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writes:This is a follow up to this questionhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-know-if-he-does-decide.htmlOk I spent all of Monday with him....we even ended up having sex on the back porch...smh....but before and after any of that happened He way beyond sweet to me....and while me, him, my cousin, and her bf of 2yrs {{Which is my guys brother}} Where in a room together....I got a phone call about some upsetting news....I didnt care who was around and broke down. My guy got up and walked over to me and held me....even before the phone call I knew about the bad news SO I was crying off and on He would try to make me laugh or hold me...which he doesnt really do according to him and his brother....He said to me that there is something about me that makes him want to do whatever in his power to make sure I'm smiling and ok. Another thing that tapped my heart a bit was earlier that day before my cousin's boyfriend got off work me, my cousin, and my guy went to sonic. Yes....I'm a sonic fatty...lolz well just for their drinks =]. But anyways there was this girl that was checking him out. SHe was pretty and I'm sure somewhat attractive to him....She walked up to him when he had walked away from the table bc of a phone call from his mother and we heard them talking. {{THe messed up thing is that she saw us holding hands, me sitting on his lap, and us holding each other.....but pretty much she tried to get at him.....He told her...no I already have someone....and that if he had met her before his someone he would of taken her and 10 other girls offer. SHe asked who and he looked at me then came over grabbed my hand and took me over to her...then said her....lolz I guess she felt intimidated bc she just walked off without a word. And another thing that happened that day....was when my cousin, her man, him, and me all went to my dads to drop me off {{I was upset about the bad news and had to go to my dads to comfort my sister}} He not only walked me to the door...he also gave me a hug....I thought it would end there bc in my head I'm like....No....he wouldnt give me a kiss goodbye bc he doesnt do that....well he did! And it wasnt a long sloppy wet kiss it was a kiss that kinda gave me the feeling that he really cared....and when we split ways...I felt like he didnt want to let me go......His brother called me...and was like what did you do to my brother?!?!?!?! I asked what he meant...and he said that his brother has really grown up a lot and really likes me and has talked about settling with me......I just really need to know...because saying and doing is two diff things....should I really wait for him to make up his mind....bc there is still the fact that he talks to one other girl that I know of. How do I know if he wants to settle with me, if I should wait, and if he does be with me that he'll be faithful
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reader, bluntasaspoon  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 just wait a while longer, it sounds like he has already kinda made his mind up by telling and showing this other girl that he is with u. but dont pressure him, enjoy it as it is at the moment and when the time is right u will know coz he will tell u ohhhhh i go a good feeling about this :)
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reader, britbrit +, writes (13 August 2008):
 awha =]
hunny i was in the exact same situtation.
well, first of all show and tell him that you appreciate everything he's doing.
or else he'll feel like it isn't worth it and WILL stop showing you the effection he normalyy does'nt give.
It's obvious he wants you to b whifeyy.
=]]
BEST bET: talk to him [ FACE TO FACE ]
&& dont mind what Other peOple sayy... like his brother or anyone...
just incase theres lies in the mix.
feel me??
talk to him about settling down...make sure there is clarity...
everything should be good from there....
good luck mama =]
~bRiTbRiT
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