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writes:Everytime me and my girlfriend are having sex, and she has an orgasm, she pushes me off or tells me to get off after she is done with her orgasm, it just makes me feel unwanted. At least she ends up giving me oral or I have to finish myself, the good thing about me finishing myself is she makes these weird gestures to turn me on and reaches in to take it in her mouth when I'm about to.. you know.. I just feel bad about the orgasm part, do females need some time too after an orgasm? Does it hurt when they're having it and I have to stay still until she finishes? There was one time that after her orgasm, she was laying down in front of me because she told me to get off, so I had to finish myself, it was okay with both of us because I was going to.. you know.. on her, but it was taking me too long so we went for penetration again, except that the second time around, it was really dry and it hurt me a bit, also hurting her a bit, the moment was amazing though. When I was about to.. you know.. I shot three hard times that one hit her in her nose, one went inside her mouth, and one hit her eye. Her eye got pretty red, is that bad for her, what was she supposed to do to treat it? And she swallowed the other one because she said that would probably turn me on, which it was a real turn on. She said though that she doesn't like to swallow because it makes her feel like she's going to vomit so I tell her it's okay, just don't. Is it normal for it to taste horrible enough to want to make you puke? My main concern here is about her having and orgasm and pushing me off, I'll appreciate any help, advice, or just to help me understand the situation a little better before I ever become selfish and say or do the wrong things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAll you guys have been alot of help, especially for DoubleM which told me something I really needed to know about. I wish you'd tell me more about this changing the flavor thing. Thanks to everyone who answered my question, I don't have to worry as much and well is hard to aim when you're about 3 feet away. ^_^
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (6 December 2008):
 It seems a little unusual to me that she wants you off of her soon after she climaxes, but perhaps her clitoris becomes especially sensitive right after orgasm, much as the tip of a penis is frequently very sensitive at that point. To her, this may affect her entire vulva. As for the shot in the eye, there would be no long-term damage, but the salt content would certainly redden the eye and probably be very irritating. I think that "CherryCupcake" and "petina1" has the right idea - a good rinse with lukewarm water. You might also improve your aim, and start drinking more sweet fruit juices and regularly consuming pineapple chunks to enhance flavor. Less coffee and fewer alcoholic beverages reportedly helps; otherwise it is reportedly fairly bitter to some girls.
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reader, CherryCupcake  +, writes (5 December 2008):
Same here, i got my boyfriend's in my eye and I had an eye bath then left it. Few hours later it was fine. :) Good Luck x
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (5 December 2008):
 You seem to be over thinking everything here, you both seem to be having fun with sex and thats great, just enjoy it instead of over analysing things.Its actually quite unusual that she has her orgasm before you do, many girls find it hard to have an orgasm from penetration so you should feel pretty good that you can do that for her! Its possible it might feel a bit uncomfortable for her after her orgasm hence why she pushes you off, you might just want to ask her why she does it and explain it has been making you feel unwanted. Talking about sex is difficult but if she can explain why she does it you will feel loads better!With the eye thing, it can hurt and redness is very normal - not the best thing to have in your eye! Next time maybe suggest she closes her eyes in the moment so there wont be any problems again. With the feeling sick part, everyone is different. Some girls quite like the taste, some hate it etc. The gag reflex is a funny thing and everyone reacts differently, I'm sure it isnt that it tastes horrible. But again, talk to her. Ask her if it is the taste or just the texture, if it is the taste then there are things you can eat/stop eating which are meant to change the taste of your...you know what!
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reader, petina1 +, writes (5 December 2008):
 When she's telling yu to get off , shes only giving her self time to take in and enjoy the experience, so thats normal. If her eye stings with it, rinse out with warm water. It probably hurt when you tried again because you didnt stimulate her enough to be able to do it again. Sound like you are having fun though. hope this helps.
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