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writes: yea..ive been goin out with this chick for almost two months now..lately though she never wants to hang out or do anything together..she says shes just a busy woman and likes hanging out with her friends.She says she doesnt love me yet and that'll be "awhile" idk i get the feeling she doesnt want to be with me.maybe i should talk to her about this.whats your opinion. Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Basically it sounds like she is not THAT attracted to you. In the two months you have dated, it sounds like you have bored her more than excited her, and THAT is why she would rather be with "her friends" (= other guys she is dating). If she is telling you that she doesn't love you yet, that is a red flag.
Start dating other girls. She needs to see that other girls want you, and thus, she will change her attitude towards you.
I would not talk to her about it, becuase at this point, you have already lost some attraction, and that kind of talk at this point will make you be seen as whiny.
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reader, bytex64  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Talking to her sounds like a very good idea. Relationships need communication, and we can't tell you what she's thinking. :)But if you'd like some wild speculation, I'd say that she's either a slow starter love-wise, or she's realized that she doesn't really have any feelings for you and doesn't want to let you down just yet.But really, just talk to her.
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