Will losing my virginity to my bf ruin our relationship?
Q. I'm a virgin and my boyfriend really wants to have sex. I really want to, but I'm afraid it will ruin our relationship or something like that. How do I know he is the right person to do it with? I feel like I have waited a long time and I do love ...
A. 9 August 2010: Really Id say, how long have you been with him, more than a few months, or just a couple of weeks ?
If its more than a few months, then he cant be with you for just sex, why would he wait so long, when he can go out here and pick an easy slag that... (read in full...)
Why is she so nervous around me.?
Q. There's this girl I like in school who is very nervous when we happen to be alone together. When I talk to her she smiles, she doesn't say much and her voice changes.It's a lot softer and more reserved than when she talks to other people. She laughs ...
A. 9 August 2010: She Sure does like you !
Aww she is so taken by you. But shy because she likes you so much :) And hasnt replied probably because of her shyness, Make more of an effort to talk to her have long conversations, so she gets more used to you then hope... (read in full...)
Afraid boyfriend will leave me if I don't have sex
Q. I'm scared that if i don't have sex with my boyfriend he will leave me. He's not pressuring me into anything, but it does make me wonder weather this is the only thing he's interested in? He's already done it with his ex girlfriend when they were ...
A. 3 January 2010: Well in that case, if you dont feel ready, tell him that Talk to him about this situation, he should understand if he loves you. Dont let him push you into anything! You need to do what YOU want. Dont do anything just because your afraid of what he ... (read in full...)
His gift was more expensive than mine!
Q. Im 15 years old and my 18 year old boyfriend of not even a month bought me a $200 gift for christmas. I had like a $50 budget for him. But I don't know anymore. I don't want him to feel like I don't care. What should I do?...
A. 23 November 2008: it will be fine, hes 18 and probably earns more than you, your still in school and u have a budget and he should be grateful of what he gets not how much is spent! after all its the thought that counts!!!... (read in full...)
I'm stuck between boys.
Q. Well. this is such a long question! i liked this boy and he asked me to kiss him and i said yeah but just before i was going to, about a day, he asked someone out, but then she dumped him. Now he goes out with someone else but he flirts with me and ...
A. 19 November 2008: Well go with the one you know you like more and will be happy with, and make a relation ship that will last, do not make a decision based on stupid reasons like, they live to far away, or, my friends dont like him etc, look dep down inside and ... (read in full...)
Do I go and tell him how I feel or let the best thing that's ever happened to me slip away?
Q. I split up with my boyfrend six months ago and it was me who decided to end things between us due to a lot of things. However recently I have missed him loads. I haven't ever felt thay way about anyone in my entire life. I still love him sooo much ...
A. 14 November 2008: I'm kinda in the same situation, My ex boyfriend and I have been split up for 2 months and I still love him millions, and he thinks I have moved on but I haven't, I want to tell him how I really feel, but I can't because I don't have the nerves to ... (read in full...)
Do I tell her I like her?
Q. First, let me give you the background story. I am single and have been for a while. I am not attracted to looks so it is rare when I get a crush on someone. I met this girl at college and we became friends quickly, and at one point she even kissed ...
A. 5 November 2008: Okay so, get her alone, and tell her that there is something that you need to tell her, but your only telling her this to get it off of your mind because its bugging you and you feel you just need to teel her. and say that what ever happens you do ... (read in full...)
I want to introduce him to my family cause I love him but he's black and I know how my family can be...
Q. So, I'm Pacific Islander and my boyfriend is black. I would never have been attracted or gotten real close to a black guy because of the "typical" negative characteristics that is placed upon them, but my boyfriend isn't even like that. He is even ...
A. 26 October 2008: just let him meet ur family, once its over and done with u wont have to worry anymore, u shudnt keep it quiet, for the sake of wonderig wot other people will think. you love him he loves u that is the most important thing. as long as u have each ... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of the excess fat on my belly?
Q. ok. im 16 years old im about 5ft5 / 5ft6? and i weigh 10stone... FAT I KNOW! what is the best way to get rid of my fatty belly, and tone it up if not get a 6pack abs? i dont want to go to the gym. i would rather do it at home or on the park...
A. 22 October 2008: 5ft5 and 10 stone, tht dosnt sound fat at all. avrage weight tbh, but to lose weight its not just all about running and excersise it also means u have to start eating healthy food and cud down on fatty foods. theres no point doing lots of exsersise ... (read in full...)
My teacher is really freaking me out!
Q. I know you get many of these but I'm really creeped out to be honest- I've been taught by this teacher for three years now and he treats me so differently to everyone else. At first it was just funny, we just had a laugh, but then he kept making r...
A. 20 October 2008: Woo okay, so this sounds a little strange, maybe you shud tell an adult, maybe your mum or dad, probly telling ur mm wud be better as dads dont tend to talk about things they seem to just use fists to sort somthing out, or u shud tell another ... (read in full...)
Threesomes are a "must have" for him but I panick at the sole thought! How do I work this out?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for months now and have fallen hard for him...and in turn him for me. I want to be with him but one thing that is a must have for him is having threesomes and/or foursomes. While I am bisexual and have been with other women ...
A. 20 October 2008: I wud feel the same, if my boyfriend asked me to have a threesome with him and another lady i wud be shocked. It wud make me feel panicy too for the same reason's that i'd be scared he'd start to like her.
Just tell him it dosnt make you feel comf... (read in full...)
Is it okay to confess to this girl that I like her? We're a little close but not that much.
Q. Hello. I need help. Anyway, I'm a tomboyish girl but many doubt my preferences. Some of them thinks I'm a normal girl while others think I'm a lesbian or bi. In truth, I'm into both but 70% of my attraction are into girls. Anyway, I still don't know ...
A. 18 October 2008: Just get her alone and explain to her what ur feeling, and ask her how she feels about it and if she has feelings bk for you or if you two could have a relationship together and make it work, and if not then you want to still be her friend.
D... (read in full...)
Does he love me back?
Q. I am in love with my (male) teacher. I think he loves me back but I'm not sure can somebody help me find out? thank you ...
A. 15 October 2008: 1) I do hope that he doesn't love you back, you're a student and a young girl so no he probably does not love you back!!! 2) how would we know anyway, apart from the fact that it is very unlikly, you haven't given us any detail at all apart from you... (read in full...)
Is it normal to get bored with someone you've been with for awhile?
Q. im 23 years old, ive been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now. i know i love her n i know she loves me...we treat eachother with respect, rarley ever argue...but alot of times i find myself thinking of what if i was with someone else. i ...
A. 9 October 2008: If your having doubts about being with her then maybee you shud end it, if you think its not going anywere why let it go on longer because that will destroy her more. But all i must say is DONT DO ANYTHING YOU THINK YOU MIGHT REGRET. think long har... (read in full...)
She keeps popping into my life all the time, should I ask my mate's girlfriend to tell her I like her?
Q. hi, I was meeting up with a girl a few months ago that had just broken up with her boyfriend. We really liked eachother but I could tell she wasn't over her boyfriend. Although I could tell she really liked me I could see that she would probab...
A. 6 October 2008: Go for it, tell her how you feel, who knows all could go well, and letting her know how you feel is better than thinking for the rest of your life ' i wonder what might have happend ' and then regreting not saying anything, so just go for it.
o... (read in full...)
Our last kiss was magical but what now?
Q. hey,ok lets cut to the chase, there is this guy at schooland he is 3 years older than me. 2 weeks ago we shared a snog and i knowit was as magical to me as it wasto him but since then mi mum has been away so i had to stay at my aunts and havent seem ...
A. 4 October 2008: ring him ? text him ? wat else is there to do hes asking for you cos he hasnt seen you and misses you so i dont get why ur asking this ... (read in full...)
I mainly want to escape all this and have my friend back like it used to be but I don't see that happening.
Q. Someone who is ment to be my best friend he's bisexual. About 6 months ago started speaking more and more to this lad. He eventually started coming out with us and it got to the stage where he would come out with us everytime we went out. My friend ...
A. 1 October 2008: to be honest he dosnt really sound like a good friend infact he dosnt sound like a friend at all. you can do so much better, you sound like a really good friend that dosnt wont to lose the relationship you two had but thats obviously not what he ... (read in full...)
Can I ever be as close to him again after such a massive blow to our friendship ?
Q. my best friend in lads is the closet thing i have to a brother . when he promises me things, - he normally keeps them . a while ago he promised me he would never take drugs or turn to them , i said that i wouldnt speak to him if he did . recent...
A. 20 September 2008: i think u can get close to him again, i think its just gonna take a bit of time to rebuild the repect you had for him. But in time every thing will be fine again and back to normal :)
good luck... (read in full...)
....So what should I do? Should I ask him out?
Q. I love him a lot. He is a great mate, I cant ruin that But I love him lots, I am happy because he might like me too, I am sad because I am confused and I cant have him which is all I want. I am confused? I am angry because I am sad. He gives me butte...
A. 19 September 2008: I think that if you are sure you like him then you might as well ask him out, you have got nothing to lose, and yeah the worst he can say is no, but at least then you no were u stand, but on the other hand he could say yes and therfor you will be ... (read in full...)
How do I lose weight quickly to stop my friends from making hurtful comments?
Q. I'm 13 and one of my best friends has suddenly gone off with her old best friend. Me and a few of my other friends do something called Body Combat and my old best friend was there watching and taking the mick out of us with her two new best friends. ...
A. 18 September 2008: Well, this lass who is making horrible remarks about your weight is obviously one of those selfish, stuck up, bitchy people, who to be honest needs a slap. She's only saying these things because she know's they get to you and hurt you. so if You d... (read in full...)
I'm in a long distance open relationship but am so hurt he is with somebody else too....does he love me??
Q. So, me and this guy have been in a sort of relationship for about 4 months. Anyways we had decided on an open relationship because its a long distance thing. So he had always texted me called me and we kept things great! He called me his angel an...
A. 18 September 2008: To be honest it sounds like he does love you, but not enough to bear the long distance relationship. If he loved you as much and he said he did, then he wouldnt wont to get with another lass. and to be fairly true i dont think its right for him to ... (read in full...)
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