Is it a good idea to send a ''thanks (not) for the memories," to my ex, or should I just leave it alone?
Q. I want to let my ex know that Im finally happy thanks to him. We were together for 4 years but messing around for 5 1/2. He cheated the whole time but I loved him so much I stayed. I finally came to my senses and left even after I left I still went...
A. 6 February 2012: thanks you guys
to cindycare its funny you said that everyone always ask me how hes doing and I always say I dnt know. I havent talk to him since november. My mom asked me do I care how he's doing I said no I dnt care if he dead or alive I would ... (read in full...)
Breaking down signals
Q. This is one of those times where your stuck trying to analyse everything to figure out what they mean... but it's driving me insane, so I guess I'm looking for opinions to see if any of this is means that this girl likes me or not. I met this gir...
A. 6 February 2012: I think you should keep it cool for right now. it seem asthough she likes you :) if you see her at the pool and shes acting strange then something is bothering her but if shes the same then just talk and text as friends and things will happen on its ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend not attracted to me anymore?
Q. I am 24 and I have been with my 25 year old boyfriend for 3 years. I'm not sure if this is all in my head, or something I'm reading in our relationship... but I don't feel like he is very attracted to me.. mentally, emotionally and sexually. :/...
A. 31 January 2012: I want to let you know that you are not a failure, failures dont try and you do!. So him not being supportive of you isnt healthy at all. I would leave, it will better you. at the end of the day he's really not feeling you so why stick around and ... (read in full...)
Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated on her with me?
Q. Hey everyone, i need advice. Ok heres my story, i have a guy friend who i have been friends since with the 9th grade. were in our early 20s now. i have had a crush on him since high school but never acted on it because i was really shy. an...
A. 31 January 2012: I dont think you should tell her since its been over a year. I think you should have told her at the time. I understand you feel bad I would too. Sence you two are friends I would write a anonymous letter so that she do know he's a cheater...... (read in full...)
We hooked up twice and now he ignores me
Q. hey there, so i have a slight problem, i have this friend we use to date back in the day but it didnt work out for a few reasons, but recently we have partied with each other a couple times we hooked up twice, he does have a girlfriend and i feel h...
A. 29 January 2012: I think he's trying to have his cake and eat it too but it dont work like that...
A friend probably told his gf that you two were close and she made him choose again. If he keep stringing you alone he dont really like you as much as you would like... (read in full...)
PREGNANT! Help! How do I tell him?
Q. Hello all, I think I may be pregnant. The issue I would like to ask you all about it how to talk to my boyfriend about it. First off, should I tell him right away before I know for sure? Or should I wait until I do know, and then tell him? I feel l...
A. 29 January 2012: I would sit down and talk to him. Let him know whats going on so you guys can discuss how you want to handle things etc... You should also take a hpt to see if you are. Ask him do he want to be there while you take it, well wait for the results, ... (read in full...)
My husband is set on naming our baby after a child his mother miscarried years ago and I know I will regret chosing this name....what should I do?
Q. I am officially 3 months pregnant!! I have been thinking of names... The only problem is that my husband is set on the name Zoe, which i love, but i know he wants that name because his mother had picked that name for her baby that she miscarried a ...
A. 28 January 2012: i would use it for the middle name or a nickname...... (read in full...)
Should I drop all my male friends?
Q. I have a bf who I love to pieces... but I still talk to all of my ex's, I think it kinds of bother him in a way... he brung it up before but I told him it nothing to worry about. I have never cheated in any of my relationships. I really dont ...
A. 27 January 2012: Thanks for all you guys answers,
My thing is he knew I dont get alone with female and I meet him threw a male friend. I hung around them 24/7...
I cut all my ex's off and kept all my male friends and I am sooo bored now I have 2 male frie... (read in full...)
My husband is against abortions but doesn't know I may be pregnant. Is it wrong to get an abortion and never tell him?
Q. How wrong would it be to have an abortion without my husband's knowledge? He is completely against abortion, but we have a 5 month old baby and I don't want anymore kids now. I misused my new birth control pills accidentally. He doesn't know that I ...
A. 26 January 2012: I think you should let him know and talk things through, let him know how you feel about the situation...
I hope everything work out for you two...... (read in full...)
Was it right to tell the father of my child, someone on drugs who has been harassing me, that the child isn't actually his?
Q. hi. ok so i really do understand about all the parental rights and everything (i think!) but could really really use a bit of advice!! please be honest.. please dont judge but please dont just be nice to me... im 19 years old and im 20 weeks pr...
A. 26 January 2012: I think you did the right thing. Hes nothing but stress and a harmful person for you and your child to be around...... (read in full...)
His crazy ex endlessly contacts him and now knows our address, and sent him a card, what should I do?
Q. Hi aunts... I need some help. My boyfriend of two years had a very mentally unstable girlfriend about 6 years ago. He still cares about her and wants to help her be happy, but they aren't talking atm because she is inappropriate when it comes to...
A. 5 January 2012: dont help him help her, yes he wants to be nice and help out with her child but at the end of the day its not his he has his own life and household to worry about. im going through the same thing right now... its hard on you and him and especially ... (read in full...)
My ex and I kissed and were flirting and we are both with others!
Q. Hello I am very confused at the moment, my ex broke up with me a year ago, and a couple of months ago i found out through FB (he wasn't very careful with his privacy) that he was dating this other girl (much younger) and apparently he wa...
A. 5 January 2012: i been where you are i think you should just leave him alone you two can still speak but nothing more. he probably dont want you to be happy with out him so he's gonna try and string you alone. he cant have his cake and eat it too... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's crazy ex is harassing me. Should I just end things?
Q. my boyfriend had a crazy ex who pops up at his house and now she's calling my phone and writing me on fb off his pg she hacked into. they havent been together for almost a year. she got him put in jail a few weeks back for something dumb that she ...
A. 4 January 2012: hes making a new pg when he come home and its really easy to hack someone pg trust me!. and he changed his number but when you sit outside someone door waiting for them you bound to see them, duh she came by her self and then came bcak with her ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's crazy ex is harassing me. Should I just end things?
Q. my boyfriend had a crazy ex who pops up at his house and now she's calling my phone and writing me on fb off his pg she hacked into. they havent been together for almost a year. she got him put in jail a few weeks back for something dumb that she ...
A. 3 January 2012: thanks for the answers and i understand where yall are coming from but i love him so much it was like love at first site something different from what we normally feel for someone.
we dont plan to get married this yr and the kids wont be anytime ... (read in full...)
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