She said she couldn't return my love...
Q. I am single. Over the past few years i have grown very close to a workmate who is 15 years younger than me. She is also single. I have fallen in love with her. I told her and she said that although we were best friends she could not return the my ...
A. 24 October 2010: You should be thankful that she has been honest and up front with you. You need to stop obsessing over her and not let it get you into trouble. Perhaps you feel as though she led you on? What ever the reason you need to come to grips with your ... (read in full...)
Having communication problems since my break-up
Q. Hi there.. I was considering remaining anonymous to ask for advice but maybe it will help if others know that I am struggling also. The problem I face is not wanting to let people get emotionally close to me. I don't know if this is a question or...
A. 24 October 2010: We have a lot in common.
I feel just like you do....after my divorce of a ten year marriage. I wasted 10 years of my life with someone whom I thought loved me only to find out he betrayed me by cheating every chance he got. Only when it was all over... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have a large clit?
Q. Umm...i really don't know how to say this but. i have a very large clit. Is this normal? does other women have this? im not sure. so please answer my question it would really help me out?...
A. 24 October 2010: Umm...I would say if it were 6 inches or more then it would be very manly to say the least.... (read in full...)
Married but I love another!
Q. Am married and am in love with a married man. I've been in this relationship for only one month. we've been kissing and caressing and he makes me feel something I dont feel with my husband. i think I love but am feeling guilty. i wouldn't like my ...
A. 24 October 2010: Think of this.....
80/20 Rule
In most cases, especially in relationships, you will
only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship. There is always another person (man or women... (read in full...)
Girlfriend was a prostitute and slept with over 350 men before I paid for her to get out of that scene, but I'm struggling to deal with her past!
Q. Dear All, I am 38 years old and left my wife after 16years of a less than satisfying marriage a year ago - we are currently going thru Divorce - we do however have a beautiful young son who is just the best thing in my life - he is 6years old. ...
A. 16 October 2010: words are just words...sex is just sex...blah blah blah when you are both in your 80's or 90's at the end of life will you take care of her, will she take care of you? What the heck are your priorities for the future of this relationship...sex is ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I'm ready to marry and have kids again!
Q. Serious crisis here Aunts and Uncles... I am recently divorced and with a new partner for a little over a year. I will admit I met her while I was separated, but we did not move in together until the divorce was iminent. We are very much in lov...
A. 16 October 2010: Yikes! What if you produce a child and the relationship turns out to be all wrong for both of you...then it will be another divorce and this time with child support.
Relationship goes through phases and when the honeymoon phase wears off and you ... (read in full...)
I have a mental illness and can't deal with the emotions of my wife.
Q. I don't love my wife any more and I can no longer tell her I love her anymore. I have a daughter at a young age and don't want to divorce but I feel that our relationship is hurting my child. I have a mental illness and can't deal with the emotions ...
A. 16 October 2010: At this point, think about YOU. See a counselor for yourself. You have to help yourself before you can make sound decisions. Have you been diagnosed by a professional? Are you on medication? Perhaps a separation could give you some distance for a ... (read in full...)
Is it adultery if we're separated?
Q. My wife and i been marrried for 3 years. I love her with all my heart. We had problems but we got past them. This time shes being serious on being done and wants a divorce. We been seperated for 4 months now and she started seeing her ex boyfriend ...
A. 16 October 2010: I live in Ohio and just living apart is not being Legally separated. When you both sign your divorce papers that the lawyer draws up and files them with the court you are LEGALLY separated. Then you get a hearing date to make it official. Why would ... (read in full...)
Is this teacher actually flirting with me?
Q. well basically im 14 and i need to know if my teacher was flirting with me or just having a laugh so heres the story.... my friend was talking to him and i was messing about saying stop flirting with teachers and he turned around and said stop fli...
A. 16 October 2010: I agree that you should ignore it and just stay away from him and go about your own business....if he pursues in other ways such as following, calling, touching you then you should report him! But if you continue to watch after him in trying to get ... (read in full...)
He says I am too demanding, I say he is using me for his benefit!
Q. ok, I have asked questions on here before.. and now I just need to know it is not me. I am 47 years old, divorced woman 2 kids. I am finanically independent. I have been with the same man for 7 years. He is also 47 years old with 2 childre...
A. 5 October 2010: You know you are right. All these games are a waste of time....there is a sea of men out there. Most by the age of 50 have been cast out again via divorce...but there are men out there. I would say get out and get involved in activities where you ... (read in full...)
Do I confront him... or just leave it be?
Q. Heres the thing: I am not proud of it but I snooped around a few years ago and found my boyfriend's password to his email. I checked it once and didn't find anything suspicious. I felt horrible for betraying his trust and privacy but, I never said ...
A. 5 October 2010: Well, if you continue watching him online in secret it is going to hurt you mentally. There must have already been a breach of trust within your relationship because you have a sneaky feeling that he is up to no good. Trust you inner instinct.
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Does he still wish we were together or is his he done?
Q. i need help? i was married for 16 years together for 20 had 3 beautiful children together. built three homes without complication went thru a business deal with friends and got screwed.. my husband began drinking heavily and disconnecting from ...
A. 3 October 2010: Girlfriend, stop thinking about him...come on..start thinking straight...he is long gone.
I find it strange that you think he still loves you!
If he loved you he would be with you right?
I don't know where you live but where I live when you ha... (read in full...)
Why are the girls at school, so mean to me?
Q. y dont girls like me, at school there mean to me, call me names for no reason and dont really know me at all. Im in the football A team, top 5 for athletics in my year, Im not disgusting, Im very polite and haven't said a mean word to any girl. ...
A. 3 October 2010: These words "I let her in my garden to climb into hers when she locks herself out" sound like something from a song...you are poetic and don't even realize it. Have you seen the movie "Post Grad". Just shake it off and don't take it ... (read in full...)
Married but I love another!
Q. Am married and am in love with a married man. I've been in this relationship for only one month. we've been kissing and caressing and he makes me feel something I dont feel with my husband. i think I love but am feeling guilty. i wouldn't like my ...
A. 3 October 2010: STOP! Didn't you verbalize marriage vows to your husband and to God? Do you have no restraint? You need a counselor to help you sort out your feelings BEFORE you proceed with the other person.
If you are that careless please be kind to your hus... (read in full...)
Suspicious behaviors? Is he cheating?
Q. My boyfriend of 1year and 2months only takes me sround his mom and dad i have yet to meet his friends and other relatives and when he talks or text his friends he either speak in codes or walk outside and then gets upset if i follow him .one night ...
A. 3 October 2010: It sounds like something is not right. Is this boyfriend married? A loving relationship has no secrets, no boundries no privacy issues. His love for you should be shown proudly to ALL! ... (read in full...)
Marrying an older guy soon..but he treats me like a child! What should I do?
Q. I'm getting married in seven months...but I'm just not happy in the relationship..I'm marrying an older guy, who is more established than I. Which would normally be a good thing but the closer we get to our date the more he makes me feel like I'm ...
A. 3 October 2010: Seriously...seek some premarital counseling before securing this scenario with wedding vows to God...unless divorce seems easy to you.... (read in full...)
Why do all I attract is Jerks?
Q. I am a 21 year old female. I know I have a good head on my shoulders. I am a fulltime college student, and more importantly, I know where I want to go and where I want to be in life. Ok, now on to the juicy stuff. I just dont understand why I always ...
A. 3 October 2010: You have to wade through a sea of jerks to find the man who is just perfect for you...hang in there and don't lower your standards or think that they will change...just keep watching for those red flags and when you see them move on. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of three years tells me I am ugly!
Q. Hi everyone! What can you do if your bf told you that your ugly? I have beem with my bf for 3yrs, last year he told that im ugly and he don't know why he's in love with me, he says may is because of im good in sex, i was realy hurt and after that ...
A. 3 October 2010: You know what is sad...you are keeping yourself from Mr. right. This person you say you love is manipulating you and filling your subconscience with lies to keep you there.
If you are good at sex give it to someone who honors you and gives yo... (read in full...)
Anyone involved with a cop?
Q. Have any of you ever dated/loved/married a police officer? I've met one recently and I sense that we're developing strong feelings for each other. I am hoping we might start dating but all my friends seem to be warning me not to get involved with a ...
A. 3 October 2010: I am one year divorced from a cop. We were together 12 years and married for 10. There were red flags in the beginning but I chose to ignore them because I was "in love". After we married he lied, cheated, belittled me to his "cop co-workers" to no ... (read in full...)
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