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female
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36-40,
*uv4dummies
writes: Hi I have a huge problem. I have this best friend and he and I have been playing this game of tag for 9 years. I know I have very strong feelings for him but I am so confused if he feels the same. It seems like one of us is constantly dating someone else and we are never single at the same time. Three days ago I broke up with my boyfriend and my bestfriend decided to come see me. *I live 2 hours away* He came up took me to a wine festival and we always have so much fun. He chooses to hang out with me rather than his guy friends. Everytime I go home he comes over and spends his entire weekend with me practically and when I don't go home he comes up to visit often. I want to know if he feels the same as me but I am afraid that if I ask he will freak out and run. We have kissed many times in the past and even recently *since my boyfriend and I have broken up* I want to know if he just likes games or likes me. Any advice on what to do or what to think?
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reader, CherryCupcake +, writes (19 October 2008):
To be honest I think you need to have a serious talk about this. I think he may like you back because a best friend wouldn't play with your feelings. Just sit him down and talk serious. Maybe start by saying you don't want to ruin the friendship but... etc.
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