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*herryCupcake
writes:Hey! Right, 8 days ago me and my long term boyf split up. Upsetting? Much. Im 16 btw. This guy in the special class im in, is 14 and he has shown a massive interest. He holds my hand, kisses me and defends me all the time. Hes a bit crackers and doesnt have a steady home life, if you get what i mean. He doesnt have a great time at home, hes adopted ya see. Anyway, my ex-boyf said in about 3 month he would consider taking me back, and i really like him, i also like the younger guy. Do i hang about and wait for my ex or do i go for the younger guy? Do you think its weird with the age difference?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): I think you should forget about waiting for your ex, telling you he "might consider" taking you back in three months was an arrogant thing for him to say and is quite unlikely to happen.
I think you should wait a little while before dating this other guy, the feelings for your ex are still fresh in your mind so jumping into another relationship straight away might not be the best idea.
Take your time and clear your head, it's only been 8 days and no the age gap doesn't make much of a difference except you do have to consider the age of consent, you cannot legally have a sexual relationship with him until he turns 16.
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reader, CherryCupcake +, writes (23 January 2009):
CherryCupcake is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTy so much for your advice :)
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reader, moccaprincess  +, writes (23 January 2009):
Sweetie, your young. Move on. You guys broke up for a reason and as you get older you will realize that the reason usually doesn't change no matter how much they want you back.Your not committing to a marriage so have fun with the new guy. Try new things. Enjoy the way he treats you and in the end if you don't like you move on, just don't step back.....
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