won't listen? Reply to this Question
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reader, brokenvampire +, writes (4 February 2009):
brokenvampire is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much for your answer :)
p.s. hes also a christian!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): im 14, 15 in less than a week, and am in a relationship with a 19 yearold, i dont think theres anything wrong with it as i am mature for my agee and theres nothing creepy to it haha, but if shes just 13 it is young, but her maturity levels might be alot higher than the average
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): of course its wrong!
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reader, Bliz  +, writes (3 February 2009):
Yes, it is wrong (and downright skeezy) that his guy is preying on 13 year olds. You are definitley right to warn her. I know it sounds lame, but can you let her parents know (After all, she is so young!)? Maybe let his parents know too? Out the lout I say. Whatever you are comfortable doing.That said, if you warn her, and she falls for his trick any way, don't abandon her after. She is young, and he is sick. Be there for her if he hurts her, but do your best to make her see the light.Best luck,Bliz
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reader, cherrysundae19 +, writes (3 February 2009):
It is extremely wrong for a grown man, not a "boy" to want a 13 year old girl. Once you turn 18 you are considered a legal adult. This 19 year old has some deep problems if he is going after someone who is six years younger then him, not even able to get a driving permit. He goes after young girls because he is smart in a sick way, and knows they are nieve and vulnerable. If you love this girl you will do what is right for her and tell someone with some sort of authority. I'm sure this is a nervous situation for yourself feeling like you are put right in the middle, but you know this is wrong because you would not be on here writing about it. She may hate you, stop talking to you, etc, but wouldn't you feel horrible if something happened to her and you knew this whole time and never said anything. Be a strong person and tell someone who can do something about it. As you get older you will look back at this situation and you will be glad you told someone and I'm sure her parents will be grateful too. Good Luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): You can tell her that he is bad news..but she's 13, the fact that an older guy wants them (whether in a good way or not) they like the idea. It's extremely hard to get a 13 year old to listen, they might get angry and say that you just don't want them to be happy..just keep on it. Don't just let it go because she get's upset with you. Try to explain to her and give her proff that you know he's not a good guy for her to be with.
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reader, dr.2.be +, writes (3 February 2009):
 Yes its very wrong, not to mention kind of creepy. Let your friend know that you are very concerned about her situation. This man could be a pedophile and end up hurting her for life. Encourage her to contact the police or let her parents know if he does anything inappropriate to her.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (3 February 2009):
 YES it is VERY VERY Wrong! Tell her you are worried about it and if he makes a move on her call the police! This is counted as paedophilia and is illegal!
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