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writes:back last year i briefly went out with a girl. we lasted or about a week and a half. and eventually she said she didnt think that it was a good idea and we split. i was devastated and tried everything i could to get her back but she ignored me and didn't speak to me atall. i told her how i felt about her and she didn't speak to me from that day on. she then started going out with another boy in her year who she is still with.but yesterday i was revising for my exam and she came and sat down next to me and said she would help me with it. She began testing me and was laughing and joking with me and i think even flirting although i didnt want to get my hopes up. When she finished helping me with my exam she was messing around and joking with me which she never did before. i saw a side to her that i had never seen. the biggest thing was that she was telling everyone she'd helped me and shouted my name and question when she was stood in the middle of the whole of her year, which she would never have done before! then when i got home she had left a comment on my bebo page taking the mick out of me about how bad my revision was. and i txt her saying thanku 4 your help and stuff. But the weird thing was that it was a year to the day yesterday when she first told me she liked me by txt (sad i know!)and she sent me a txt that was meant for her boyfriend saying love u ont he end and then said o sorry that was meant 4 gav. im still speaking to her via bebo.but i was wondering with all the history we have she knows how i feel about her and has never led me on before. am i getting the wrong impression and what shoudl i do? many thanks if you can help me with this! im desperate!
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reader, megabytemike +, writes (20 June 2007):
megabytemike is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your advice!!ppl hav said that shes playn a game but i dnt understand y any1 would do that!! but keep the advice cuumin in!i knew cumin on here was a good idea!!!
thanks once again, Mike
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reader, bytex64  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Hey there fellow byte,I gotta say, this sounds too good to be true. She may have suddenly realized how much she likes you, but honestly, that sort of thing only happens in movies and TV dramas.I think she's messin' with your head. Ask her how things are going with her boyfriend. I'll bet you the answer is "not so good." The text message could have been an honest mistake, but it sounds a little fishy to me. I'm putting my money on "She had a spat with her boyfriend, so now she's looking to you for the attention she's not getting from him."Proceed with caution. Don't expect this to go anywhere, but don't cut her off, either. She may just want to be friends. Also, be aware that your feelings for her may be clouding your judgement. In any case, none of this definetly means she likes you.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Unless your names are next to each other in her phone then it was not an accident it was very a cruel deliberate thing to do, i would stay away from her yeah she knows you still like her but don't let her see it from you get on with your life she has some one else now and if she really wants you she will get rid of the boyfriend and come back to you.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Men want sex...women want ATTENTION. Do not take her flirting seriously. She probably is using you for attention. She knows you have feelings, so she flirts with you becuase she likes the attention, but will reject you as soon as you give her the attention cookie. She is playing a game with you. Do not be played by this tease.
-FBK
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