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BRiTbRiT as you can see

im really 16 years old [[accidentally put the wrong year on my thingy ]]

feb. 5th i blow out my candles =]]

very deep person.

probably the most intense persOn you will ever meet.

...im veryy friendly.

i get annoyed with people who dont stand up for what they believe in.

i live in PA

i have Latin blood flowing through my veins ;]

I've beeen through ALOT of things in my life that could've made or brake me...and im SITLL STANDNG 5'3 tall =]

i'm EXTREMLEY UDNERSTANDING...NOT JUDGEMENTAL AT ALL.

not afraid to admit things if faced with a question or anything of that sort.

Any questions feel free to ask....

xOxOxOx;

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Mom and dad separated, but dad still lives with us, people talk about him behnd his back, what can I do to help?

Q.   ok...real problem in my head right now... my mom and dad are seperated but he still lives in our house because he has no where else to go... but he's really making my mom mad because he takes stufff without asking, and acts all high and mighty ...

A.   24 May 2009: Okay im gonna be completely honest. Thats your father. Reguardless of how he acts with your mother. Its none of your business what goes on in their personal life. Its WRONG for your mom to put you in that position. But if your feelign bad then, ... (read in full...)

Wrong to have sex with my cousin?

Q.   hi im a singal gal n i fall for my cousin who happen to be a hunk. he came n stay with my family for about 2 yrs now cus he studin near my place. last week my parent were out so i was along with my cous. i wore a set of black semi-tra...

A.   24 May 2009: listen it seems like you guys liked it both the same. And reguardless if it's right or not, you guys are still gonna do what you guys want and will still feel things reguardless of everything. In life people do worse things girl.... do what you ... (read in full...)

He wastes his money, I don't want to be a nag, but how can I get him to spend more wisely, we're broke?

Q.   My boyfriend and i haven't been together very long and have already moved in together, and it looks as though i am pregnant too. I'm happy with him, i love him to pieces and he feels the same way about me too. He's nine years older than me but ...

A.   24 May 2009: Okay, first you need to talk to him about you future and ask him if you guys had a child would he still be the same, RECKLESS SPENDING. It's irresponsible and just not smart AT ALL. Talk about how it effects you and how you want him to change... if ... (read in full...)

We are broken up although we still love each other

Q.   well since my bf had to go to canada for his college(he's canada based indian)we broke up...we were in a realtion for around 6 months...we really love eachother n still care for and respect eachother.he was my senior... 1 and a half year back he had ...

A.   24 May 2009: LISTEN SWEETIE; because he is in Canada and you are far away from him, does not mean that you guys can't be together. If he REALLY-TRULLY does love you, than he can be in a relationship with you and respect not cheating on you just because he's in ... (read in full...)

I have a good guy but because of my past, I can't trust him

Q.   Every man thats ever been in my life except my dad and current boyfriend has hurt me and its given me really bad trust issues. My mum and dad broke up when i was about ten months old and so ive never known them to be together. I have really good...

A.   24 May 2009: Girl i went through the same things your feeling. I just got over my hurtle to actually show my boyfriend how i feel. Hun, i understand you feel at times like he'll do the same things to you, it's just a matter of time. But in love, you cant do ... (read in full...)

Stealing, lying, cheating! Should I trust her?

Q.   Hi I am basically looking for advice as I fear my decisions are absed on love clouding my judgement. I have been dating my gf for 5 years. During that time we have had virtually no problems with our relationship. The only time I br...

A.   24 May 2009: Okay, if you feel stealing, lieing, and cheating goes against your morrals, then i think yu need to reavaluate your relationship with her. It sounds like everytime you bring something up she turns the situation to flip it on yu, && that my dear is ... (read in full...)

Will I lose her forever if I tell her I love her?

Q.   Hey i need a little help because recently i have fallen in love with my best friend and i wish i havent because she has been hurt too much recently by guys and i really dont want to say something and join they guys and loose her forever and tonight ...

A.   13 August 2008: awah =/ hunny, just make sure you tell her if she doesnt feel the smae for you that you are willing to accept it and still b her best friend, just in case she doesnt feel for you and still wants to be bestfriends. Also tell her and SHOW her what... (read in full...)

Will he be faithful if he decides I'm the one for him?

Q.   This is a follow up to this question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-know-if-he-does-decide.html Ok I spent all of Monday with him....we even ended up having sex on the back porch...smh....but before and after any of that happened He ...

A.   13 August 2008: awha =] hunny i was in the exact same situtation. well, first of all show and tell him that you appreciate everything he's doing. or else he'll feel like it isn't worth it and WILL stop showing you the effection he normalyy does'nt give. It's ... (read in full...)

Why is my little girl being left out?

Q.   please can anyone give me any advice 3 years ago i left my daugthers dad because he was very abuseive towards me, i knew that i and most importntly my little girl would be much happier,she now sees her dad every weekend and as he become a really g...

A.   13 August 2008: okay hunny, your need to make sure your making it CLEAR to your 5year old daughter what you just stated in your question. You dont want her to feel neglect, especially when she's already feeling it from one parent. It's NOT fare for her....A... (read in full...)

My girlfriend and I fight all the time, but I don't want to dump her in case I regret it.

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. She's my first girlfriend. We fight almost everyday, and make up almost everyday. We talk about it all the time. But she still gets upset about the same things. Also she always wants me to ...

A.   13 August 2008: wow well. they often say the more obsitcls you overcome in a relationship, the stronger you become as 1. After a while if you start arguing about the same things...be real...you arent getting anywhere. Even if you guys do talk it out..it reall... (read in full...)

Why doesn't my girlfriend kiss me? I have to ask her to kiss me.

Q.   my girlfriend doesnt kiss me goodbye when we part for the night or day as a matter of fact. i have to tell her to give me a kiss. so in a way i feel like im baging for one when i think it should happen natualy.i dont know is it me tripping on ...

A.   13 August 2008: oh no ! baby boy listen up. if you have to ask for it maybe seh is insecure about kissing you or just doesn't want to kidd you. best bet: ASK HER. talk to her. ....&&& if she keeps it real with you...then you figure out what to do from there. &... (read in full...)

Our sex life has petered off a bit, how can I make him think I'm a sex goddess?

Q.   Im 20yrs old, and I have been with my bf for 4 years now. We started our sex life 3 years ago when I turned 18. I have no complaints, I love it! He pleases me and I please him as well. Ok so we have INCREDIBLE sex, well we used to. Here's the pro...

A.   13 August 2008: hehehe well hunny, turn to porn..get new ideas. or try role play with him..... or better yet; ask him what it is that he wants. talk about each other's fantacies and go for it.... [ even if it doesn't come out EXACTLY perfect ], he'll b a... (read in full...)

My husband left me and moved in with another woman straight away. He can't seem to make up his mind. Help!

Q.   Hi, My husband left me and moved in with another women straight away that he had known for about 10 weeks. We have 2 children 7 and 8 years. He said at first he needed time to think, but now they have moved into another house together with her 5 ...

A.   13 August 2008: well hunny, you need to be strong for kids and CANNOT allow him to continue walking in and out of your life as he does. You being as understanding as you are, "giving him time to think" already is giving him that control "POWER" to gear your mind ... (read in full...)

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