Is she interested in me at all or just being nice? Or is she msybe unsure of her or my feelings, or where we are at?
Q. A girl I really like. We work for the same company but not together. A long time ago, the word got out I liked her. She was getting back with a bf so rejected me. I don't know if they're still together. At work I was pleasant if I saw her but ou...
A. 22 November 2014: We never went out- she ended up changing her mind because she got back with her ex. Guess you were right Tisha.
I feel like the world's biggest loser.
Thanks for listening.
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Is she interested in me at all or just being nice? Or is she msybe unsure of her or my feelings, or where we are at?
Q. A girl I really like. We work for the same company but not together. A long time ago, the word got out I liked her. She was getting back with a bf so rejected me. I don't know if they're still together. At work I was pleasant if I saw her but ou...
A. 11 October 2014: Hey
Just a quick update for anyone reading- I asked her if she was interested in going out one time and she said yes! I've got her phone number and we are planning to try do something next week. :)... (read in full...)
What does this colleague want? She knows I like her, but she has a boyfriend.
Q. I'll keep this as brief as I can. A girl I really like. We work together. The word got out I liked her. She was getting back with a bf so rejected me. At work I was pleasant if I saw her but our paths rarely crossed. I tried to avoid her as...
A. 25 May 2014: It means I ask them out and they say no. That, or they push me into a friendship zone when they think I am going to ask them.... (read in full...)
What does this colleague want? She knows I like her, but she has a boyfriend.
Q. I'll keep this as brief as I can. A girl I really like. We work together. The word got out I liked her. She was getting back with a bf so rejected me. At work I was pleasant if I saw her but our paths rarely crossed. I tried to avoid her as...
A. 25 May 2014: I'd like to just say thank you to everyone who has taken time to reply to this question. Your time, knowledge and opinions are much appreciated. Tisha-1 : yes, it's fair to say I'm shy and lacking in confidence- rejection seems a constant in my l... (read in full...)
What does this colleague want? She knows I like her, but she has a boyfriend.
Q. I'll keep this as brief as I can. A girl I really like. We work together. The word got out I liked her. She was getting back with a bf so rejected me. At work I was pleasant if I saw her but our paths rarely crossed. I tried to avoid her as...
A. 30 April 2014: I never asked her out. I told someone I liked her and this person blabbed to her at a party about it and she told the person she was getting back with an ex so that was that. I appreciate my question seems a bit desperate. But I have tried to ju... (read in full...)
What does this colleague want? She knows I like her, but she has a boyfriend.
Q. I'll keep this as brief as I can. A girl I really like. We work together. The word got out I liked her. She was getting back with a bf so rejected me. At work I was pleasant if I saw her but our paths rarely crossed. I tried to avoid her as...
A. 30 April 2014: No Tisha it is someone else.
I feel embarrassed posting this question, given the overwhelming volume of answers veering the same way.
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Is this his way of asking whether I'm single or not?
Q. I know this guy from a book club, we used to meet about 5 years or so ago. We kept in touch through e-mails. We're continents apart and whenever he writes or I write back, he addresses me like so: Dear Miss/Mrs.Name... he insists on using this we...
A. 22 March 2014: Why don't you do the same back to him ("Dear Mr."), and see what his reaction is.... (read in full...)
I have an athletic body, but no boobs. Are my friends right about the comments, I'm now self conscious guys will be put off!!?
Q. I feel really self conscious about my body after the comments from people I live with at uni, now I think they're right that a guy wont like my body or maybe I should get surgery, or gain weight, anything to change myself. I'm not that tall, only ...
A. 29 September 2012: You sound absolutely beautiful. And all those making comments so absolutely jealous.
Nothing that you have mentioned would put me off you. I actually prefer girls with smaller boobs. Lots of hot athletic girls have that gap because they are... (read in full...)
Why are guys so quiet after sex?
Q. why are guys so quiet after sex? after sex all my boyfriend wants to do is sleep and hardly talks. seems like hes in a bad mood. usually im not the type to always be that sleepy after sex. i dont mind laying there and cuddling but i cant just lay ...
A. 30 October 2011: Odds is absolutely correct. After we have orgasmed, we become kinda sleepy and just want to sleep or lay back and unwind.... (read in full...)
Is it time to ask him if he likes me or not?
Q. Hello Cupid! I've been good friends with this guy for several months, and we talk/hangout pretty often. We have a lot in common (not to mention that we are from the same state), but deep down I have a crush on him. Even though we have this connec...
A. 27 October 2011: Please, just go for it! Put your feelings out there.
For all you know, he might think you aren't interested because you are on dates with people other than him.
Maybe he's shy to ask you because this time it means more and he's reluctant t... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I can take these rejections anymore! How do I stop myself getting carried away?
Q. I know this is probably one of the most common things on here so i apologize if i repaet anyone. Went on a first date the other day and when i asked the girl if she wanted to meet up again, she said she just wanted to be friends. I was very keen,...
A. 27 October 2011: Mate, rejection is the worst feeling in the world. Rejection from your sports team, rejection for a job and especially rejection from a girl. I hate it. But so does everyone.
Really, I suggest just leaving it where it is (the past) and dust... (read in full...)
I really like this girl at work. Does she feel the same?
Q. I've worked with a girl for 4 years. Not along side her, but for the same company. So I have not had much chance to get to know her. But I have had a crush on her for years. Whenever I've tried to talk to her she is very shy, and almost as if...
A. 30 August 2011: She has just added me on facebook recently. Is this a sign, or just being friendly?... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and never been kissed. I need a confidence boost. Help!
Q. Dear Cupid, okay, so... I'm really glad i found this site because this crap is eating me alive. Here is the whole story..short. I am 17 years old. I'm not that pretty and I'm big. Not massively huge but big. My appearance really makes me insec...
A. 13 June 2011: I see one key problem here. You are too busy trying to lose your V tag, you're running your self respect, and confidence into the ground.
Go back to page 1 of this whole scenario. You don't even seem to be communicating with this guy. You don'... (read in full...)
Is there really an issue with age difference if I am over 18?
Q. is it wrong for me to like older men i am 18 and i am wondering what people think the right age of older men i being 18 should go for 18-20 21-23 24-26 27-29 30+ which do you think would be the oldest older man suitable if you where concerned...
A. 13 June 2011: Age is truly just a number. I know girls younger than my youngest sister, yet to me they look and act far older. Maybe that's a reflection on my sister looking young, or perhaps it's because I view other girls and my sister in far different lights ... (read in full...)
We kissed and now my mouth is bruised and hurts. Is that normal?
Q. I'll be quick. I went to my BF's house yesterday, we Frenched kissed(I've nvr done it before) and now part of my lip is purple and my tongue hurts. Is that normal?...
A. 13 June 2011: Maybe he suffers from cold sores and has passed the disease on to you? Give it time, don't worry.
Maybe your tongue is just sore because it's been busy? Again, give it time and see how it goes.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
How can I deal with this rejection from a girl?
Q. After meticulous assessment of a girl following rejection after asking them out, what can i do to get back on my feet? I feel i've grown a little cold over years, and high school is a very discouraging environment. How do i recognize love in myself ...
A. 8 November 2010: Wow, I identify with you, my friend. The only difference is I'm over 10 years older than you. There's some positivity for you to start off with. Anyway... I think the best thing you can do in this situation (and I got hugely rejected around ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with this rejection from a girl?
Q. After meticulous assessment of a girl following rejection after asking them out, what can i do to get back on my feet? I feel i've grown a little cold over years, and high school is a very discouraging environment. How do i recognize love in myself ...
A. 8 November 2010: Wow, I identify with you, my friend. The only difference is I'm over 10 years older than you. There's some positivity for you to start off with. Anyway...
I think the best thing you can do in this situation (and I got hugely rejected around a... (read in full...)
The only woman I have ever loved doesn't want me to contact her anymore
Q. I AM A FN EMOTIONAL DISASTER! I am still in love with The Only Woman I Have Ever Loved, and while she informed me that she did not feel the same for me I accepted it and have tried with all my strength and know-how to respect and honor her demand ...
A. 29 October 2010: Total cold turkey treatment needed here I'm afraid, mate. You are never going to get over her unless you make a clean break as she has. Even if you do have all these feelings, you know sharing with her is futile, so it's time to stop.
The first po... (read in full...)
Is Internet hook up with older guy safe?!
Q. [Mod Note: OP's own title] Hi, I'm 17 and from the uk. I've known a guy for a year and a half off the Internet. He is older than me (46) and I'm going to meet him soon, he's driving up to where I live and were meeting in a hotel. My friend knows an...
A. 11 August 2010: If you have to go through with this, take someone you know with you. Maybe he is geuine and decent, but the chances that something bad may happen cannot be ignored too.... (read in full...)
She pretended to be someone else and when we met her appearance was a turn off for me, what should I do?
Q. So here's my story. Last summer, I started talking to a girl online. We slowly fell in love with each other, but she always said that she couldn't come to see me because she was in another country. We talked on the phone every night and online...
A. 18 May 2010: I think you just have to be honest with her. You don't have the right feelings for her to be a couple. And it sounds like you're hanging around with her out of sympathy. This is both giving her false hope and stopping you finding a proper ... (read in full...)
Situation with my ex girlfriend....
Q. My ex started talking to me yesterday online 6 months after we broke up. We haven't spoken since then. So her talking and asking how I was was rather put of the blue. The conversation ended with her suggesting that we go on holiday together. What...
A. 17 May 2010: Thanks for all the advice so far. Like some ofyou have said, I'm taking it slow so as to avoid getting hurt. But then again why would she suggest going away if we were done? Would going away together not make it awkward if she only wanted to be a ... (read in full...)
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