Why am I looking up someone from my past? I wouldn't leave my boyfriend for him anyways
Q. Hi everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read this. So here's the thing. I have been with my partner for many years and he's everything I could have asked for. But once every (approximately) year I go online and look up someone from my ...
A. 6 November 2016: I would say,it's a human nature to be curious about people in your past--as long as you don't contact this person or have any desire to be with him then I wouldn't worry about it .I presume you're doing this out of boredom or curiosity and nothing ... (read in full...)
My landlady still hasn't given me a lease to sign but is charging me extra rent for each time my boyfriend stays over. How do I handle this?
Q. Hey guys. Never been in this situation before and could really use a second opinion or two. I moved into a houseshare with a live-in landlady at the beginning of last month. I started off renting a single room, for which my landlady had sti...
A. 5 November 2016: After reading your update..It's best to move on .I wouldn't be happy living under those conditions too...That's too much.Good luckin your future endeavors OP... (read in full...)
Ex has started dating an 18 year old guy! How do I deal with this shocking news?
Q. My ex boyfriend (3 year relationship, broke up with me 6 weeks ago due to him feeling neglected due to my depression and OCD) told me this week that he is now in a relationship with an 18 year old boy... My ex and I are both 27....... One week ...
A. 4 November 2016: As others As others have rightly pointed out,he is your ex now.What he does now is nor longer your concern nor your business.It's time to move on
To start, you need to break contact. The fact that you want him and he doesn't want you means yo... (read in full...)
I was asked out on a date by an older man? Should I go?
Q. Hello all, hope you’re having a good day? :) I haven’t posted on here for a very long time, so apologies if I forget some rules. I was at the bus stop the other day waiting for my usual bus to get home in the early evening. A gentleman was th...
A. 3 November 2016: I get a creepy vibe from this too.If you decide to meet him, then just make sure you meet in netrual public place with your own transportation and let a friend or relative know were you're going. Keep us updated OP. ... (read in full...)
Should I try dating her again? She's a good friend but she's played me in the past
Q. I am unsure what to choose. I have know a girl for over 4 years. In the first year I met her, I knew she was seeing guys (mostly footballers), and basically having fun. I bided my time to wait until she stopped seeing guys and wanted something...
A. 30 October 2016: I'd stay with the new girl..The other girl is just using you as a fall back guy.She isn't all that interested in you or she'll be with you.You're just a crutch she comes back to for support when her ego is crushed with other guys.Nothing more. Run ... (read in full...)
Girls seem to show interest in me, but why don't they want to date me?
Q. So I meet this girl at work and we started talking and I was surprised at how easy and effortless it was to talk to her. We seemed to share many same hobbies and stuff. She seemed to like me and was single at the time, anyways while we were talking ...
A. 30 October 2016: In my opinion I'd say the girl from work wasn't interested in you... She was just friendly and enjoyed your attention but was not interested anything more.
Additionally, you asked her for her number and she politely brushed you off...that was your... (read in full...)
I gave him my number, he hasn't called and I can't call him!
Q. I met a boy when we were both on holiday and I gave him my number. We were in a place with no mobile signal and no wifi so he promised to text/call me when he got home. I know that he got home 5 days ago and he still hasn't got in contact with me. I ...
A. 30 October 2016:
Did he initially ask for your number or you gave him unsolicited?Either way,I would wait to see if he gets in touch.If he doesn't then it's safe to assume he isn't interested... (read in full...)
Why do some exes reach out after some time has passed only to go cold again?
Q. I was with my ex on and off for few years and we live 4 hours apart.We finally broke it off for good when he met someone else closer.However, he started to reach out to more than year later.He left several messages on fb , telling me that he misses ...
A. 6 August 2016: I asked him if he's still with the girl he met he said they broke up... things didn't work out.So he's single , according to him.I even sent him a text and told him that I was planning to visit him this month but I'm not sure anyone since he's being ... (read in full...)
Should I mention I found out he's leaving?
Q. I have built a rapport with my co worker and I fell for my co worker but we work in different departments.We have little to no work related interactions.He's always friendly and was giving off subtle signs of interest. However, 1 month ago I decided ...
A. 5 July 2016: Well I already blocked him on Facebook so I won't be tempted to look him up again. Furthermore, I was already planning to leave the company in few months because I hate my job...he was one of the bright spots that motivated me togo to work. I ... (read in full...)
Should I hand my co-worker a note saying that I like him and would like to get to know him better?
Q. I like one of my co-workers.We work in completely unrelated departments.(we don't have work-related contact) However, we seem to run into each other walking in and out of conference rooms, hallways ,elavotors and staff rooms. He now always make it a ...
A. 28 May 2016: I'm also aware that he could be just friendly and nothing else but I just want to put my mind at ease knowing one way or another. If he isn't interested then at least I know and can move than try to gauge his interest....wondering what if .I just ... (read in full...)
Should I hand my co-worker a note saying that I like him and would like to get to know him better?
Q. I like one of my co-workers.We work in completely unrelated departments.(we don't have work-related contact) However, we seem to run into each other walking in and out of conference rooms, hallways ,elavotors and staff rooms. He now always make it a ...
A. 28 May 2016: Thank you everyone for your replies.I decided not to give him a note for the reasons you aunts stated.Howeever, I'm going to ask him if he's married/in a relationship next time I see him.Like I said, I don't know his last name nor do we have mutual ... (read in full...)
Should I hand my co-worker a note saying that I like him and would like to get to know him better?
Q. I like one of my co-workers.We work in completely unrelated departments.(we don't have work-related contact) However, we seem to run into each other walking in and out of conference rooms, hallways ,elavotors and staff rooms. He now always make it a ...
A. 27 May 2016: I also want to add that I don't know his last name so checking his fb is not an option.We don't have mutual friends so I might have to bluntly ask him if he has a wife/Girlfriend... (read in full...)
Should I hand my co-worker a note saying that I like him and would like to get to know him better?
Q. I like one of my co-workers.We work in completely unrelated departments.(we don't have work-related contact) However, we seem to run into each other walking in and out of conference rooms, hallways ,elavotors and staff rooms. He now always make it a ...
A. 27 May 2016: How about giving him a note with just my number on it and ask him to text me sometime? The thing is, I'm planning to leave the company in the near future and I feel like I will regret not taking the chance regardless of the outcome.Like i said, I ... (read in full...)
I want to ask him to hangout platonically without pressure of being a date. How do I go about it?
Q. There's this guy at my work who just got hired 3 months ago. Initially, We hardly talked to each other and I was indifferent towards him. This all changed few weeks later when I ran into him in stairway-the first thing he asked was if I go to the ...
A. 18 March 2016: Well slippers,your policy on "if he wanted to he would have already asked me" is merely SUBJECTIVE and not FACT. You know they're always exceptions to this policy right? It's 2016 - granted ,in today's society, women fought to get sim... (read in full...)
Would it be too forward if I got my crush's phone and put my number in it?
Q. i have a crush on this guy that works at my local coffee shop and I'm pretty sure that he like me too. every time i go in, he would give me compliments and ask about my day. for example yesterday he gave me a hug and told me i smelled really good ...
A. 18 March 2016: Are you sure he's single?I think there are rare exceptions to "if he's not asking you out then he's either not interested in dating you or not available". (especially if you are flirtatious/show interest). Could be he just likes the attention he ... (read in full...)
He never initiates! Is he into me?
Q. I've been dating a great guy for two months. He texts me every day and is very sweet. We have gone out on some dates but usually only on weekends. I mentioned wanting to spend a bit more time with him more than once a week and he thought that was ...
A. 16 March 2016: He's not that into to you. When guys are into you they make an effort to be with you.If a guy doesn't chase you (initiate calls, texts, dates, etc.), I would say they are not that interested in you. I would quit chasing him. If he's interested ... (read in full...)
He just wanted to hook up...why is he texting me ?
Q. I posted a thread about a guy who was giving the impression that he just wanted sex and subsequently disappeared when I made it clear that I'm looking for someone to date . Here is recap of this saga -I met a guy when I was out and he gave me h...
A. 16 March 2016: Thank you everyone for your answers
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I now try to avoid her. Would it be wrong to ignore my co-worker when she says 'hi' to me at work?
Q. One of my co worker pointed out that I had put on weight in front of other 2 co workers that she works with on her overnight shifts. Then she was like ``Canadians don't want to be told ``with smile on her face. Then she had the nerve to ask me if I ...
A. 11 May 2015: She is African.If she was concerned about my health then she should talked to me privately not embarrassed me in front of other people like that. also how is another co worker weight your business or concern?Its not like people are not aware of... (read in full...)
I now try to avoid her. Would it be wrong to ignore my co-worker when she says 'hi' to me at work?
Q. One of my co worker pointed out that I had put on weight in front of other 2 co workers that she works with on her overnight shifts. Then she was like ``Canadians don't want to be told ``with smile on her face. Then she had the nerve to ask me if I ...
A. 10 May 2015: Even if she is one of those people who have no filter and say things before they think, I still woudnt want to associate myself with her or be around her because what else she is going to say again without intending to be hurtful? I don't know what ... (read in full...)
I now try to avoid her. Would it be wrong to ignore my co-worker when she says 'hi' to me at work?
Q. One of my co worker pointed out that I had put on weight in front of other 2 co workers that she works with on her overnight shifts. Then she was like ``Canadians don't want to be told ``with smile on her face. Then she had the nerve to ask me if I ...
A. 9 May 2015: Thanks for your response but why would I go out of my way to talk to someone who publicly embarrassed me and insulted me? That's not the kind of friend I want.Its a good thing we work opposite shifts but if I were to work with her I would only talk ... (read in full...)
How can I tell someone to stop flirting with me in a work place?
Q. There is this older man at work who is getting too friendly and I want to put a stop to it.I don't work with him everyday since I have a part time casual position and he has permanent position on different floor. I am casual wh...
A. 4 April 2015: Thank you guys for your response.Just to clarify,he is a married man with grown children.How is possible that he has a crush on me if he married? ... (read in full...)
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