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How do I start masturbating?

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Question - (9 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *ostinit writes:

hi. im 14 and i have never masturbated before. I know that it is completely normal, but i also know that some people my age look at it as gross or disgusting. I often find myself very horny and wanting sex so badly. but i made a promise to myself to stay a virgin til marriage. i dont know how to bigin masturbation or what it feels like. any tips or info would be fantastic! thanks! PLEAE HELP!

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A female reader, lostinit United States +, writes (28 July 2009):

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thanks, you guys, soooo much! ive been masturbating for like 2 or 3 weeks now, and 2night ago, i masturbated to orgasm! it was amazing!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009):

Considering you're still a virgin, clitoral stimulation is the best.

Just rub the little nub above the actual hole of your vagina. Basically, your clit is kind of like a penis that isn't formed all the way. Rubbing in a motion similar to the motion you would use when rubbing a penis is really the best way to go.

If you like that (and you will ;) ) but you want something more, try putting A finger into the opening and moving it around.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009):

i know this sounds a little extreme and bizzare but ive heard of masterbating on the edge of an arm chair with a pillow over it or a sofa and just rub your private up and down?? apparently its the best.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009):

just do it stick ur hands dwn your pants and go with the flow.

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A female reader, CherryCupcake United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2009):

Start by stroking your pussy or vagina or whatever you call it. When you get wet enough, slip a finger inside yourself.

This is the basic way, after that, experiment with yourself, i was your age when i started, im now 16 so dont worry, youre not gross or anything. Just experiment, see what you like, what works for you the most.

Have fun!

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