Boyfriend always accuses me of having sex with other men but then gets off on it
Q. This might seem strange but the guy I'm currently with is extremely jealous , through out our relationship of nearly a year he has constantly accused me of havin sex with other guys. If I go out for a few hours and am late back he would take me to ...
A. 19 February 2013: I agree, he sounds very bad news .I wouldn't be surprised if he became abusive .be careful .... (read in full...)
What to do? Sex is destroying our loving relationship.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 7 months. I am 17 and he is 18. Our relationship is very loving, supportive and intimate. We were both virgins when we met and after a month we decided to make love. We were both very nervous, the...
A. 9 February 2013: It sounds like his inexperience is making him nervous .I suggest you buy a good book re karma suitra .... (read in full...)
Are these signs of a man with issues or is it his situation that has made him push me away?
Q. Hi I guess I really am asking others for conformation of something I already know in my heart but maybe I someone has another perspective .I have posted before and this is my third disaster relationship since a long term toxic relationship 7 yrs ago ...
A. 2 March 2012: Yes I agree with everything you have said .I did wipe the floor with him and held on to a least some of my esteem and self respect and told him that I need more. Thanks for your honesty .maybe I have leart ......I hope so .xx ... (read in full...)
Please help me stop obessing about the guy I'm dating!
Q. I just would like a little help to stop me obsessing so much about a guy I'm dating, I'm driving myself mad! I met him through an online dating site, this isnt the first time I've used online dating so I know what to expect. We had an amazing f...
A. 20 October 2011: I sooo relate to you. I just think that you need to concentrate on yourself and try not to obsess about him. I think that I would definitely carry on dating other men .if he feels a lot for you I'm sure he will sort himself out sand hopefully have ... (read in full...)
I have family issues, no close friends and have never had a boyfriend. What's wrong with me?
Q. I feel like a looser. I have complex ongoing family issues. Everyone is too preoccupied dealing with their own problems - even I put effort into helping out my mum and sister etcetc to the point where it's adversely affecting my life. I feel lik...
A. 27 August 2011: Sounds like you may be shy and have trouble trusting people because your own family have let you down. Have you looked at working on your self esteem maybe a course or get a book. You sound a caring person and there are many people out there that ... (read in full...)
Tricked by a man - again!
Q. What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...
A. 26 August 2011: Well yes I agree to all comments . We are still in touch daily but who loss what Will happen. I have learnt a lot from all this and will never rush so quickly again .... (read in full...)
Tricked by a man - again!
Q. What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...
A. 23 August 2011: This has been so beneficial thanks guys. Well we have spoken on and off since we met last Tuesday. He explained I. His messages about six of them that he definitely wants to see me again soon but has been a bit busy this week as he's moving home. I ... (read in full...)
Tricked by a man - again!
Q. What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...
A. 23 August 2011: No I'm not lonely just let my heart get carried away. I'm a great believer in live for the moment and I regret nothing in my life. He has made contact with me and time will tell if its going to progress.... (read in full...)
Tricked by a man - again!
Q. What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...
A. 23 August 2011: I don't really know Angel. I guess I need to communicate with him and not get so carried away with someone I don't know. I know I'm vulnerable so I need to protect myself and my heart. I normally go with my gut feeling and it has never let me down ... (read in full...)
Tricked by a man - again!
Q. What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...
A. 23 August 2011: Hey guys. Just got a text from him !!!!! He wants to meet again .I just want to start again really !!!. I have been so hurt in the past I just think the worst.don't give people time to respond. But i will definitely be a bit more clued up. ... (read in full...)
Tricked by a man - again!
Q. What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...
A. 23 August 2011: Ah thanks. Yes point taken. I am no longer going to let myself be a fool and work on my self.. many thanks angel. X ... (read in full...)
Tricked by a man - again!
Q. What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...
A. 23 August 2011: Thanks guys and girls for all your comments and advice. I feel I need to clear a few things up. I am not desperate nor clingy. I have had my share of love and loss. I just wanted honesty . I don't regret sleeping with him or feel tricked by that. He ... (read in full...)
Tricked by a man - again!
Q. What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...
A. 23 August 2011: Thanks guys and girls for all your comments and advice. I feel I need to clear a few things up. I am not desperate nor clingy. I have had my share of love and loss. I just wanted honesty . I don't regret sleeping with him or feel tricked by that. He ... (read in full...)
Tricked by a man - again!
Q. What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...
A. 23 August 2011: I slept with him yes and he. Said he wanted to see me again. Sent me text messages etc. I now nothing. He has completely blanked me. I'm so hurt and confused.... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with my gf's sister and my gf is abroad.
Q. hello everyone, thanks for reading my post. here is my story. i have a gf for 3 years and 2 mos and i really love her. then she left abroad to work as a nurse. my gf is pretty while her sister is not so. before she left i'm already having lustful ...
A. 8 August 2011: Be very careful. You may just be feeling lonely . If you truly love your gf don't ruin it and risk losing her. ... (read in full...)
The stuff he says when he drinks get to me
Q. Im 26 and my boyfriend of 3 years is 23. He is a great guys and we get along great. We have a house together and a life. Everything between us is 50/50. I don't really have a lot of time to hang out with friends and to be honest I have lost touch ...
A. 8 August 2011: You are not overreacting . He is being insensitive and immature but its not unusual at his age. I think he is doing it to get your attention and wind you up. Try not to bite. Why don't you go on about how great other gjys bodies are for a few days ... (read in full...)
Am I making a fool of myself if I respond, if he contacts me again?
Q. Well I posted a few weeks ago about a guy I met and got close to and then never heard from. He did send a very ambiguous text, saying we are still the same, and for me not to be confused!!! He took me off his Facebook, because I put a comment about ...
A. 8 August 2011: Thanks I know exactly where you are coming from.x... (read in full...)
How can I show this guy that I am interested in more than just friends?
Q. I have now met an older guy .we have been out three times and get on have lots in common. He has told me by text he likes me a lot and I feel that there is chemistry there. He hasn't made any romantic move on me though and I feel confused and don't ...
A. 7 August 2011: Thanks. Yes will try not to let my shyness stop me from showing him I like him.x... (read in full...)
What really turns a guy on?
Q. This question is Coming from a girl who has little experience with men.What really turns on a fella? Like what do most fellas get turned on by or what do they find sexy? ...
A. 6 August 2011: This is a difficult question to answer as different men find different things attractive but one thing does stand out and that is confidence and someone who is not afraid of her sexuality and sensuality. ... (read in full...)
We had crazy sparks and now I haven't heard from him. What's up with that?
Q. My mom and his aunt tried to set me and the guy up. His aunt asked if he was willing to call me and he agreed. We started off with txt msging and the next day he asked me if he could call me, i agreed. We hit it off pretty well and spoke for an hour ...
A. 6 August 2011: I have just been through something similar although we got up close and personal. All I can say is if a guy IS interested he will get in touch. If a guy gas any doubts he may need a bit of time . But in my experience if a guy is genuine and ... (read in full...)
Am I imagining the closeness we had?
Q. I met a guy a year ago. We flirted by text and met up a few times. We stopped contact for a while then met up again and connected and had good chemistry. He was very affectionate and seemed genuine. We had sex and he was very loving and it was ...
A. 6 August 2011: Thanks for reply. Knowing that someone else has been there too really helps. I guess I need to work on my self esteem now and make friends with a guy first and not get mixed up with lust and genuine love .x x ... (read in full...)
Am I imagining the closeness we had?
Q. I met a guy a year ago. We flirted by text and met up a few times. We stopped contact for a while then met up again and connected and had good chemistry. He was very affectionate and seemed genuine. We had sex and he was very loving and it was ...
A. 5 August 2011: Thanks again for replies. Very interesting to get a different perspective. I don't consider myself naive and think I'm a good judge of character so was really hurt and thought we would at least stay friends but he has completely cut off . Well maybe ... (read in full...)
Am I imagining the closeness we had?
Q. I met a guy a year ago. We flirted by text and met up a few times. We stopped contact for a while then met up again and connected and had good chemistry. He was very affectionate and seemed genuine. We had sex and he was very loving and it was ...
A. 4 August 2011: Thanks so much for replies. I undersood both .I did text him but got no reply. I think it was just a one off and need to move on.x... (read in full...)
Am I imagining the closeness we had?
Q. I met a guy a year ago. We flirted by text and met up a few times. We stopped contact for a while then met up again and connected and had good chemistry. He was very affectionate and seemed genuine. We had sex and he was very loving and it was ...
A. 4 August 2011: Thanks so much for replies. I undersood both .I did text him but got no reply. I think it was just a one off and need to move on.x... (read in full...)
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