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16 June 2007: When asking for advice from complete strangers, here are a few tips to keep in mind. 1) Know your audience - We're here to give advice, and as much as we'd like to tell you what to do, we really can't. We're messed up people, too. :) Take everythi...
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He wants to "try out fantasies" and have me dress up as a nurse.
Q. I lost my virginity back in February to my boyfriend. I love him more than anything in the world. The thing is that he wants to "try out fantasies" and have me dress up as a nurse. I do like to try new things. I don't mind doing this at all it's ...
A. 19 July 2007: What you said would be *perfect*. He's not looking for realism, he's looking for a fantasy. If you're dressed up as a nurse and about to have sex with your boyfriend, you could say "I'd better adjust your IV, it looks like it's about to pop out of ... (read in full...)
She's all flirty now. Could she like me?
Q. back last year i briefly went out with a girl. we lasted or about a week and a half. and eventually she said she didnt think that it was a good idea and we split. i was devastated and tried everything i could to get her back but she ignored me and ...
A. 20 June 2007: Hey there fellow byte, I gotta say, this sounds too good to be true. She may have suddenly realized how much she likes you, but honestly, that sort of thing only happens in movies and TV dramas. I think she's messin' with your head. Ask her ... (read in full...)
We had a fling and now everyone knows about it and is being nasty! What should I do?
Q. i had a fling with a guy i knew through work, it was supposed to be descrete, now i find he has told people things we did and its got back to some relatives and people at work who are being unpleasant, i said its lies but they're being really nasty ...
A. 19 June 2007: "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
-- Eleanor Roosevelt
Ignore them. I know you care about what your friends and relatives think, but what they're thinking now isn't helpful in the least. The best thing you can do is br... (read in full...)
Fell in love with my boss! Am I traumitised?
Q. Hi there, is this a post-trauma disease? I have been through a full stress project and inadvertently fell in some kind of love with my boss. Everybody likes him, but I suspect he's just a disgusting married middle-age seducer. To keep up...
A. 17 June 2007: It doesn't sound like a post-trauma thing. I say this mainly because I don't see any trauma in your story. You're just infatuated with your boss. It happens.
First off, bravo for not hiding this from your partner. Now, for his sake and yours, p... (read in full...)
Her parents will send her away if I contact her!
Q. How can i convince her parents im not a bad guy without getting her in any trouble. when i asked her out her parents said we couldnt date or even be friends because of the problems i have had in the past at school. we have still been talking and we ...
A. 17 June 2007: Hello again, Romeo. Since I think we already answered this question, I'll be brief. Be patient, play by her parents' rules, and wait. As for her parents prejudging you, it sounds like they already have. If you're going to show them they're wrong ... (read in full...)
She doesnt want to hang out and says she doesnt love me
Q. yea..ive been goin out with this chick for almost two months now..lately though she never wants to hang out or do anything together..she says shes just a busy woman and likes hanging out with her friends.She says she doesnt love me yet and that'll ...
A. 17 June 2007: Talking to her sounds like a very good idea. Relationships need communication, and we can't tell you what she's thinking. :) But if you'd like some wild speculation, I'd say that she's either a slow starter love-wise, or she's realized that sh... (read in full...)
Could she be pregnant?
Q. my girlfriend was jackin me off.and i came on her hand a little bit.and after that, she put hand sanitizer on her hands.then like, an hour and thirty minutes later, she went to the bathroom to "clean herself up".is there any chance that she is ...
A. 17 June 2007: No.
Hand sanitizer would kill sperm. Even if it didn't, an hour and a half is on the outside of how long a sperm can live outside the human body.
(Don't they teach you kids anything in health class these days? :P)... (read in full...)
I thought I wanted to marry my boyfriend but since he asked me, I am not interested in marrying him anymore.
Q. I thought I wanted to marry my boyfriend but since he asked me, I am not interested in marrying him anymore. We have a baby together, a 2 month old. I thought it was kind of crappy on his part that he never brought it up, us getting married....
A. 16 June 2007: What, you didn't say yes, did you? The guy's obviously a bum. He didn't ask because he's not thinking of you. He's not thinking about the future. He's not thinking about your baby. Dump him on the next curb you find.... (read in full...)
Me and my fiance just got engaged a few weeks ago and ever since she doesn't want to have sex with me.
Q. Me and my fiance just got engaged a few weeks ago and ever since she doesn't want to have sex with me. We always had a good sex life, or at least I did and I spent hours giving foreplay to her before we made love, and I was always under the ...
A. 16 June 2007: Simple. Having secured her catch, she no longer needs to reel you in. Today is the first day of the rest of your cold, passionless life. Enjoy your marriage!... (read in full...)
I have been going out with my boyfriend for 10 months now and he still does not want to have sex with me.
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 10 months now and he still does not want to have sex with me. I have brought this up a number of times and his answer is that he does not want to dissapoint me. I have tried to make he feel comfortable in ...
A. 16 June 2007: I am reminded of a quote from the great Dr. Drew Pinsky: "He's gay."
Ruling out homosexuality, I will bet you dollars to dildos that he does want to have sex with you. Men are hard-wired for it -- the only times we don't think about sex is when ... (read in full...)
She wants time out to see who she wants to be with...
Q. i am madly in love with a girl, she has a boyfriend but doesn't know who she loves more. She took a week away from us both to try and figure out who she wants to be with more. her parents are a little nuts and said a while back that we can no ...
A. 16 June 2007: Ok, here's what you do: Go over to her house in the evening, after the sun has gone down and before she goes to sleep. Throw pebbles at her window to get her attention. Profess your undying love to her, then serenade her with a rendition of her ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex still carry my pic in his wallet?
Q. My ex and I have been broke up about 3 months. We broke up because I couldn't choose between my ex before him (6 year relationship) and him. We had magic though. Now it's over and he has someone new almost immediately after we broke up. My question ...
A. 16 June 2007: Why is your picture still in his walled? He hasn't cleaned out his wallet in the last three months, that's why.
More seriously, all it means is that he doesn't *dislike* you enough to take it out. Even if he doesn't love you, he may still trust yo... (read in full...)
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