I'm attracted to a male friend who doesn't feel the same about me
Q. Help!I have a male friend who I am attracted to more than he is attracted to me, he is flaky though and sometimes flirtatious then puts it back on friendship level. He makes no secret of his interests in other women and I make no secret of only bei...
A. 15 February 2014: He is clearly, and I say clearly playing mind games with you. Telling you about other women in hopes to keep you on your toes for later when he is ready. slowly distance yourself then completely disappear. Your dealing with a jerk, who at this ... (read in full...)
I had an affair while he was in prison. Should I tell him I'm pregnant or have an abortion?
Q. Hello im a 27 yr old female with no kids and have been trying for the past 3 years to consieve with my boyfriend soon to b husband.he gotten in some trouble and had to go to prison at which time i had a lil affair. Now im pregnant and dnt kno if i ...
A. 11 January 2010: Have your baby! Come clean. Don't get rid of your baby. Your baby is your blessing and didn't asked to be conceived. Are you crazy? You were seriously thinking about aborting the baby b/c of another man. Oh well, you made a mistake but your ... (read in full...)
Why won't my married lover call me??
Q. hello im a 32 year old woman who has been seeing this married man for 7 years. i thought we had a really good relationship and we talked on the phone every other day. now for some reason i have not heard from him in a week. i know thats not a very ...
A. 9 January 2010: Maybe because he has found someone else to occupy his time. Married men who cheat always have other women on the side-never just one. I hope you didn't think you would be the only one. Shame on you for believing you would be his only ... (read in full...)
How do I get this girl to notice me?
Q. there is a girl i like a lot and i mean a lot i cannot stop thinking about her. she doesn't know me but i see her almost everyday. i just want to tell her how i feel but i know i can't because she already has a boyfriend and i hate him so much. ...
A. 8 September 2009: If she has a boyfriend, then you have to be very patient. Please don't say you hate her boyfriend b/c you don't know the relationship or the type of person he is. If you are jealous, you will never get her attention. Start by speaking to her and ... (read in full...)
How can I fix this mess? I broke up with my boyfriend but now I'm having second thoughts!
Q. hello there, i made the worse mistake ever! and i need help to fix it. i ended a a year and a half relationship last week, he said that he wants me happy and that if that is what i want then i should go, but now i dont want that i miss him way to ...
A. 8 September 2009: Start back calling and ask him out. If he says yes, pour out your feelings and justify why you did what you did. He maybe a little sour at first. If he refuses, then you have to play the waiting game and hope he comes around. Sorry! Good luck!... (read in full...)
Is he trying to break it off?
Q. Hi. I posted a question earlier but did not recieve any replies so I'm going to try again and make it more concise I'll start by saying that I'm 31 yrs old and basically in my first "real" relationship. I should also mention that I suffer from ext...
A. 8 September 2009: Just give it more time. No reason to rush the situation. Maybe he is trying to fill you out. He may just want to be friends and if so, what's wrong with that. Be his friend and guard your feelings until he says other wise. Don't go ending good ... (read in full...)
What did I do to make this guy back away? Everything seemed so perfect!
Q. I was in a bad car wreck in April i had just broke up with my ex boyfriend about three weeks later. The relationship i was in before was horrible very abusive. I almost died thats how bad the wreck was. Once i was able to see my friends, i met ...
A. 8 September 2009: He may have been in a relationship but, the relationship was at its worse when he was talking to you. I know you must feel hurt b/c he gave you all the support you needed. You didn't do anything wrong. I would just re-adjust my feelings b/c he is ... (read in full...)
Each time my boyfriend goes away on a business trip I find condoms in his bag, and we don't even use them!
Q. My boyfriend of 6 years went on a business trip last weekend. When he came back, I found a receipt for condoms. We don't use condoms. He says he was the one responsible for till slips for the team. but, why would someone try and claim condoms from ...
A. 8 September 2009: You are doing the right thing. He is not being honest with you. ... (read in full...)
Crush in the workplace...
Q. I work at a hospital as a RN. There is a physician that I find so attractive. He is always touching and rubbing my arms, shoulders, hair, and hands. He is around 59 years old and I am only 30. I can't stop thinking about him. I heard he flirts ...
A. 8 October 2008: need more answers... (read in full...)
How can I stretch my vagina in preparation for sex?
Q. My boyrfriend of a year and half are planning on having sex within the next two months. i was wondering how i can possibly stretch my vagina out as it is quite tight. yes, we will be using a condom....
A. 7 October 2008: Men like it tight so don't mess your jewel up. Do you know how many women will kill to have their jewel tight? Just learn how to relax. Try lubrication (safe kind) and drink a little wine to help you relax. ... (read in full...)
47 and confused about my sexuality...
Q. Dear cupid I have a real good friend that has a girl frind. The other night we had some drinks and he said that he thought I was gay but in my heart of hearts I feel that I am not but for some reason I got the feeling that he wanted me to give him a ...
A. 7 October 2008: You wanting to give another man a blow job and you are a male also may mean that you are gay. You said that you considered giving him one. I'm not sure what you was drinking on but, you felt some sort of attraction to this man. When you are ... (read in full...)
Please help me build the courage to leave my abusive boyfriend.
Q. My boyfriend has verbally abused and verbally abused and verbally abused me for months. He blamed it on the fact that he was going through a rough time in his Life and that it would pass as soon as he found a job. He has found a job and it hasn'...
A. 7 October 2008: I had tears in my eyes when I read your story. The truth is that I think you feel sorry for him. You wanna prove to him that you are none of those things so you contiue to stay. Inside you know you deserve better cause you have made multiple ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to get her to clean up and seek marriage counseling? Is it even worth it?
Q. My wife and I have been married for a little over three years now. We have 2 beautiful children whom we love dearly. She believes I had an affair or multiple affairs and cannot stop dragging this through the mud. She went so far as to have me ...
A. 7 October 2008: Are you sure you wanna file for divorce? Marriage is hard work. Ok you can remove the money out of the account but, she will be very upset again. Tell her what you want! You may even need to start praying and tell her that. Tell her you will ... (read in full...)
He says I'm his soul mate but he doesn't want to be with me anymore...
Q. I have a huge problem... and I don't really know what I need to do. This guy I've been with for just over 2 years decided he didn't want to be with me any more. But he still says that I'm his soulmate and that he loves me more than anything. I'm so ...
A. 7 October 2008: No I don't think you should wait for him. He wants to put you inside a box while he play around. After he runs around a few times, he wants to make a life with you. He knows he will be tempted by other girls so he don't want to hurt you if he ... (read in full...)
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