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writes:i am madly in love with a girl, she has a boyfriend but doesn't know who she loves more. She took a week away from us both to try and figure out who she wants to be with more. her parents are a little nuts and said a while back that we can no longer be friends anymore when i asked her out and if they found out we were friends then they would take her out of school and put her back in homeschool. crazy i know but its true her parents really did say that her mom works at a school so she has seen my record its not that bad but i do have my fair share of regrets on it. we talk nearly every day on the computer and we see each other alot but her parents found out yesterday and basically put her on house arrest she cant leave the house or get on the computer. It's killing me not being able to talk or see her but i dont know what we can do she has to obey her parents because she is only 16 and i am 14 btw. i cant wait until august before i see her again. please please please if you have any advice it would be appreciated greatly thanx in advance
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 Give the situation time, and don't annoy her parents as that will not help in the long run. If her parents see you are willing to follow their rules when it comes to their daughter then their feelings may change.
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reader, bytex64 +, writes (16 June 2007):
 Ok, here's what you do: Go over to her house in the evening, after the sun has gone down and before she goes to sleep. Throw pebbles at her window to get her attention. Profess your undying love to her, then serenade her with a rendition of her favorite Red Jumpsuit Apparatus song. When her parents come outside to try and figure out what all that racket is, sneak out of the yard before they catch you. She'll fall madly in love with you, I guar...
Wait, no, that's a terrible idea.
My advice? Continue talking to her just like you're doing. Don't piss off her parents, and be patient. If you're really crazy, you can try to warm yourself up to her parents, but I don't know how well that would work. Good things come to those who wait (and more importantly, don't anger her parents). :)
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