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How can I make things different when I go down on him?

Q.   My man wants to go down on me while sucking an ice cube, I love the idea but I want to return the favour and do something different when I go down on him. Any ideas?...

A.   14 July 2009: Use an extrastrong mouthwash or you could also keep an icecube in your mouth. You could put things on his penis, some sort of sauce or melted chocolate and then lick it off. ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure whether to go on the pill or not. What do you think about it?

Q.   At the moment, me and my boyfriend use condoms and I have no problem with them, they just ruin the mood sometimes. So I'm thinking about going on the pill. The problem is, I've heard alot of different stories about the pill. Some say it's good, ot...

A.   14 July 2009: Oh yeah, go on the pill. Im on it, have been 10 month, wouldnt have it any other way, it has a lot of benefits not just contraception for example, i always know when im going to get my period and i can delay it if i wish. Im also getting a lighter ... (read in full...)

Can I get pregnant while wearing a condom that didn't break?

Q.   My boyfriend and I had sex during my period while I was not on birth control. We used a condom and it didn't break. Could that get me pregnant?...

A.   9 July 2009: No, if it didnt split then the sperm remains safely inside away from your eggs.... (read in full...)

How do I start masturbating?

Q.   hi. im 14 and i have never masturbated before. I know that it is completely normal, but i also know that some people my age look at it as gross or disgusting. I often find myself very horny and wanting sex so badly. but i made a promise to myself to ...

A.   9 July 2009: Start by stroking your pussy or vagina or whatever you call it. When you get wet enough, slip a finger inside yourself. This is the basic way, after that, experiment with yourself, i was your age when i started, im now 16 so dont worry, youre not ... (read in full...)

What could be causing this vaginal odor?

Q.   Okay, I'm new here and hope that maybe this will help. Within the last few months, I've started having almost a fishy smell coming from my vagina. It started out smelling like protein and was very faint. There wasn't any unusual discharge or any...

A.   9 July 2009: Using a soap on your vagina, could cause a fishy smell and problems, my doctor told me... (read in full...)

Could this pain be a personal problem or linked to my sex life?

Q.   Ok..this question isnt properly to do with relationships but it might be. I have been with my boyf for 3 month now, we are both clean and started having sex without condom (im on pill). Over the last few years ive had terrible cystitis lasting from ...

A.   1 July 2009: Hey guys, thanks for all your help, i went to the docs and had some swabs done. Turns out i have thrush, probably from using perfumed bath things. I was really worried at the time and thankyou soo much to your help!... (read in full...)

How can I be sure that she is ready to lose her virginity?

Q.   I have a gf who's a virgin what would the signs be that she is ready to lose her virginity other than saying "I want to lose my virginity"?...

A.   8 June 2009: When you get close she'll wont push you away, she will get wet enough naturally and altho it may be a bit of a tight squeeze it doesnt mean she isnt ready. I think its really nice youre being careful with her but chances are, if shes said it, she ... (read in full...)

Do I wait for my ex to come back or get with the new guy?

Q.   Hey! Right, 8 days ago me and my long term boyf split up. Upsetting? Much. Im 16 btw. This guy in the special class im in, is 14 and he has shown a massive interest. He holds my hand, kisses me and defends me all the time. Hes a bit crackers and ...

A.   23 January 2009: Ty so much for your advice :)... (read in full...)

Sexy Time?

Q.   Hey, I have been on a weeks course of antibiotics, 4 250mg ones a day, and I stop taking them tomorrow. I am going to my boyfriends on Sunday and he'll probably want to have sex because it's been so long since we last did. I am really concerned as ...

A.   9 January 2009: Thanks everyone :)... (read in full...)

Semen in the eye? How is it treated???

Q.   Everytime me and my girlfriend are having sex, and she has an orgasm, she pushes me off or tells me to get off after she is done with her orgasm, it just makes me feel unwanted. At least she ends up giving me oral or I have to finish myself, the ...

A.   5 December 2008: Same here, i got my boyfriend's in my eye and I had an eye bath then left it. Few hours later it was fine. :) Good Luck x... (read in full...)

Should I shave my pubic hair for a first time fingering?

Q.   im a fourteen year old girl, and today a boy asked me if id like him to finger me. i think i would, but i feel self conscious because i have very small boobs, only a 34AA/A. also, my friends say they shave all their pubic hair, but i dont. i dont ...

A.   4 December 2008: First of all, your boobs, dont worry about it hon, in 9 month i went from a 30aa to a 32c..seriously and i was around your age, so dont worry love! Personally, i shave, my boyf cant stand hair and i think thats the general opinion out there. If you ... (read in full...)

How do I REALLY pleasure him?

Q.   I'm a virgin.. my boyfriend isn't. I know what to do.. but not how to really pleasure him like he does me. I want to make it good for him too.. e.g.; like I know how to touch him but what would he really like?? Sorry if that's a little graphic ...

A.   2 December 2008: Darling, if he loves you back then he'll be happy with whatever you do but i know how you feel. If you wanna have sex then i recommend you going on top, he'll be pleasantly surprised and more than likely guide you with what youre doing. Try sitting ... (read in full...)

Is it ok to wear 2 bras?

Q.   Heyy Everyone I'm 15 years old and I kinda have small boobs... I want them to be bigger but I don't wanna get plastic surgery or anything when I get older cuz I just don't want to but I wear two bras so they look more round and fuller... is tha...

A.   21 November 2008: I dont think its too good love, first a start it could stop circulation if its too tight and make grooves into your back. Also, there is the risk of breast cancer if you wear an underwired bra but by wearing two youre increasing your chances. Im 15 ... (read in full...)

Are condoms still necessary even if I'm on birth control pills?

Q.   I was just wondering if I was on birth control should my boyfriend still need to wear a comdon so we don't get pregnant? Thanks for all the help....

A.   18 November 2008: I dont think so but you might want to wear one in case he has any STD's/STI's. If you dont wear a condom i would reccomend you both get checked out first... (read in full...)

I'm falling in love with my 16 years old first cousin.

Q.   I'm 28 years old and I'm falling in love with my 16 years old first cousin. Ever since she was a little girl I used to watch over her and baby sit for her. I treated her as my younger sister and she loves me as her older brother. we're so close to...

A.   9 November 2008: Very brave of you to admit to this problem i think. First of all as you mentioned, it is a modern day taboo and maybe youre cousin is not too keen on the idea in general and will be extremely confused at the idea of you feeling this way towards her. ... (read in full...)

Why don't my boobs match ?

Q.   my left breast is smaller then right breast.. please help me out. i am not able to tell my mom i want to recover with this problem ...

A.   4 November 2008: This is totally normal, dont be surprised if they start to even out, men have these problems too. Some have a testicle bigger than the other!... (read in full...)

Any tips on sexy underware ... I want to suprise my boyfriend!

Q.   hey. im a size 16-18 with really big boobs. i want to surprise my boyfriend with sexy lingrey (sorry bout the spelling) x but i know not many things will be flattering on me. any suggestions??? thanks x x x x...

A.   4 November 2008: both really good ideas but remember sexiness is not about the way you dress but the confidence you ooze. Be confident in whatever you buy and he really will be impressed. xxx... (read in full...)

I'm scared !

Q.   hi. me and my boyfriend had sex. we got really carried away and just pulled our pants down and he stuck his penis in me. he didn't put a condom on cuz it was just in the moment. so we had sex and i guess he pulled out before he cummed and it got all ...

A.   2 November 2008: Hey hon, i can imagine how youre feeling but wait till your period and if you dont come on take a test. Remember, taking one if not sufficent, you need to do more, they can be wrong. Or you can go see a doctor and provide a urine sample and they ... (read in full...)

I had my period in school and now everyone makes fun of me.

Q.   my name is mary and i almost died of embarrassment when i had my period in school and everyone called me bloody Mary for the rest of the year and some of them still do. i need help and/or advice!...

A.   30 October 2008: I had girls call me names for ages, they can be such b*tches cant they? Anyway, i thought that ignoring them wouldnt work and it was stupid till i tried it, and straight away they stopped, im sure they will soon and if not speak to someone at school ... (read in full...)

I love my best friend, does he love me?

Q.   Hi I have a huge problem. I have this best friend and he and I have been playing this game of tag for 9 years. I know I have very strong feelings for him but I am so confused if he feels the same. It seems like one of us is constantly dating ...

A.   19 October 2008: To be honest I think you need to have a serious talk about this. I think he may like you back because a best friend wouldn't play with your feelings. Just sit him down and talk serious. Maybe start by saying you don't want to ruin the friendship ... (read in full...)

What kind of a Christmas present can I get my boyfriend?

Q.   Heya, I know this may be a silly question but I was wondering what sort of Christmas present do you get a guy? I mean, me and my boyfriend are both 14 yrs old, and we love each other very much (yes I know, its only young love but this is for real) ...

A.   19 October 2008: Hey, im 16 and my boyfriend is 16, I was reading thru this completely stuck over what to get my boyfriend for xmas and inspiration stuck! Gonna get him a mini fridge and do a little hamper thing of stuff he could put in (:. Hope he likes it, and I ... (read in full...)

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